Topic: Is there a reason why you are single?
lonelyman3036's photo
Thu 07/10/14 02:09 AM
Because Blondey hasn't responded to even one of my repeated proposals!

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Thu 07/10/14 07:13 AM
Edited by MrWonderfll3000 on Thu 07/10/14 07:12 AM



Well, I'm soooooooooooo available for a relationship and it's not exactly as if women are tripping over themselves to save me from loneliness..:wink:
Hey, wait that doesn't work Ms Blondey, are you sure it was just one word? oops I'm so funny..
making me laugh .. That's cute ... desperate boy


You're not a desperate girl?

Just my luck...

But you don't know what you're missing!

Not that *I* know what you're missing, either...tongue2

Oh, whatever!

Have a good day...without me! brokenheart


rofl

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Fri 07/11/14 08:20 AM
I guess I'm single cause I have trust issues. Been hurt 1 too many times. But I'm still hopeful:)

Lilblessed's photo
Fri 07/11/14 08:34 AM
Cause I'm allot to handle for a average guy ;)

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Fri 07/11/14 08:39 AM
i expect to much but i wont lower my standards

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Fri 07/11/14 08:44 AM
because I am not going to settle for less than I deserve...:smile:

gibbs1602's photo
Fri 07/11/14 08:52 AM
:heart: .......because I know what I want and have chosen to remain single until I find him or he finds me.....:smile:

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Fri 07/11/14 08:54 AM
Good answer, I like that :)

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Fri 07/11/14 08:56 AM

:heart: .......because I know what I want and have chosen to remain single until I find him or he finds me.....:smile:

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 07/11/14 08:57 AM
Hummm I will remain single till I come across someone that changes my mind...

Single is not a bad thing....I can come and go as I please ...:thumbsup:

cha7385's photo
Sat 07/12/14 05:48 AM

:heart: .......because I know what I want and have chosen to remain single until I find him or he finds me.....:smile:


This!!! :thumbsup::thumbsup:
I deserve better...flowerforyou

MariahsFantasy's photo
Sat 07/12/14 09:31 AM
too busy trying to date myself.
it's going better than i thought.

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Sat 07/12/14 10:46 AM
Getting to comfortable with how things are now , fear of too much change, busy practically live at work who wants someone thats never home, good news is mingle has been a great outlet, so many good people right here, I never knew ide be content with just hanging out in the forums.

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Sat 07/12/14 10:59 AM


probably cuz I won;t "go along" or "give in" just to keep the peace. I stick to my guns when I think something is a bad idea or not in my best interests......I won;t allow them to "convince me" ....a lot of men can;t handle that (it drove my ex nuts)

I really do not argue, but also seldom give in. I will not tolerate being told what to do, nor do I allow anyone to "schedule" my free time for me....I am so independent that I cringe at the thought of having to justify to anyone where I am going tomorrow morning, or any morning for that matter. I'm hopeless I guess :)

me good lover - lousy wife...lol

I can understand your point. Men often can't handle a strong, independent woman. Difficult to find a man who doesn't feel threatened by your independence and strength and who can let you shine, treasure your joie de vivre etc. I got the same problem.
However, I don't think putting your foot down (I don't argue, I won't give in, I will not tolerate) is the way to go about it. You got to try to keep an open mind, not close the door in someone's face straight away. It's about communication. And if the other one doesn't understand or wants a partner that submits to his every whim, he's simply not the mature man you need.
Don't know whether you just go some bad experiences or if it's a culture thing where you live. (In some countries or areas it's still considered normal that a woman kind of submits.)

As for my own reasons for being single:
I am also looking for this so called mature man who will let me be me, doesn't feel threatened by a strong woman by his side (as in equals, next to each other). I'm not in a hurry to find this great match: I'm happy on my own, enjoying life. So I don't need a man to be happy again, as I'm already happy. (A statement ppl often make --> "I'm looking for a partner, cos I wanna feel happy again!" To me this means you're by no means ready for a partner at all!)
So I'm looking for the icing on the cake, and yes, I'm picky shades

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Sat 07/12/14 03:08 PM

Getting to comfortable with how things are now , fear of too much change, busy practically live at work who wants someone thats never home, good news is mingle has been a great outlet, so many good people right here, I never knew ide be content with just hanging out in the forums.


I love how you do your hair btw. Mine is too thick to sweep off to the side like you have. :smile:

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Sat 07/12/14 03:28 PM


Getting to comfortable with how things are now , fear of too much change, busy practically live at work who wants someone thats never home, good news is mingle has been a great outlet, so many good people right here, I never knew ide be content with just hanging out in the forums.


I love how you do your hair btw. Mine is too thick to sweep off to the side like you have. :smile:

Thank you for the compliment, ive always wanted to have thick hair.:smile:

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Sat 07/12/14 03:39 PM



Getting to comfortable with how things are now , fear of too much change, busy practically live at work who wants someone thats never home, good news is mingle has been a great outlet, so many good people right here, I never knew ide be content with just hanging out in the forums.


I love how you do your hair btw. Mine is too thick to sweep off to the side like you have. :smile:

Thank you for the compliment, ive always wanted to have thick hair.:smile:


:) I've always wanted to have straighter hair. Mine isn't as curly as my sister's hair but its thick and wavy, almost too wavy. embarassed

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Sat 07/12/14 04:53 PM
I am single cause I choose to be until someone can prove that they deserve what I have to offer and they are accepting of the person I am.:smile:

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Sat 07/12/14 05:02 PM
Single, probably because I have a heart to give away and I'm just waiting for someone who won't break it.
That's my excuse anyway

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Sat 07/12/14 06:31 PM
apparently it's because I am ugly and fat.....this is what I have been told....sad2 slaphead