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I love foreplay! Prefer it but also good at everything else
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I love foreplay! Prefer it but also good at everything else hello gbcgirt, nice to meet you... so you prefer foreplay and have much self confidence about everything else...  well, there's nothing wrong with telling the truth, the hole truth, and nothing else but the truth, now is there... good for you, BTW... and your love interest too... 
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I assume we’re all on Mingle to search for and meet people we can form bonds with, either strictly as friends, as lovers, as committed partnerships, or even as occasional hookups, just booty calls. For those of us who enjoy an active sex life, or look forward too, once we connect with the one we want to share the experience with, do you think foreplay is a vital ingredient needed or desired to spice up the imminent physical bonding? If so, various forms of foreplay could be: 1) Intellectual activity via creative efforts to stimulate the psyche. 2) Material proffering to also stimulate the psyche via hands on gifts. 3) Physical contact of any variety, and at anytime prior to actual interaction. I ask this thinking that it will be helpful to learn what people enjoy, and/or expect, so we’ll be better prepared to make our efforts toward pleasing another more effective and worth the time we take to seduce each other. After all, this is what dating really boils down too, isn’t it? I loved foreplay; sex/ making love without it was just not as fulfilling...if I remember correctly, that is; strange how 'sexual memories' are so ephemeral...then again, it might be a good thing... |
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Back massages do it a lot for me :). I remember the very first time I had one, and all I can say is WOW! ;). People who have had one will know what I mean by that.
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Sex without foreplay is like peanut butter sandwiches without the jelly or jam, its the sweetner and the promise of more to come.
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Let's not leave out after play folks. Repeat offending is like the most-est of yummy-ness.
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I assume we’re all on Mingle to search for and meet people we can form bonds with, either strictly as friends, as lovers, as committed partnerships, or even as occasional hookups, just booty calls. For those of us who enjoy an active sex life, or look forward too, once we connect with the one we want to share the experience with, do you think foreplay is a vital ingredient needed or desired to spice up the imminent physical bonding? If so, various forms of foreplay could be: 1) Intellectual activity via creative efforts to stimulate the psyche. 2) Material proffering to also stimulate the psyche via hands on gifts. 3) Physical contact of any variety, and at anytime prior to actual interaction. I ask this thinking that it will be helpful to learn what people enjoy, and/or expect, so we’ll be better prepared to make our efforts toward pleasing another more effective and worth the time we take to seduce each other. After all, this is what dating really boils down too, isn’t it? I loved foreplay; sex/ making love without it was just not as fulfilling...if I remember correctly, that is; strange how 'sexual memories' are so ephemeral...then again, it might be a good thing... you speak of making love as if it's in the past, traumer... I hope this is but a temporary road block you will be able to detour around soon enough... |
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Back massages do it a lot for me :). I remember the very first time I had one, and all I can say is WOW! ;). People who have had one will know what I mean by that.
Aaaahh, a nice invigorating back massage, complete from neck to feet... stirs up many fond memories... good for you, Sarah... you enjoy them too...
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Sex without foreplay is like peanut butter sandwiches without the jelly or jam, its the sweetner and the promise of more to come. hello Ras, nice to meet you... I like peanut butter with jelly sandwiches too...
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Edited by
AthenaRose2
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Tue 02/12/13 11:25 PM
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Let's not leave out after play folks. Repeat offending is like the most-est of yummy-ness. for the man always... but sometimes we women need time to rest and recuperate...  unless you're talking about at least 15 minutes later...  then it's okay...
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Let's not leave out after play folks. Repeat offending is like the most-est of yummy-ness. for the man always... but sometimes we women need time to rest and recuperate... unless you're talking about at least 15 minutes later... then it's okay...
"Fore" some reason the women in my life have been more of the continuum type (highly driven). Must be a gene in those who are of that breed. For those of us who are like this I think the fore/after/always play stays more in the always playful mode. Rest takes a back seat and is part of the fun. I probably just shared too much again. |
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Let's not leave out after play folks. Repeat offending is like the most-est of yummy-ness. for the man always... but sometimes we women need time to rest and recuperate... unless you're talking about at least 15 minutes later... then it's okay...
"Fore" some reason the women in my life have been more of the continuum type (highly driven). Must be a gene in those who are of that breed. For those of us who are like this I think the fore/after/always play stays more in the always playful mode. Rest takes a back seat and is part of the fun. I probably just shared too much again. it's nice to get inside your head, mg... and yes, I agree... I'm also more of an "always in a playful mood, and can never get enough fun with the right one", type... |
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I enjoy being entertained...My husband did a great Tom Jones impersonation that always cracked me up...And he could reach high notes (with a little crackling) on songs...My husband and I both loved to dance and we went out and "danced the night away" quite often...Once in awhile we'd even dance down the aisle in the supermarket if a song came on that we liked. (And the aisle was empty at the time!)...Sometimes we pretended that we were in musicals and broke out in "song and dance" wherever we were...It was fun. We all loved to get silly and "nutty" at times. (My sons too!)...My younger son did fantastic voice impersonations. And my older son had a great "Latin lover" skit and routine that always made me laugh...My husband and I could sit and have super interesting discussions about every topic imaginable...But we always made time for fun and play too and a little spontaneous (and unexpected) romance once in awhile. Life was full of surprises!...I sure miss everyone! Now I sing and dance and "get nutty" with the cats once in awhile just to avoid getting bored.
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give me a blowjob.....
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think foreplay vital ingredient in love makeing without a dout sometimes with x used food toys dreesing up vital
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I enjoy being entertained...My husband did a great Tom Jones impersonation that always cracked me up...And he could reach high notes (with a little crackling) on songs...My husband and I both loved to dance and we went out and "danced the night away" quite often...Once in awhile we'd even dance down the aisle in the supermarket if a song came on that we liked. (And the aisle was empty at the time!)...Sometimes we pretended that we were in musicals and broke out in "song and dance" wherever we were...It was fun. We all loved to get silly and "nutty" at times. (My sons too!)...My younger son did fantastic voice impersonations. And my older son had a great "Latin lover" skit and routine that always made me laugh...My husband and I could sit and have super interesting discussions about every topic imaginable...But we always made time for fun and play too and a little spontaneous (and unexpected) romance once in awhile. Life was full of surprises!...I sure miss everyone! Now I sing and dance and "get nutty" with the cats once in awhile just to avoid getting bored. Your life and the way you and your family were sounds so fascinating and fun, Greeneyes, I can picture you all goofing around and laughing... I can even picture your husband surprising you with romantic gestures because you seem like you are the type of woman who loves to be loved and would reciprocate his affection in only the special way that you can... the both of you having known each other so well... 
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give me a blowjob..... hello shyamkoli... I would say it's nice to meet you, but as your first post you telling me as the OP to give you a BJ doesn't seem like a very appropriate thing to say when you are introducing yourself to the writers boards for the first time. 
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think foreplay vital ingredient in love makeing without a dout sometimes with x used food toys dreesing up vital
hi woznotwoz... your choice of foreplay, or should I say your choice of a snack, sounds very interesting... thanks for sharing...
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 Okay, Ted... you've finally stumped me...  how did you get two adults groping in the dark bumpin uglies in a bar, from, "healthy, active sexual relationship between two loving partners"? I must have missed something in translation...
But here's more sincere kudos for KiK... who let it all hang out... his spirit for play is infectious... 
Well, like I said... it's vague... to me anyway. Are you saying that two people bumpin' uglies and groping in the dark can't be a healthy, active sexual relationship? In your OP, you left it open to "...either strictly as friends, as lovers, as committed partnerships, or even as occasional hookups, just booty calls." Bastet put some limitations on it though... "it's a must in a healthy, active sexual relationship between two loving partners. period." Seems like a strong personal opinion, without qualifiers to me. But, it's her opinion... and you're right that I should've left it go. Apologies to both. 
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Okay, Ted... you've finally stumped me... how did you get two adults groping in the dark bumpin uglies in a bar, from, "healthy, active sexual relationship between two loving partners"? I must have missed something in translation...
But here's more sincere kudos for KiK... who let it all hang out... his spirit for play is infectious...
Well, like I said... it's vague... to me anyway. Are you saying that two people bumpin' uglies and groping in the dark can't be a healthy, active sexual relationship? In your OP, you left it open to "...either strictly as friends, as lovers, as committed partnerships, or even as occasional hookups, just booty calls." Bastet put some limitations on it though... "it's a must in a healthy, active sexual relationship between two loving partners. period." Seems like a strong personal opinion, without qualifiers to me. But, it's her opinion... and you're right that I should've left it go. Apologies to both.
Aaaww, you look so cute when you blush, Ted... no apologies necessary... although if that's what it takes to get a bouquet of flowers out of you...  seriously, all's well that ends well... I was just curious as to where your thinking was at on that one...
Oh, wait a minute... no, I'm not saying that two adults bumpin uglies and groping in the dark is an unhealthy sexual relationship, but it does appear to be quite unseemly to be doing it in a bar... c'mon, who does that? |
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