Is it normal to have so many people sign up for sites like this and spend their time winking and nudging you, but never actually contacting or replying?

Never having signed up for any dating/relationship/sex sites before I used to think "Oh get a life" and you know what I'm still thinking "get a life".

There are so many people on here who are posting "I'm looking for..." but then do nothing by way of serious communication to make that happen.

Public Mingle Announcement - "get a life" be it online or off-line, just stop wasting others time with winks, nudges and kisses!



What do you think, am I being harsh?

So you came on a free dating site to tell people on a free dating site to get a life.

Yeah, that should get them running to you.

You're also wasting your time blabbering to those you mention who aren't reading this post.

Can't be more weird than having someone complain about it.

Obviously venting , I was just wondering about you fellow countymen, the time and slot your are taking,
in my opinion may have been better of used to state your real case why your on mingles.

I would have to say it appears that infact you are the one beating around the bush, is it the attention
Your after? as I checked you profile and you talked about just local people of a certain gender, to me
You must of opened up the playing field to most everyone and everywhere, or else you would
of just stated what your provile says!. .........your not one to beat around the bushing like those " get I life people "!

Uhmmm..ok....done yet?...hope that made you feel better....

Some people will send a wink or a nudge as a safe way to see if you are interested without risking rejection.

More often, however, the ones who send me winks and nudges are scammers with the same empty profiles.

You get it all with a free website and this one is better than most. I've been inundated with scammers on paid sites too.

Like Dolly Parton said...if you want the rainbow, you've gotta out up with a little rain.

No big deal, it's just part of the package.

Its amazing wen all u gorgeous Empresses see guys searching for de number one as playas n scammers...in any case u cnt afford to b naive wen on a safari tour..all we want is a real woman I guess I wll keep searching ..peace

Do I think you are being harsh??? I think you are the one who needs to, "get a life", if life was so good for you offline, what are you doing online?

I wonder how many guys give you the time of day offline, if they did you wouldn't be online.

Mingles2 is a great site...if you are not satisfied, you have a choice, change your attitude or don't bother stopping in to see what those of us who are real have to say.

I weed the jecks out online just like I do offline, or like I weed the weeds out of my garden. I BELIEVE WE ALL HAVE CHOICES.

No one said that.

If u happen to meet any real woman who knows wat she wants in a man tell her to nudge me ....she's welcome ..imma call her rb

Empress Artgurl sori if I misread u guys smtimes its hard wen a rejection comes jxt bcoz u r a musician n perception is...we like women ...dats y atimes we nudge bt for real like moi nt all musicians r...lovin de frankness at dis chat

Some of us just have more pronounced accents than others.

Many may not be interested in serious Relationships.

The nudges are lame but sometimes there's nothing much worth saying when you check out a profile, although it maybe doesn't hurt to show some interest, so you do that.

How do you know that all of those people are doing nothing in the way of communication to find what they say that they are looking for? Once you've done this for a while you just realise that it's better to just concentrate on one or two good friendships with people that you are interested in instead of just talking to as many people as possible. It takes a lot of time and energy to build a good friendship with someone like this and it just gets confusing when you are trying to juggle sevaral conversations at once.

Honestly, a lot of the time I just can't be bothered when I get a message from someone and there's that prospect of having to try to make conversation with them just to find out that I am not, in fact, what they are looking for or that they aren't really what I'm looking for. And I'm as fed up with being lonely and single as anyone.

Snickers...Right...

Hi, read your profile. I don't think your being harsh, I think your just being who you are. I don't mean that in a bad way either. Your just saying how you feel and I know a lot who would and do feel that same way.

I read your profile too and apparently you are complaining that you aren't having much luck finding a local woman on here that wants sex. Well, join the club because they never do. Trying to get a local woman to talk to you on here is just about impossible and if they do reply then chat is all that you are likely to get, which will include some whining about how this site is full of weirdos that just want sex.

If women were really on dating sites for dating that would be really cool but they rarely are and it is just window shopping, so deal with it. I have no idea how much effort you have actually been putting into finding this sex partner that you say that you are looking for and I'm not going to tell you that posting in this forum is going to get you much joy with that but being picky is precisely the problem and if it was as easy as just typing up a profile that says what you are looking for and there actually being people out there that match those specifications and are prepared to meet other people from the internet then we wouldn't all still be here.