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Topic: Do you get off on foreplay?
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Thu 02/07/13 10:42 AM
I assume we’re all on Mingle to search for and meet people we can form bonds with, either strictly as friends, as lovers, as committed partnerships, or even as occasional hookups, just booty calls.

For those of us who enjoy an active sex life, or look forward too, once we connect with the one we want to share the experience with, do you think foreplay is a vital ingredient needed or desired to spice up the imminent physical bonding?

If so, various forms of foreplay could be:

1) Intellectual activity via creative efforts to stimulate the psyche.
2) Material proffering to also stimulate the psyche via hands on gifts.
3) Physical contact of any variety, and at anytime prior to actual interaction.

I ask this thinking that it will be helpful to learn what people enjoy, and/or expect, so we’ll be better prepared to make our efforts toward pleasing another more effective and worth the time we take to seduce each other. After all, this is what dating really boils down too, isn’t it?


mountainwatergirl's photo
Thu 02/07/13 11:15 AM
YES!!!!YES!!! YES!!!!

Toodygirl5's photo
Thu 02/07/13 11:21 AM
Yes, foreplay is a vital ingredient needed to spice up things. I do not want any man that does not have an Art in foreplay. :thumbsup:


oldhippie1952's photo
Thu 02/07/13 11:29 AM
Dang I don't have an Art in foreplay but I try!

lilott's photo
Thu 02/07/13 11:58 AM
Sorry I'm not here for that thing called dating.

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 02/07/13 12:25 PM
Edited by FearandLoathing on Thu 02/07/13 12:25 PM
I dig foreplay, not big on sex though.

"They" keep telling me it is because I haven't found the "One" and I keep telling "Them" it is relatively useless since I have no plans to have kids.

Teditis's photo
Thu 02/07/13 12:59 PM

I assume we’re all on Mingle to search for and meet people we can form bonds with, either strictly as friends, as lovers, as committed partnerships, or even as occasional hookups, just booty calls.

For those of us who enjoy an active sex life, or look forward too, once we connect with the one we want to share the experience with, do you think foreplay is a vital ingredient needed or desired to spice up the imminent physical bonding?

If so, various forms of foreplay could be:

1) Intellectual activity via creative efforts to stimulate the psyche.
2) Material proffering to also stimulate the psyche via hands on gifts.
3) Physical contact of any variety, and at anytime prior to actual interaction.

I ask this thinking that it will be helpful to learn what people enjoy, and/or expect, so we’ll be better prepared to make our efforts toward pleasing another more effective and worth the time we take to seduce each other. After all, this is what dating really boils down too, isn’t it?



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No... I just use it as a way to expend energy in order to fall asleep faster.

Giving pleasure to others is my greedy way of getting what I want.
Er... no, that doesn't make a bit of sense does it? NM.

SimplicityAtItsBest's photo
Thu 02/07/13 02:06 PM
Darn men these days aren't into that foreplay stuff anymore.
At least not anyone I know.
They do seem to like 'receiving' though.
Selfish Jerks!

frustrated

SimplicityAtItsBest's photo
Thu 02/07/13 02:08 PM
...As of today, I am turning gay.

laugh

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Thu 02/07/13 02:42 PM

YES!!!!YES!!! YES!!!!


mountainwater girl... a woman that knows what she wants... :wink:

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Thu 02/07/13 02:44 PM

Yes, foreplay is a vital ingredient needed to spice up things. I do not want any man that does not have an Art in foreplay. :thumbsup:



toodygirl... I love your position.. a man with no skill is a love kill... :wink:

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Thu 02/07/13 02:46 PM

Dang I don't have an Art in foreplay but I try!


hippie.. no fears.. what you may lack in one way you make up in others... you are loved... oops, I mean liked... :wink:

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Thu 02/07/13 02:48 PM

Sorry I'm not here for that thing called dating.


lilott, nice to meet you.. okay then, we have established that you are looking for friendship only... cool.. you know you can change your mind at any time, however, the doors are always open... :wink:

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Thu 02/07/13 02:50 PM

I dig foreplay, not big on sex though.

"They" keep telling me it is because I haven't found the "One" and I keep telling "Them" it is relatively useless since I have no plans to have kids.


aaah, fear annnnd loathing, now I understand the nickname.. hehehe... I like your take too tho... plenty of play.. that's the best part, because it can go on indefinitely, while the actual interaction could be over in a matter of minutes... :wink:

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Thu 02/07/13 02:54 PM


I assume we’re all on Mingle to search for and meet people we can form bonds with, either strictly as friends, as lovers, as committed partnerships, or even as occasional hookups, just booty calls.

For those of us who enjoy an active sex life, or look forward too, once we connect with the one we want to share the experience with, do you think foreplay is a vital ingredient needed or desired to spice up the imminent physical bonding?

If so, various forms of foreplay could be:

1) Intellectual activity via creative efforts to stimulate the psyche.
2) Material proffering to also stimulate the psyche via hands on gifts.
3) Physical contact of any variety, and at anytime prior to actual interaction.

I ask this thinking that it will be helpful to learn what people enjoy, and/or expect, so we’ll be better prepared to make our efforts toward pleasing another more effective and worth the time we take to seduce each other. After all, this is what dating really boils down too, isn’t it?



??

No... I just use it as a way to expend energy in order to fall asleep faster.

Giving pleasure to others is my greedy way of getting what I want.
Er... no, that doesn't make a bit of sense does it? NM.


that's okay Ted, we know how you like to analyze things... until you get totally confused... or we do... hehehe what you said sounds good to me... depending on the depth of your greed, the pleasure you give to receive could be all that's needed before a restful sleep... :wink:

kc0003's photo
Thu 02/07/13 03:01 PM
yes

1)...yes
2)...eh?
3)...yes

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Thu 02/07/13 03:01 PM
Edited by KiK2me on Thu 02/07/13 03:05 PM
HELL YES !
I am a sexual creature and a Libra on top of that !
Foreplay in ALL forms is the build up to great sex together !
And to put it totally honest the reason why i AM a great lover
{No brag...just fact}
I am a PLEASER !
I want the lady i am with to climb the wall literally
From the deep satisfaction of sexual interaction with me !
{Gee it sure isn't because i am hung like a stallion}
But i can LICK my eyebrows down....
{snicker}
...THAT and i have ROMAN hands and RUSSIAN fingers


:wink:

KiK

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Thu 02/07/13 03:01 PM

Darn men these days aren't into that foreplay stuff anymore.
At least not anyone I know.
They do seem to like 'receiving' though.
Selfish Jerks!

frustrated


aah, simplicity.. I get you.. and I'm of the same mind too.. no they don't "unless they're smart", then they do... :wink: and yes, of course they're all touchdown receivers... they want it all... but what are they willing to give, to get... selfish jerks can get only so much.. :wink:

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Thu 02/07/13 03:02 PM

...As of today, I am turning gay.

laugh


another funny... laugh ... I'll take celibate for $100 Alex... :wink:

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Thu 02/07/13 03:04 PM

yes

1)...yes
2)...eh?
3)...yes



kc.. cool... 1 and 3... loves the psychological and physical stimulation... no shame in your game... :wink:

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