Topic: Getting back into the game
pkh's photo
Tue 07/09/13 03:00 AM
Without getting into the whole long drawn out story. I met someone on here, opened my heart thought it was going well but after a month he asked for money. So I've lost all trust again was even thinking of deactivating. My good friend says just put it behind you and move on. Easier said then done. So I get this email his first question is what do you do for a living? So immediately I think he wants to know how much money I make so I told him I was a dancer at a strip club. So the trust issue is there and I don't think I even want to do this again. Could you jump right back in ? Or would you just forget it like me?

Journeyman236's photo
Tue 07/09/13 03:43 AM
Woo hoo what club do u dance at?
We will throw monopoly money at u
all nite to send to scammers!
You've been here long enough to know
better, who the real folks & ur friends are.
Dating, I guess u just gotta wing it.
Read the beginning of my profile p..
I ain't had one "dear I will like to chart"
message since I put that! I kinda miss
asking them to shart instead (scamscum)

pkh's photo
Tue 07/09/13 03:53 AM

Woo hoo what club do u dance at?
We will throw monopoly money at u
all nite to send to scammers!
You've been here long enough to know
better, who the real folks & ur friends are.
Dating, I guess u just gotta wing it.
Read the beginning of my profile p..
I ain't had one "dear I will like to chart"
message since I put that! I kinda miss
asking them to shart instead (scamscum)
that was good it took me two weeks but it won't happen again. Guess I should update my profile. Thanks

TBRich's photo
Tue 07/09/13 04:35 AM
Watching girls go passing by
It ain't the latest thing
I'm just standing in a doorway
I'm just trying to make some sense
Out of these girls go passing by
The tales they tell of men
I'm not waiting on a lady
I'm just waiting on a friend

A smile relieves a heart that grieves
Remember what I said
I'm not waiting on a lady
I'm just waiting on a friend
I'm just waiting on a friend

Don't need a whore
I don't need no booze
Don't need a virgin priest
But I need someone I can cry to
I need someone to protect
Making love and breaking hearts
It is a game for youth
But I'm not waiting on a lady
I'm just waiting on a friend

1Cynderella's photo
Tue 07/09/13 04:53 AM
The only thing I know for certain is that a lot of very real people will miss you in a very real way if you were to leave Mingle. flowerforyou

I've never talked to a scammer or poser before that I'm aware of, unless it were breif enough their agenda never surfaced...so have no advice on how to feel after. But do know your presence would be felt here. brokenheart

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 07/09/13 04:56 AM
You can give up without leaving.

I'm still here.smokin

pkh's photo
Tue 07/09/13 04:58 AM

The only thing I know for certain is that a lot of very real people will miss you in a very real way if you were to leave Mingle. flowerforyou

I've never talked to a scammer or poser before that I'm aware of, unless it were breif enough their agenda never surfaced...so have no advice on how to feel after. But do know your presence would be felt here. brokenheart
aww thank you I would miss everyone to much to leave I just am going to stay in the forums like I usually do I wasn't even looking and there he was. So thank you I appreciate that

no photo
Tue 07/09/13 04:59 AM

Woo hoo what club do u dance at?
We will throw monopoly money at u
all nite to send to scammers!
You've been here long enough to know
better, who the real folks & ur friends are.
Dating, I guess u just gotta wing it.
Read the beginning of my profile p..
I ain't had one "dear I will like to chart"
message since I put that! I kinda miss
asking them to shart instead (scamscum)


Dear,
Can we chart??




Now,we dont want you missing out!!

pkh's photo
Tue 07/09/13 04:59 AM

Watching girls go passing by
It ain't the latest thing
I'm just standing in a doorway
I'm just trying to make some sense
Out of these girls go passing by
The tales they tell of men
I'm not waiting on a lady
I'm just waiting oln a friend

A smile relieves a heart that grieves
Remember what I said
I'm not waiting on a lady
I'm just waiting on a friend
I'm just waiting on a friend

Don't need a whore
I don't need no booze
Don't need a virgin priest
But I need someone I can cry to
I need someone to protect
Making love and breaking hearts
It is a game for youth
But I'm not waiting on a lady
I'm just waiting on a friend

flowerforyou

pkh's photo
Tue 07/09/13 05:01 AM
I've been here a long time made a lot of friends this has never happened before. I won't let one creep scare me off

no photo
Tue 07/09/13 05:09 AM
Dearest,
Not a nice feeling...
BUT,dont let that spoil it all for you!


These are the bumps and humps of online dating-just like real life-we can never know! I'd say,always take your time to get to know a person.....go slow in investing emotions.


MO-crawl before you walk and walk before you run!
I know there are many who think/believe anyone above 35 is rich(man or woman)........so,they'd lead you on,spice you up before they feast on you!!


So,
Let's tread,ever so carefuly,cautiously,as we hunt!!


1j9b6c5's photo
Tue 07/09/13 05:22 AM

I've been here a long time made a lot of friends this has never happened before. I won't let one creep scare me off
...except for the part of "a lot of friends".

justme659's photo
Tue 07/09/13 06:10 AM


I ain't had one "dear I will like to chart"
message since I put that!



(4,2)(3,6)(-6,7)(4,-9)


pkh's photo
Tue 07/09/13 06:57 AM


I've been here a long time made a lot of friends this has never happened before. I won't let one creep scare me off
...except for the part of "a lot of friends".
friends in the forums

no photo
Tue 07/09/13 07:21 AM

I've been here a long time made a lot of friends this has never happened before. I won't let one creep scare me off


that's the spirit Pam.. one bad apple shouldn't spoil the bunch..
we go wayyyy back girl.. drinker wouldn't want you leaving cuz of a few idiots..



j-man.. love your new profile statement.. don't mind me if I swipe it from ya bigsmile
I get scammers EVERY dang day... first I report, then I block..

no photo
Tue 07/09/13 07:22 AM

Without getting into the whole long drawn out story. I met someone on here, opened my heart thought it was going well but after a month he asked for money. So I've lost all trust again was even thinking of deactivating. My good friend says just put it behind you and move on. Easier said then done. So I get this email his first question is what do you do for a living? So immediately I think he wants to know how much money I make so I told him I was a dancer at a strip club. So the trust issue is there and I don't think I even want to do this again. Could you jump right back in ? Or would you just forget it like me?


no I am not at all interested in jumping "right back in" I usually delete emails from non forum members. just don't talk to those people.

metalwing's photo
Tue 07/09/13 07:28 AM
Some will win, some will lose
Some were born to sing the blues
Oh, the movie never ends
It goes on and on and on and on

Strangers waiting Up and down the boulevard
Their shadows searching in the night
Streetlight people Living just to find emotion
Hiding somewhere in the night

Don't stop believin' Hold on to that feelin' Streetlight people
Don't stop believin' Hold on Streetlight people
Don't stop believin' Hold on to that feelin' Streetlight people



no photo
Tue 07/09/13 08:53 AM

Some will win, some will lose
Some were born to sing the blues
Oh, the movie never ends
It goes on and on and on and on

Strangers waiting Up and down the boulevard
Their shadows searching in the night
Streetlight people Living just to find emotion
Hiding somewhere in the night

Don't stop believin' Hold on to that feelin' Streetlight people
Don't stop believin' Hold on Streetlight people
Don't stop believin' Hold on to that feelin' Streetlight people






Am with you MW!!

no photo
Tue 07/09/13 09:01 AM

Without getting into the whole long drawn out story. I met someone on here, opened my heart thought it was going well but after a month he asked for money. So I've lost all trust again was even thinking of deactivating. My good friend says just put it behind you and move on. Easier said then done. So I get this email his first question is what do you do for a living? So immediately I think he wants to know how much money I make so I told him I was a dancer at a strip club. So the trust issue is there and I don't think I even want to do this again. Could you jump right back in ? Or would you just forget it like me?


I think it just goes hand in hand with socializing on the internet
Just put it behind you P...
Have a good laugh at them for thinking you might be so gullible
As they are of little consequence...
You know there are some good folks in here
Don't let a few dumb scammers run you off girl !
HAVE SOME FUN !
flowerforyou

pkh's photo
Tue 07/09/13 09:40 AM
Thank you all thats why I love it here because of all of you. I'm just angry at myself now for allowing him to suck me in especially by saying he was a God fearing man. What goes around comes around. It's good to be back because of all of you thanks for lifting me up