Okay, is anybody ready to confess why you’re really mingling here on the various forum boards? Are you just bored, and killing time? Are you wanting to improve your writing skills as poets, and looking for ways to get published? Do you just hang out watching what everybody else is doing, thinking about getting involved, but haven’t seen anything you want to dip your toe into yet? You haven’t seen anyone who really grabs your attention and puts that fire in your belly to come out of the shadows and speak? Is it as simple as making online friends, both male and female, just to hang out with? Are you looking for a booty call, and that’s all?

Do you really want to put your all on the table, doing whatever it takes to attract that one person you know is meant for you? If so, do you use the Mingle boards to help you reach as many people as possible, because you never know when or where your paths might intersect? I mean,
if you’re not here to use the free services to search for and catch the eye of whoever you have in the back of your mind as what and who you want to meet and make part of your life, then what are you really doing here mingling?

And if I’ve left anything out, please feel free to tell us why you’re here, and what you’re looking for…

I am bored, killing time, and engaging in less than adult conversation with like-minded adults.

I'm here just to post my opinions.

Often times just outta boredom.
But mainly because I'm N-AT...
so I come here to read, watch and learn.

To practice trying and failing, and trying again.

i like a few things reading the poetry is nice, meeting people to and putting somethings you write on the community slot,

I need to read the poetry more often, a lot of times I don't. There are some good writers here.

cool...

good to know...

^^^^^^^^^this

very interesting answer... to practice trying and failing and trying again... but what is N-AT?

AAAaaahhh so you like to rant.. or just read them...

yes, I agree with you there, hippie... lots of skill on the poetry board...

cool...

I have seen One on boards I want to dip my toe into, but he is too young for me, I have talked with him but just as a friend and then that dropped off. Most Younger men want Younger women, and I do not blame them, if I was Younger, I would want a Young man. I am here looking but I still have hope, I met men outside of Mingle.

Hi toody... I know what you mean... getting older kinda takes the life out of us doesn't it... oh well... maybe our hope will help us attract mature eye candy... you know the kind... just beginning to silver around the edges...

A bunch psycho-babble that basically means I'm a bit different.

yes, I've noticed... and I like different, even if it's just a bit...

I am here to meet people (like-minded or not), expand my barely existant social circle, broaden my horizons, step out of my comfort zone, kill time, laugh, make friends and spark my imagination.

Oh yeah...and maybe meet someone with whom I can spend time and and have mind-blowing...conversation.

I enjoy the discussions and chatting with the friends I made here. Honestly; I wish I wasn't so busy so I could post more often and more topics but damn life gets in the way.

yay shortfire... I love your spitfire... hehehe... your positive energy enters the room before you do... you go girl... I just know you won't have any problem accomplishing exactly what you put your mind too...