If anyone is "making me cry" all the time, obviously they don't care about me at all. I would feel like any other rational person should feel... hurt and abused.

I just would not tolerate it. Love is picking another up, not pushing them down.

Better to have loved and lost; rather than not loved at all. Move on life is worth living.

Oops I lost the quote,

Dear cynd

Your perspective sounds like a solid outlook, thanks for sharing.
I really wish that the woman that a chose to be involved in
could had taken such an approach.
Its was infact the woman that have fallen in love quickly
In all my experience, as to how deep I dont know.
In every case they were constently crying, trying to hurry my love
as it wasn't a question that I was eventually going to fall in love
& was committed to an exclusive union & was generally happy.
The constant crying would hurt me and was the biggest problem
so I would eventually cave & not hold back from there.

So this is where I was referring to "jumping in with both feet.
This was I bad example on my part.

Furthermore as I just gave an example that i've experienced
four times, people cry for many different reasons apart from
Forms of abuse.

Unfortunately a common resentment was that I pushed them away
In the beginning...probably an excuse because they finally got
what they wanted then didn't feel the same.

...just wish they were bigger Phill Colins fans

"You cant hurry love, no , you just have to wait,
Love dont come easy,its just a game of give & take"

My outlook is its better to have loved & lost than to never have loved at all
Its just not in the cards for me right now, its just safer to concentrate
On a dangerous job then I want to sit on a Asian beach for 6 months
at that time. Then i'll take most all the wall down
until my darkness goes.

" I see a red door & I want it to turn black,
No colors anymore I want them to turn black,
I see the girls walk by in their summer clothes
I just turn away until my darkness goes"

Oh and friendly is very nice, did l forget anything....
...ya...excuse me..juzt leave the Hochey girls out of it young lady!
...if thats not
Hit'en below the belt pun maybee intended?

Yeah... I don't know that many men cry about a relationship not moving fast enough. Neither will I, so that was not a reason for crying I had considered.

As for the hockey girlz...into the penalty box with em.

Sometimes you gotta disconnect the dots.

I spent far too many years wording about the one who was never gonna love me....until I found the one who actually loves me.

I am so thankful for my woman.

She makes me feel whole.

I never felt that before....I was always less.