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Hi Jeannie I might have missed it but has anyone here spoke of auras or vibes around people yet? Also when you come in contact with someone feeling their energy even through writing, talking, or entering a room or area these things are pretty telling. In my world we call it being in tune and it goes both ways when being around or focusing on someone. In my "book" (everyone has a book right, finished or not) I call it the fair exchange. That's when in dealing with someone you take on their vibe and they take on yours. In the end you end up with a mix between the two. We all do it, and do it all day long. It's not about a being better than thing either it's about how one energy source takes on another like atoms exchanging electrons. Not Jeannie sorry to butt in *giggle* I know what you mean. It happens to me a lot! Somethings it's an unfair the exchange never the less...I try to put give out as much love vibes as I can(holy spirit)! I try never left someones bad energy get me down ...I'm gonna love no matter what! I hope when I get home that's my new name that He gives me (LOVE).For some reason it's all I seem to want to do. *giggle* I know a lot don't want to receive it*giggle* I may annoy them Oh well! at least they were surround by if only briefly amount of time. |
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Where are all the rotten low down no good dirty bitty's when ya need em 
I do have three storys that I do recall much to the same results The one guy was a maintenance/grounds keeper and he would rudely just stop in his tracks and give my the evel eye and this went on a few days outside the building entrance. Next day I was eating lunch & reading the paper and he finally spoke after the stare down and said "I better not find that garbage all over the place out here either! Better be sure it all goes right in that can right there"! So I said that musta bin me twin...no.lol I just politely explained absolutely, I always do and I'm right agains that..bla bla...and he went on. the next day I greeted him with a big "hi how you doing today and grabbed the door for him. So that broke the ice and he had all morning to think about "it". At lunch we greeted each other and started bull s*htn'. He felt a little stupid for a bit up he was far from socially awkward, then so we didn't mis a beat in conversation. OK just one story for now Good story... |
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Today I will go out in search of a grumpy person, or in search of someone who needs a little kindness.
That includes any animals I see. |
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Hi Jeannie I might have missed it but has anyone here spoke of auras or vibes around people yet? Also when you come in contact with someone feeling their energy even through writing, talking, or entering a room or area these things are pretty telling. In my world we call it being in tune and it goes both ways when being around or focusing on someone. In my "book" (everyone has a book right, finished or not) I call it the fair exchange. That's when in dealing with someone you take on their vibe and they take on yours. In the end you end up with a mix between the two. We all do it, and do it all day long. It's not about a being better than thing either it's about how one energy source takes on another like atoms exchanging electrons. My one experience with feeling a person's aura was when I came into the 'space' around this one man who I could tell was extremely disturbed. He had a bubble around him that expanded about eight to ten feet. He came into the bar I worked at and sat down at the bar. He was the only person in the bar besides me. I went towards him to ask him what he wanted and when I entered his bubble of disturbance, I stopped in my tracks. His was a violent urge to kill. I felt in danger and I turned around instantly and left the bubble. I went to the other side of the bar and sat down. I visualized him leaving. You might say I prayed that he would get up and leave. I hoped that he did not think I was refusing to serve him because he was black, but that was not the reason. It was his disturbance bubble. I hesitate to call it an "aura" because those are closer to the body. I don't know what his was, but I felt he wanted to kill me or somebody. Most people's energy is not so easily detected, but some really disturbed people can really be felt. You know what is so interesting in what your saying is that when people have tried to meassure the energy, aura, space of a person the usual answer they come up with is 8 feet away from a person's body. |
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OH! zee. wish i was there.... LOL...
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Thank you krishk.
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I was waiting for my bus at bus stand. I saw a girl(6-7 age) who was sitting on the last row near window in the bus which was parked infront of me. She seemed to be sad about something. The bus started moving. She looked at me, I smile and waved bye to her. She smiled and waved back . I made here happy. I got to see her beautiful smile.... it made my day too....
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I always try to help people where I can, but some don't want to helped, and would rather stay in their rut. I figure if he/she genuinely wants help, they'll do it if or when they feel ready to. It's why I don't believe in interventions. Interventions just seem like a way to hurry it along and force someone along. You can't push someone to change as quickly as you'd like to. It should always be up to the individual. If the person is in an emergency state, e,g about to die from too much alcohol, then I think you should help them quickly. They'll feel pressured to change. They have to want to.
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Sun 07/07/13 10:18 AM
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not sure that I really have any stories. I just try to be polite to everybody. some days that is kindness enough.
I have committed many acts of kindness over the years in caring for children as favors for their parents and as a coach and a scout leader I always worked to make sure our activies were paid for by troop fundraisers or were not too expensive for any of the less financially privleged members. So we would have outings paid for by our cookie sales, and honestly it was often the parents & kids of the less well off families in the troop that raised the most money. I often had these girls play w/ my kids at my home outside of troop meeting hours to help a single mom who was busy or working Also I delivered gifts and contributed gifts to the giving tree at church every christmas for several years, and contributed to the one at my work more recently. |
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I agree with you. I always try to think of why someone is grumpy or rude. Maybe they just had a bad day or date! Lol! Maybe it will make them feel a little better is your nice to them!
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I feel that for a lot of people being grumpy is just a bad habit or a self protective behavior. They are going to get you before you get them or they are so used to hearing and coping with ne3gative responses from others when tney bump into someone being nice it throws them for a loop or they are convinced it is so someone can manipulate them.
I remember riding on the bus in Atlanta and this one rider, someone who appeared to be homeless and maybe even mentally ill was really belligerent/defensive and many of the riders gave her a wide berth or pretended she was not there. But also many of them pretended everyone was not there rarely saying thank you if you moved over or excused yourself or God forbid actually attempted to talk to someone. Which would get old if you had a long ride. One day as it worked out I had a child's "Lunchable" with me because someone bought me something from home and I handed it to her as I was putting things in my back pack. She took it and held it silently until my stop came up and she offered to hand it back. And I siled at her and told her if she wanted it she could have it. She looked me directly in the eye at that point and in a polite clear voice said Thank you and smiled. There after every time I saw her the same polite eye contact and smile. So I think it is something to do with treating people with dignity also. |
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