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Topic: Fellas....if you had to choose...
sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 08/10/13 01:33 AM
Boys will be boys. Toys are just that, toys. A loving relationship should be forever. I would also give up my boy toy for a good relationship. not sure that I would

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Sat 08/10/13 11:38 AM
Could you give up your boy toys for the good of your relationship? Could you give up your motorcycle, boat, or man cave or comparable items. Would you walk away, or sacrifice and stay? Would it matter if it were an established relationship or someone new who you really cared for? This is a conspiracy to get guys to part with their things because women don't like guys to have them, they come up with ways to get you to part with them. You must have heard the words, "You think more of that ********** than you do of me!" Sorry and all that, but unless it is a question of life or death it isn't going to happen. You can have the girlfriend/wife, all you need to do is take over the payments. Looking back....I actually may have liked my last boyfriends speed boat a little more than him. AND he was really pretty awesome.

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Sat 08/10/13 11:39 AM
Boys will be boys. Toys are just that, toys. A loving relationship should be forever. I would also give up my boy toy for a good relationship. not sure that I would So, you'll be inviting him to join you and your boyfriend in the bedroom, or just see him on your boyfriend's night out with the guys?

incagrass Joined Fri 07/19/13 Posts: 221	Sat 08/10/13 11:50 AM
Any guy got anything left to give up aint been divorced!

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 08/11/13 11:42 AM
Boys will be boys. Toys are just that, toys. A loving relationship should be forever. I would also give up my boy toy for a good relationship. not sure that I would So, you'll be inviting him to join you and your boyfriend in the bedroom, or just see him on your boyfriend's night out with the guys? no boyfriend...not necessary

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Sun 08/11/13 11:43 AM
Could you give up your boy toys for the good of your relationship? Could you give up your motorcycle, boat, or man cave or comparable items. Would you walk away, or sacrifice and stay? Would it matter if it were an established relationship or someone new who you really cared for? I don't need boy toys, I'll take Jo any day, hands down, no questions asked.

Mirage4279 Joined Sat 09/04/10 Posts: 2466	Sun 08/11/13 06:55 PM
Sure....I would sacrifice for the good thing I got. These days...it is no longer about me...it is about we. That must of been the statue that Krupa is riding on doing the typing on that response.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Sun 08/11/13 06:59 PM
Any guy got anything left to give up aint been divorced! Yes, Dr. McCoy.

eyesoftexas Joined Sat 04/27/13 Posts: 53	Sun 08/11/13 08:37 PM
Hello all... I am new but this was an interesting question. May I ask OP why would the toys have to be given up ? Financial or taking up too much time in the relationship ?

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Mon 08/12/13 02:09 PM
Hello all... I am new but this was an interesting question. May I ask OP why would the toys have to be given up ? Financial or taking up too much time in the relationship ? Yes, I didn't make that clear here. This would be a situation that arose from a hardship...not a hard witch.

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Tue 08/13/13 05:52 PM
what about the toys that make me $ ?

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Tue 08/13/13 06:01 PM Edited by 2KidsMom on Tue 08/13/13 06:02 PM
what about the toys that make me $ ? ((((Ride))))) where the hell you been??? Something funny I noticed..everyone calls you pony...n I call you ride.

HeadnHeart Joined Wed 06/02/10 Posts: 1270	Tue 08/13/13 07:01 PM
Well...this is easy. Since I don't really care about guy toys....cars ,bikes,guns,etc....it wouldn't bother me. What would bother me...would be a woman having the gall to ask me to give up something I like. That...I would construe as jealous insecurity. Everyone should get to retain some of their individuality. Sure there needs to be compromises...time together and time to still be your own person. If I was flat out told...."I don't want you to (fill in the blank)" I would be disappointed. Yeah....my bad. I should have clarified the point better. By "for the good of your relationship" I meant that it's a good relationship but going through a hardship of some sort. No one is making any demands. It would be your own choice to give something up for the sake of the relationship....to be able to stay together. Sure I would, I've done it before. I sold my Toy Hauler trailer, dirt bikes, quad my PA system and a Les Paul guitar I had, during the 911 time frame when marketing went to shiz and high-end jobs were scarce and I was layed off. Took a couple years but I gained most of it back. If I was told I cant have those hobbies any more, then that would most likely be a different story....

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Wed 08/14/13 04:39 AM
Could you give up your boy toys for the good of your relationship? Could you give up your motorcycle, boat, or man cave or comparable items. Would you walk away, or sacrifice and stay? Would it matter if it were an established relationship or someone new who you really cared for? i'd tell her to get out if i had to give up my stuff

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Wed 08/14/13 08:00 AM
what about the toys that make me $ ? Now that would just be nuts. This would fit well in the thread where I asked the gals a similar question though. If there were a risk of you losing your money making toys, hopefully your with one of the gals who would sell her shoes and purses to help you keep them.

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Wed 08/14/13 08:16 AM
Could you give up your boy toys for the good of your relationship? Could you give up your motorcycle, boat, or man cave or comparable items. Would you walk away, or sacrifice and stay? Would it matter if it were an established relationship or someone new who you really cared for? When I got married, she had two little boys, after awhile I gave up going to the dojo to spend more time with them and timed trips to hang out at a cigar store for weekends when they were with their dad. She did once pull the cord out of the socket when I was on the verge of destroying all mankind in WarCraft II

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Wed 08/14/13 08:17 AM
Well...this is easy. Since I don't really care about guy toys....cars ,bikes,guns,etc....it wouldn't bother me. What would bother me...would be a woman having the gall to ask me to give up something I like. That...I would construe as jealous insecurity. Everyone should get to retain some of their individuality. Sure there needs to be compromises...time together and time to still be your own person. If I was flat out told...."I don't want you to (fill in the blank)" I would be disappointed. Yeah....my bad. I should have clarified the point better. By "for the good of your relationship" I meant that it's a good relationship but going through a hardship of some sort. No one is making any demands. It would be your own choice to give something up for the sake of the relationship....to be able to stay together. Sure I would, I've done it before. I sold my Toy Hauler trailer, dirt bikes, quad my PA system and a Les Paul guitar I had, during the 911 time frame when marketing went to shiz and high-end jobs were scarce and I was layed off. Took a couple years but I gained most of it back. If I was told I cant have those hobbies any more, then that would most likely be a different story.... I think the only women who do that are those who need to believe THEY are your only source of joy. What they don't realize is that when we are free to endulge in multiple sources of happiness, that balance floods everything else with our love for life...especially our relationships.

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Wed 08/14/13 08:21 AM
Could you give up your boy toys for the good of your relationship? Could you give up your motorcycle, boat, or man cave or comparable items. Would you walk away, or sacrifice and stay? Would it matter if it were an established relationship or someone new who you really cared for? When I got married, she had two little boys, after awhile I gave up going to the dojo to spend more time with them and timed trips to hang out at a cigar store for weekends when they were with their dad. She did once pull the cord out of the socket when I was on the verge of destroying all mankind in WarCraft II That's harsh! I guess she didn't see your potential as a world ruler...as we do.

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Wed 08/14/13 08:25 AM
Could you give up your boy toys for the good of your relationship? Could you give up your motorcycle, boat, or man cave or comparable items. Would you walk away, or sacrifice and stay? Would it matter if it were an established relationship or someone new who you really cared for? When I got married, she had two little boys, after awhile I gave up going to the dojo to spend more time with them and timed trips to hang out at a cigar store for weekends when they were with their dad. She did once pull the cord out of the socket when I was on the verge of destroying all mankind in WarCraft II That's harsh! I guess she didn't see your potential as a world ruler...as we do. Having had studied the Classics, I would have followed Plato's Dictum for Tyrants

MoonsDragonLionWolf Joined Wed 05/08/13 Posts: 818	Wed 08/14/13 08:57 AM
My belongings are mine. If you can't accept that then you are not Luna, whom I seek & is the only girl that I would ever be with. I don't go around telling girls what they're allowed to posses so why would they try to tell me what I can have? I don't want the girl that I'm with to be my mother. Telling me what to do, nagging me for no reason, and being a total drag. I'm capable of making my own decisions. Just in case you don't know who I am. I am Lunar, The MoonsDragonLionWolf, Knight Of Moonlight!