I am a college graduate however that was long before computers...lol...anyhow, can someone please explain to me how do I message someone me like...when me go to their profile me don't see a message button only a e-mail bar,match,etc......don't want to e-mail, nudge or blow kisses just yet...want to message....thanks in advance for your help.

wow 5 views and no help....lol they all sharks zoning in on the newbie but not to kind enough to help

its an internal email not your personal email thats used

Thank you for your response of kindness....much love and many blessings to you.

HOW DO I IM?
First, you must have YOUR 'Instant Messaging'
turned ON:
http://mingle2.com/user/enable_im
(Or >>My Account>>Settings>>Turn ON IM)

Then you would go to the profile of the person
with whom you wish to chat.

Under their picture there is an orange button
'Instant Message' which you would click on and
the request to Instant Message is sent.

If there is no orange button labeled 'Instant
Message' it could mean one of two things.

The person does NOT have 'Instant Messaging'
turned ON.
(In which case you could email them and request
they turn it ON.)

Or, the person is in 'Stealth Mode.'
http://mingle2.com/user/toggle_stealth_mode

thank u so much soufiehere...that was very helpful....blessings and much happiness to you.