What Are Some Signs That Show Of A Troubled Relationship??

If you start finding flags that are red.
Definitely a red flag.

Soviet Union another red flag...

Not too sure you can kinda tell where a persons interest is at... then just kinda do the math from there

When the guy talks about hiself too much and how great a catch he is!

I always pop in after I see you have posted, now I'm popping back out lol

Which one first?
When your wife gets her pay cheque from bartending and sits down at the table and starts crying
about the amount...and says " what a f:uckn' joke thats just two tricks on the corner.

Pony's sick saga cont.....

generally, a person 35 and over who prefers the company/dates of those 24 and under

relationships where one constantly is the victim of something/someone,,,plays the sympathy or guilt trip cards regularly

a relationship where one is focused almost obsessively on material things or outside appearance,,,

,,,to name a few

oh,, also

if you never get to go to their home, or if you do there are pictures of others EXCEPT them ,,,,,,

if they ever say 'I Cant live without you',,,,,,

especially if they say it often

if he talks about women in general like objects or possessions
if she talks about men in general like checkbooks or resources


if they have no family to introduce you to,,,

if you cant visit their workplace

If you find condoms in the glove box of his car!

If you find panties under the bed and they're not yours!

If he's buying you flowers etc. and repeatedly tells you how much you mean to him - and this is so out of character = he's feeling guilty for what exactly?!!

Your partner talks about their ex and all the sex they had ALL THE TIME in graphic detail, including interrupting you in the middle of a sentence because something you said reminded them of one of their exploits, even though you've told them multiple times that you don't want to hear about it.

Severe possessiveness; always demanding to know where you are, what you're doing and why you didn't answer the phone five minutes ago

Jealousy; not being comfortable with you having friends of the opposite sex that you've known for years and have zero romantic feelings or sexual contact with

Possessiveness; never wanting you to talk to anyone while you two are out together, even to the point of glaring at you and the server you're talking to at a restaurant

The hardest thing to do with them is maintaining a conversation for more than a few minutes

I dealt with all of that in a single relationship... It didn't end well.



Insisting that they like you "just the way you are", but trying to change every single thing about you

Refusing to acknowledge that you're in a relationship to anyone else but you

I dealt with those in another relationship, too