Topic: understanding
Shyamz's photo
Sun 01/06/13 07:20 AM
when one feel that one's lover is not trying to understand you well, what should one do? give me some help. please...frustrated

AlanJamison's photo
Sun 01/06/13 07:47 AM
Bro, I think that ultimately you have to look and see what they are going through... If there isn't any obvious signs, play the field. Be slow to reply and allow them the space to really see the lack of emotional investment that they are giving you! Hope this helps.. Aj

soufiehere's photo
Sun 01/06/13 08:44 AM
Listen more, talk less.

metalwing's photo
Sun 01/06/13 08:49 AM
You can't control (or shouldn't anyway) what the other person thinks, feels or does. Express your wants and needs vocally, calmly, and sincerely. Do not rush the reply. What you get back is your answer whether it is what you want or not.

Toodygirl5's photo
Sun 01/06/13 01:48 PM

You can't control (or shouldn't anyway) what the other person thinks, feels or does. Express your wants and needs vocally, calmly, and sincerely. Do not rush the reply. What you get back is your answer whether it is what you want or not.


This ^^^^^^^^

Shyamz's photo
Sun 01/06/13 08:05 PM

Bro, I think that ultimately you have to look and see what they are going through... If there isn't any obvious signs, play the field. Be slow to reply and allow them the space to really see the lack of emotional investment that they are giving you! Hope this helps.. Aj


and this is what i really fear to do. i fear that the small space will turn out to be bigger and result in breaking.