in my mutual match section are users with deactivated accounts.
is there any way to clear these from the main page?

How do I remove someone from my Mutual Match list?
IF clicking on the wee box next to their name on your
MutualMatch list does not remove them, you can use this:
http://mingle2.com/mutual_match/delete_connection/XXXXXXX
where the 'Xs' represent their user-number.

To get their user-number, it is the last digits on their
profile page in the address box, replace the 'Xs' with those.

If you do not have an address bar, right click on their
(deactivated) user-name on their profile, click on 'Properties'
on the drop-down menu, and take the user-number from the URL
(link) provided.

This assumes you have already tried clicking the box next
to their name (on your MM page) and they are still there.