Topic: When should Yes be yes?
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Thu 01/03/13 10:16 PM
Moving to fast can cause thee demise of the best or worst! I think rushing in has it's pro's and con's! Pro- don't want to be thought of as " not that into you" or "old fashioned" .
Con- thought of as " needy" or overly zealous.

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Sat 01/05/13 09:02 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Sat 01/05/13 09:03 AM

Moving to fast can cause thee demise of the best or worst! I think rushing in has it's pro's and con's! Pro- don't want to be thought of as " not that into you" or "old fashioned" .
Con- thought of as " needy" or overly zealous.


If I really like a man, I have no problem letting him quick upfront. I do not like playing waiting games and keep him guessing. I do not have time for that. I am a bit old fashion, but I do not mind making the first move, especially on a date site, saves time. Hundreds of people on these sites to meet, why waste time.laugh

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 01/05/13 09:38 AM
Doesn't really matter...Men have questions and women have secrets, we'll never be able to cover any ground this way.

jacktrades's photo
Sat 01/05/13 09:39 AM
Im cautious and like to take my time but sometimes a woman is very exciting and interesting so things speed up fast.

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Sat 01/05/13 11:31 AM

Moving to fast can cause thee demise of the best or worst! I think rushing in has it's pro's and con's! Pro- don't want to be thought of as " not that into you" or "old fashioned" .
Con- thought of as " needy" or overly zealous.




oh oh, here we go again.....................shocked shocked shocked

Dodo_David's photo
Sat 01/05/13 08:21 PM

Moving to fast can cause thee demise of the best or worst! I think rushing in has it's pro's and con's! Pro- don't want to be thought of as " not that into you" or "old fashioned" .
Con- thought of as " needy" or overly zealous.


Just what is wrong with being "old fashioned"?

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 01/05/13 10:27 PM
Telling someone you like them is not the same thing as rushing a relationship or moving too fast, IMO.


Ruth34611's photo
Sat 01/05/13 10:28 PM


Moving to fast can cause thee demise of the best or worst! I think rushing in has it's pro's and con's! Pro- don't want to be thought of as " not that into you" or "old fashioned" .
Con- thought of as " needy" or overly zealous.


Just what is wrong with being "old fashioned"?


Absolutely nothing.

TexasScoundrel's photo
Sun 01/06/13 06:13 AM
Personally, I want to get to the sex ASAP. All that relationship nonsense can wait.

teebee79's photo
Sun 01/06/13 10:01 AM

Moving to fast can cause thee demise of the best or worst! I think rushing in has it's pro's and con's! Pro- don't want to be thought of as " not that into you" or "old fashioned" .
Con- thought of as " needy" or overly zealous.


Personally I don't understand that when you are on a dating site...why move so frickin' slow?
Granted take time to know each other...but once the stars are aligned or whatever it is people feel for each other.. GO FOR IT!

No one is getting any younger!

oldhippie1952's photo
Sun 01/06/13 10:11 AM


Moving to fast can cause thee demise of the best or worst! I think rushing in has it's pro's and con's! Pro- don't want to be thought of as " not that into you" or "old fashioned" .
Con- thought of as " needy" or overly zealous.


Personally I don't understand that when you are on a dating site...why move so frickin' slow?
Granted take time to know each other...but once the stars are aligned or whatever it is people feel for each other.. GO FOR IT!

No one is getting any younger!


Some of us move fricking slow because we are waiting on a life changing event until we can move freaking fast. That's just the way it is.

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Sun 01/06/13 10:29 AM
Since when was moving slow dubbed old fashioned?

Since when was moving fast dubbed needy?

Who decides these things?frustrated

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Sun 01/06/13 10:35 AM


Moving to fast can cause thee demise of the best or worst! I think rushing in has it's pro's and con's! Pro- don't want to be thought of as " not that into you" or "old fashioned" .
Con- thought of as " needy" or overly zealous.


Personally I don't understand that when you are on a dating site...why move so frickin' slow?
Granted take time to know each other...but once the stars are aligned or whatever it is people feel for each other.. GO FOR IT!

No one is getting any younger!


I agree, we're not getting any younger.. we also don't want to repeat past mistakes either so yes.. taking it slow while getting to know the other is good.. to a point.. but I also agree that being up-front is best.. if you're not into the other person when face to face.. have the decency to say it (nicely though lol) and if you are? make plans for another date!

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Sun 01/06/13 10:42 AM

Since when was moving slow dubbed old fashioned?

Since when was moving fast dubbed needy?

Who decides these things?frustrated


I know what you mean Leigh.. but it's just loose terminology not an accurate science.. :wink: go at yer own pace gurl.. I do! bigsmile

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Sun 01/06/13 11:01 AM


Since when was moving slow dubbed old fashioned?

Since when was moving fast dubbed needy?

Who decides these things?frustrated


I know what you mean Leigh.. but it's just loose terminology not an accurate science.. :wink: go at yer own pace gurl.. I do! bigsmile


:thumbsup:

Hey ((((Zee))))

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Sun 01/06/13 11:02 AM



Since when was moving slow dubbed old fashioned?

Since when was moving fast dubbed needy?

Who decides these things?frustrated


I know what you mean Leigh.. but it's just loose terminology not an accurate science.. :wink: go at yer own pace gurl.. I do! bigsmile


:thumbsup:

Hey ((((Zee))))


howdy Ms ((Leigh)) waving