Who will be there to help you when you fall?

Who will be there to keep you warm when the nights are cold?

Who will be there to give comfort when you mourn?

Who will be there to lift that weight you cannot by yourself?

Who will be there to rejoice with you?

whom we choose

probably family

Who will be there for you when you want to be alone BECAUSE you have not considered or gave up what you had ONLY NOW REALIZING WHAT YOU LOST?

perhaps you should take your own advice and be careful of how you speak. I was married for 18 years and had another LTR. I do not for a moment regret living alone. even if I enter another relationship, I still may not co-habitate

who do you think you are to tell me to be careful? what is it I should be careful of??? your incorrect assumptions LOL

young men. such know it alls

Fyi. Divorced need not apply. Be reconciled to your first love.

Just an observation apparent not only to me but others also. If being single is so great for you then why are you here?

Why are you yelling? - that's lost points right there

I do not feel I have lost anything. you have to accept that because it for me to determine and no one else

there is nothing you can say that will make me regret being single

there is nothing I can think of that I miss from being in a relationship. I have a lot less drama and trouble now

so I am happy

why are u so defensive? ... a little perturbed perhaps because a woman can live quite happily without a man...


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especially a bossy and argumentative one who can;t let a woman have her own opinion and leave it at that

you may as well give & go away

no, I can make that decision for you. this conversation is over. I do not talk to people who cannot accept my opinion & agree to disagree

and I do not argue

being with someone for all the reasons you listed may be important to you and that's fine, but it is not to me - end/

OK clearly I am talking to the nuthouse here...I'm off to bed

I do not want to be reconciled to my first love. I do not actually have a first love

and I am not applying - I can assure you that will never happen, and it may be the onlt thing we agree on

and you cannot tell me what to do. we can all tell you are a troll

apparently he is a member of the species that does not come with listening ears...I know the sub genus well

believe me a woman's turd smells just as bad as a man's but they'd never admit it. Mostly.

CAPITALS IS NOT YELLING. LOL. POINT MADE !

Let's take a pole. How many who posted benefits of being single are divorced?

what's ur excuse? ain't found no sock darner yet


Socks are too cheap to fart around darning them.

I don't have the luxury of comming home to a house just like I left it. My dogs do a good job of upending my house.

I just started parking my motorcycle on my front porch. I can redo my house the way I like it. And when I want to. I can fall asleep in front of the Tv, and no one wakes me up. (I wasn't afforded that luxury when I was married.) I don't have to eat "Mystery meals". Food does stay in my house. I don't have to turn on the A/C. I have money in my checking account. Grocery shopping is not $100+. (And $50+in just the vitamin section) I'm not Mr. Maintainance to my dogs now. I can now smoke in my house.

Yes, there are benefits to living alone.

lol


really - love it


I was earnest in trying to explain things but then I saw that post about being reconciled to my first love and realized I had just wasted a buncha cyberspace lol....his is not a mindset I can communicate with. but I did try. but I'm not sure why I did try ...lol

I will say if he thinks that any woman on here is "applying" simply because we talk to him , he is in for a pretty rude awakening...these are the forums, baby, gotta roll wit it :)

Speaking of rude awakenings. It's time for many to wake up. 1 Corinthians 7:10,11