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Topic: Dating Styles
Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 15179	Sun 05/05/13 01:19 PM
2. Careful evaluator? Considering each step along the dating path before determining where you are willing to go next?

Lookingup1246 Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 63	Sun 05/05/13 09:48 PM
When you're dating someone new, do you consider yourself to be more of a... 1. Fly by the seat of your pants type? Just doing whatever feels right as your dates progresses. 2. Careful evaluator? Considering each step along the dating path before determining where you are willing to go next? Or 3. Procedure observer? Using what you believe are tried and true rules of engagement to keep things moving at the pace you prefer.

Lookingup1246 Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 63	Sun 05/05/13 09:57 PM
If i had a strategy I threw it out the window a long time ago. One of the things i do is to first see if I can have fun and feel joy with a person and if that is true then I will keep in mind what i really want and would like to have in my future and see if that person comes close. Since I am looking for a longterm relationship i am cautous, and move slow. If i feel that things look good i will be more spontaneous.

aneer Joined Mon 05/06/13 Posts: 1	Mon 05/06/13 10:43 AM
oh ****

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Mon 05/06/13 10:53 AM
If i had a strategy I threw it out the window a long time ago. One of the things i do is to first see if I can have fun and feel joy with a person and if that is true then I will keep in mind what i really want and would like to have in my future and see if that person comes close. Since I am looking for a longterm relationship i am cautous, and move slow. If i feel that things look good i will be more spontaneous. This sounds like a sound strategy to me.

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Mon 05/06/13 10:55 AM
oh **** A more direct approach maybe, but to each their own.

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Mon 05/06/13 11:03 AM
When you're dating someone new, do you consider yourself to be more of a... 1. Fly by the seat of your pants type? Just doing whatever feels right as your dates progresses. 2. Careful evaluator? Considering each step along the dating path before determining where you are willing to go next? Or 3. Procedure observer? Using what you believe are tried and true rules of engagement to keep things moving at the pace you prefer. i just wing it but still do what i can to see some boobs before the relationship is over

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Mon 05/06/13 11:53 AM
what's this thing you call 'dating'.....lol

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Mon 05/06/13 12:23 PM
When you're dating someone new, do you consider yourself to be more of a... 1. Fly by the seat of your pants type? Just doing whatever feels right as your dates progresses. 2. Careful evaluator? Considering each step along the dating path before determining where you are willing to go next? Or 3. Procedure observer? Using what you believe are tried and true rules of engagement to keep things moving at the pace you prefer. I put out. It is a viable strategy.

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Mon 05/06/13 03:06 PM
When you're dating someone new, do you consider yourself to be more of a... 1. Fly by the seat of your pants type? Just doing whatever feels right as your dates progresses. 2. Careful evaluator? Considering each step along the dating path before determining where you are willing to go next? Or 3. Procedure observer? Using what you believe are tried and true rules of engagement to keep things moving at the pace you prefer. I put out. It is a viable strategy. So, kind of like flying by the seat of your pants...only your pants are elsewhere...on the floor...back of the couch...hood of the car...etc?

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 05/07/13 07:21 AM
what's this thing you call 'dating'.....lol Yeah! Inquiring minds wanna know!

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Tue 05/07/13 07:56 AM Edited by 1Cynderella on Tue 05/07/13 07:57 AM
what's this thing you call 'dating'.....lol Yeah! Inquiring minds wanna know! I teach more effectively through interactive methods. So you will just have to wait until I can show you personally.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 05/07/13 08:24 AM
what's this thing you call 'dating'.....lol Yeah! Inquiring minds wanna know! I teach more effectively through interactive methods. So you will just have to wait until I can show you personally. Man....talk about a tease.

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Tue 05/07/13 08:31 AM
what's this thing you call 'dating'.....lol Yeah! Inquiring minds wanna know! I teach more effectively through interactive methods. So you will just have to wait until I can show you personally. Man....talk about a tease. Who...moi? You wound me, my Goofy man! So, can we kiss and make up now?

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 05/07/13 09:03 AM
what's this thing you call 'dating'.....lol Yeah! Inquiring minds wanna know! I teach more effectively through interactive methods. So you will just have to wait until I can show you personally. Man....talk about a tease. Who...moi? You wound me, my Goofy man! So, can we kiss and make up now? See....I told you making up is fun.

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Tue 05/07/13 04:43 PM
what's this thing you call 'dating'.....lol Yeah! Inquiring minds wanna know! I teach more effectively through interactive methods. So you will just have to wait until I can show you personally. Man....talk about a tease. Who...moi? You wound me, my Goofy man! So, can we kiss and make up now? See....I told you making up is fun. We really should fight more often.

Lookingup1246 Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 63	Thu 05/09/13 07:09 PM
If i had a strategy I threw it out the window a long time ago. One of the things i do is to first see if I can have fun and feel joy with a person and if that is true then I will keep in mind what i really want and would like to have in my future and see if that person comes close. Since I am looking for a longterm relationship i am cautous, and move slow. If i feel that things look good i will be more spontaneous. This sounds like a sound strategy to me.

Lookingup1246 Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 63	Thu 05/09/13 07:09 PM
If i had a strategy I threw it out the window a long time ago. One of the things i do is to first see if I can have fun and feel joy with a person and if that is true then I will keep in mind what i really want and would like to have in my future and see if that person comes close. Since I am looking for a longterm relationship i am cautous, and move slow. If i feel that things look good i will be more spontaneous. This sounds like a sound strategy to me.

Lookingup1246 Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 63	Thu 05/09/13 07:10 PM Edited by Lookingup1246 on Thu 05/09/13 07:11 PM
Thank you 1Cynderella