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Tifalockheart's photo
Fri 08/23/13 07:04 PM
I THOUGHT THIS WAS GOOOD TO SHARE WITH YOU ALL PLEASE DON'T HATE. :smile:



When an old man died in the geriatric ward of a nursing home in an Australian country town, it was believed that he had nothing left of any value.
Later, when the nurses were going through his meager possessions, They found this poem. Its quality and content so impressed the staff that copies were made and distributed to every nurse in the hospital.

One nurse took her copy to Melbourne. The old man's sole bequest to posterity has since appeared in the Christmas editions of magazines around the country and appearing in mags for Mental Health. A slide presentation has also been made based on his simple, but eloquent, poem.

And this old man, with nothing left to give to the world, is now the author of this 'anonymous' poem winging across the Internet.

Cranky Old Man

What do you see nurses? . . .. . .What do you see?
What are you thinking .. . when you're looking at me?
A cranky old man, . . . . . .not very wise,
Uncertain of habit .. . . . . . . .. with faraway eyes?
Who dribbles his food .. . ... . . and makes no reply.
When you say in a loud voice . .'I do wish you'd try!'
Who seems not to notice . . .the things that you do.
And forever is losing . . . . . .. . . A sock or shoe?
Who, resisting or not . . . ... lets you do as you will,
With bathing and feeding . . . .The long day to fill?
Is that what you're thinking?. .Is that what you see?
Then open your eyes, nurse .you're not looking at me.
I'll tell you who I am . . . . .. As I sit here so still,
As I do at your bidding, .. . . . as I eat at your will.
I'm a small child of Ten . .with a father and mother,
Brothers and sisters .. . . .. . who love one another
A young boy of Sixteen . . . .. with wings on his feet
Dreaming that soon now . . .. . . a lover he'll meet.
A groom soon at Twenty . . . ..my heart gives a leap.
Remembering, the vows .. .. .that I promised to keep.
At Twenty-Five, now . . . . .I have young of my own.
Who need me to guide . . . And a secure happy home.
A man of Thirty . .. . . . . My young now grown fast,
Bound to each other . . .. With ties that should last.
At Forty, my young sons .. .have grown and are gone,
But my woman is beside me . . to see I don't mourn.
At Fifty, once more, .. ...Babies play 'round my knee,
Again, we know children . . . . My loved one and me.
Dark days are upon me . . . . My wife is now dead.
I look at the future ... . . . . I shudder with dread.
For my young are all rearing .. . . young of their own.
And I think of the years . . . And the love that I've known.
I'm now an old man . . . . . . .. and nature is cruel.
It's jest to make old age . . . . . . . look like a fool.
The body, it crumbles .. .. . grace and vigour, depart.
There is now a stone . . . where I once had a heart.
But inside this old carcass . A young man still dwells,
And now and again . . . . . my battered heart swells
I remember the joys . . . . .. . I remember the pain.
And I'm loving and living . . . . . . . life over again.
I think of the years, all too few . . .. gone too fast.
And accept the stark fact . . . that nothing can last.
So open your eyes, people .. . . . .. . . open and see.
Not a cranky old man .
Look closer . . . . see .. .. . .. .... . ME!!

Remember this poem when you next meet an older person who you might brush aside without looking at the young soul within. We will all, one day, be there, too!

PLEASE SHARE THIS POEM!
The best and most beautiful things of this world can't be seen or touched. They must be felt by the heart!

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Fri 08/23/13 07:35 PM
It's beautiful Tifa.
Thanks for sharing! flowerforyou

Queene123's photo
Fri 08/23/13 08:49 PM
this was actually on here before

and yes i do agree this is a good one


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Fri 08/23/13 09:23 PM
Beautiful story and poem !

flowerforyou

missbeebee's photo
Tue 08/27/13 02:11 PM
Seen this post a few times on f/b ..always tugs at my heart strings :'(

Sharris's photo
Tue 08/27/13 05:58 PM
So very poignant. Thank you for sharing this. You see, it is a year since my Dad passed. He was 91. He was the only man who loved me my whole life...quite an accomplishment. I don't know why, but I always think of him and my Mother together. This year she would have been 90. Last week, Mrs. Whitney went in her sleep. She used to be an alcoholic. When she found purpose in her life with Christ, she gave that up. She would surely tell you if you were doing wrong. She was 99.I don't think she was sorry she didn't make it to 100. My sweet mother-in-law, Miss Kitty will be 90. She is in a nursing home and surely will warm you with her smile. I love these hearts and especially my Hannah, a nurse. She is one that gets to care for her Gma Kitty every day. This reading brought out so many cherished thoughts and memories...Thank you again.

Tifalockheart's photo
Wed 09/11/13 10:16 PM
Wow thanks everyone this is worth sharing a very wise guy, it just sad that no one listens, people tend to for get that our elders are beautiful loving an caring people. much love to give..i must say...
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