have u ever faced that you feel you love someone strongly.. but u dont want to marry that person?

Nope. Did you?

Never!!!

yeah. and thats where i find myself very much unexplained..

and thats when you expect others to tell you "why" and "what should be done next".

I can imagine how you must have felt.

thanks krish..for being so kind.. heres a song for u

www.youtube.com/watch?v=ynMk2EwRi4Q‎

Thanks. its 1 of my fav song.

Hi

Yes..my wife, I just go married in the end so her kids could go to school
As I was Canadian

hi farhad.. what do u think?

yes.. there can be reasons why you dont want to marry.. strange life.. it puts us into such crossroads that we cant decide what to do next

Marriage is just an idea.
Not a rule of life or love.

What is this strong love that is talked about?

yes renee I have. Marriage is not something I feel safe about any more. my ex took that from me. I look at people who insist on marriage as trying to push an agenda that may not be in my best interests.

(I am not sure that is what YOU mean tho' & it doesn;t mean I would not marry in the right situation).

Yes, many men who my friends set me up with. Except there was one I wanted to marry. He was a rare, hard-to-find-these-days type. Feel that I won't find another like him, but I don't mind being single. The happy memories are enough for me. I don't need night's out or alcohol to try and get over him. He was like my male twin. I didn't think we would marry, but I wanted to marry him. If there's something they do or say, that makes you want to pull back, then maybe try asking why you want him in your life?

No.

I dont no if men are different, I do think we are ,its my understanding that the 9 year
old girl already cant wait to grow up & she will tell you how many
Kids she going to have & about the handsome man she's going to marry.
My way of thinking was if your together and happy then why do I need a certificate
to state that, as I live in a province which has a common law "rule" after 6 months anyways.

I suggested that she marry someone else to be legal..lol that didn't go down to well, as you could imagine.
after bouncing back and forth accross the border for the next 3, 1/2 years I final married her
when the relationship had totally ran its coarse.
In the few happy times after marriage I did like being referred to as husdand & wife.

This relationship always had problems, and I was just holding out for changes,as I couldn't
except certain things about her.
So she came back for the last time with her three kids, I married her, she did whatever the heck she felt
I didn't sign the immigration papers so she got deported after 6 months & they took the kids, then there
Dad came down from Alaska to save the day, and raised them ever since.

Now I would say if your in love and the problems are acceptable, as we cant change people, then do it.

No.

I love a lot of people I wouldn't marry. I don't have to be compatible or attracted to someone in order to love them for all their individual gifts and attributes. But I do have to have compatibility and attraction to spend the rest of my days with them.

When you say" love them" do you mean in love with them? If you do, you are fovever blowing my mind

And doesn't a woman pretty much just fall IN love & when its ran its coarse , she's most likely to no longer
be In love, but this would be most likely the only time she would just love the person, opposed to
Being in love?

Love as in knowing and carring deeply for one,

Second question to all woman please.