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Topic: Is It A Fact??? What Do You Think???
DanielG72's photo
Thu 05/16/13 03:35 PM
Some People Say That Opposites Attract, Do You Believe This To Be True???love love love love love


Yes
No
Sometimes

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 05/16/13 03:42 PM
Only if they have magnetic personalities.

1Cynderella's photo
Thu 05/16/13 03:42 PM
The only people I've seen the opposites work for are couples who 10-20 years later take separate vacations. That's not what I would want, but it seems to work for them.

So, I guess it just depends on how little you have in common vs how much of your life activities you expect to do with your partner.

Jtevans's photo
Thu 05/16/13 03:50 PM
i believe it's true.i've seen too many times where couples that are like each other butt heads,where as couples that are different,seem to find a common ground in disagreements.


of course i haven't been around every couple in this world,so i can't say for certain,so i'm just going by the ones i've been around

Goofball73's photo
Thu 05/16/13 04:17 PM
Well, the great prophetess Paula Abdul claimed this to be true in her song "Opposite's Attract". So if she said it then it must be true.

Momoiro_Usagi_7's photo
Thu 05/16/13 04:29 PM
Edited by Momoiro_Usagi_7 on Thu 05/16/13 04:30 PM
It's rare for opposites to attract and stay together I believe... SOOoOooO NO Because there's way to much work through way to much work!

oldhippie1952's photo
Thu 05/16/13 04:31 PM
I think sometimes they do. Just depends on the drama, I guess.

ridewytepony's photo
Thu 05/16/13 04:41 PM
They attract attention mabee!
Some time's in some ways and for some people.
Sometimes for me in elementary school some of the
Brainiacks liked me but most all of then were also
athletic aswell.
girls from other race's love me but I love them to, or at least as many as I could,
no thats definitely not opposite.

If she's to much of a girly girl(Barbie doll) or to "snob hill".. when were not looking eye's.

Or a Dude!!slaphead



DanielG72's photo
Fri 05/17/13 02:15 PM
Thank You Everyone For Your responses!!winking winking winking winking winking

lynnleeds's photo
Fri 05/17/13 02:18 PM
yep they attract.why would you want to be with a clone of yourself.variety is the spice of life:banana:

no photo
Fri 05/17/13 02:19 PM
Edited by KiK2me on Fri 05/17/13 02:21 PM
I would go with sometimes leaning toward yes
good girls seem to always like the bad boys and visa versa
...and versa versa
Visa visa

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kc0003's photo
Fri 05/17/13 02:24 PM
Edited by kc0003 on Fri 05/17/13 02:28 PM
some do, some don't

if it feels right, go with it.

i like how people say it wont last, well, the fact is most relationships wont last, if they did those same people wouldn't be here, now would they?

what is "last" anyway. how do you judge if a relationship is successful or not? 6 months, 1 year, 5 years, a lifetime?

josie68's photo
Fri 05/17/13 09:08 PM
I think it depends on what you have that is opposite.

I think a mixture works best.

For me, my partner, is pretty serious and organised. I'm not, but it works for us, one worries the other doesnt, one makes sure that we have everything, the other doesnt. But at the same time, I tend to balance out his sensibleness:wink:

BUT, We still enjoy doing the same things, are interested in the same things and if we arnt interested in something ( Like football or whatever you call it and wrestling, then we read a book while the other one watches the stupid show.love

Like everything, it depends on the people and being able to accept each other for who they are.

no photo
Fri 05/17/13 09:47 PM
I think sometimes it might look like opposites but for them it's more completing their united whole.

jaded72's photo
Fri 05/17/13 09:51 PM
I think opposites attract, they just don't always make it for the long haul. There needs to be the willingness for compromise and acceptance for the attraction to develop into something more substantial.

msharmony's photo
Fri 05/17/13 10:41 PM
opposites MIGHT attract

nowadays, I think alcohol and sex attract,,,,,

Toodygirl5's photo
Sat 05/18/13 05:39 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Sat 05/18/13 05:40 PM
Sometimes they do. It also depends on the challenges, as to how long, that couple will last.

no photo
Sat 05/18/13 06:08 PM
Yep, they do. Everybody is looking for a something he is missing in order to form perfect couple.

no photo
Sat 05/18/13 06:38 PM
personally I prefer someone on the same page as me.. on equal footing.. similar morals, ideals and values are important to raising a family and remaining best friends with your partner.. some differences are good as they can add spice, but if 2 people are passionate about some of the same things, be it goals, hobbies or tastes.. the couple has a better chance at survival than those who are complete opposites.. but that's just my opinion


no photo
Sun 05/19/13 07:09 AM
too much opposite might be too much attractive .. but how long can they stay together? i guess it gets difficult when the initial attraction is over. so there has to be some similarities and some dissimilarities to balance life.. as it also says too much of evrything is bad

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