Ahh. Youth is wasted on the young....

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It all abt commitment

I just don't feel the need to sign a piece of paper, or throw a big ceremony, to show a guy I love him. Making me a nice meal, or a hot drink is enough to show me he appreciates me. I feel slightly nauses about getting married, because I feel it's all for show. Everyone watches you. I already have a BIRTH certificate, and then my DEATH certificate, so a contract is the least of my worries. I just want to live happily, and then die, without the all the headaches that may come with divorce-Your inlaws, more legal documents to sign, court, meh. That list is endless. At least if I break up with him, they'll be no divorce drama.

years, having kids etc.marriage is saying to world we are one.it is committing.... if he can not commit, he does not fit....... if he gets everything that comes with marriage before hand you should feel used.da........ do not fall for that crap.........tell him if gets what he wants......you get what you want........he is not the only game in town.

amen.......we all need a moral compass......

wish i had a crystal ball and see around corners like so many young people.for some pain is a good teacher..........

Relationships are most aptly defined by their emotional content and not their structure as people tend to follow structure when they have content so when you stop loving someone you soon leave independent of marriage or not as its difficult to stay in a loveless place too long....The desire for permanence is strong but is not necessarily a healthy need as it often forces people into choices that are not tenable.Just as sexual attraction gets people excited and they fail to use precautions and end with STDs and unwanted children by not managing their sexual desires and emotional needs for closeness and intimacy..

could you say that in english.

I prefer a "relationship" that leads to marriage. Otherwise, I will just date until I meet the right Man for a true relationship. I do not get into "relationships" like FWB.

In a nut shell, he's saying a loveless marriage can lead to cheating just as uncontrolled passion can result in unwanted pregnancies and/or socially transmitted disease....It's a chitty comparison, but he's probably right....

I'm all for marriage... but of course a strong relationship prior is fundamental! Hmmmm... Patiently waiting for my wedding day

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STICK TO YOUR GUNS,,,,,DON'T RUSH ,,,,HE IS OUT THERE.