Topic: Ladies, please let me know what you think
oldcrashman's photo
Sat 06/01/13 11:15 AM
Suggestions/comments would be appreciated.
Thanks for taking your time,
David

funninnpa's photo
Sun 06/02/13 06:25 PM
Very attractive, interesting man with much to offer....too bad your so far away:(

Mortman's photo
Sun 06/02/13 06:30 PM
OK, I'm not a lady, so I can't give you the female perspective, but your main profile picture makes you look cold and lonely. Maybe you are/were when that photo was taken, but you should try to get a photo of yourself smiling and probably with your hat off. It's clear from the other photos that you at least have hair. Do yourself a favor; put on a nice shirt, face the light and smile into the lens as you snap the photo.

Again, I'm not a woman, but I'd imagine that your bit about your 20-year marriage could be removed. We already see in your data that you're widowed. Move on in your blurb and stay positive. Instead of "hate drama" you could use "prefer good-natured fun" or something like that.

On top of all that, your profile seems well-written, but you could have a perfect profile and still get no attention, so reach out to the women around you. Make time to check the ladies' profiles. Send nudges and messages. The more you do, the more attention you'll get back. You're probably a really nice guy, and even I can see that you're in good shape. You should be fine.

Good luck!

funninnpa's photo
Sun 06/02/13 06:39 PM
Personally... i like the picture. Its not a big goofy player grin. His cold lonely look makes me want to warm him up. And please keep the part about your 20 year marriage. It lets us women who are serious about a relationship know that you dont jump from women to women. I think you will have no trouble getting attention