is it long distance relationship work????

Nope.

ok :)

It depends they can require a little of maintnence and not so much work. And from time time long distance relationships work.

I believe that if you both want it to work, it will work, not an easy option in my opinion and requires a lot of thought before entering in to a long distance relationship, but I guess that if their is a strong chemistry/attraction at the start, you will give it a try. Good luck in your search, and welcome to Mingle2.

Forgive me if I sound slightly nosy. Just that I was wondering why you might
want a ldr over someone you could find in your own country. Do you just
prefer distance? Happy new year . Also :)

I think if both are serious about relation, distance will not be a matter

Maybe she heard about us Mingle2 men... We can make quite a splash over seas

It could work. If for instance you could only see each other at weekends that's not really any different from a lot of relationships where the people live near each other. I think you would just have to ask yourself how practical it would be and how often you would expect to get together.

ohhh sorry i didnt heard about that about the guys here at all in first time i saw this site .....and i just want to meet other people and makes friends i just asking if its that work in a relationship

I think it can, some people are willing to put the effort into it. It's really up to the two people involved.

Yeah sometime, if u guys in real love nd have a gr8 understanding..

Long distance relationship works. It is only base on your choice, opinion, and true feeling.

Long distant relationships can work but generally take a person who is independent and does not need a great deal of emotional support and feels minimal jealousy.

If you are not flexible and adaptable about your cultural values and lifestyle you will probably find it difficult and very time consumeing.

They are also subject to great expense and dissappointment when they fail; which by significant majority they do. And fail in a big way someone usually being defrauded or abused.

International travel, love, and legal marriage not to mention attaining citizenship is extreamly difficult and extraordinarly expensive. Usually takeing great wealth well beyound what most American's at least can afford.

I love my country but coming to the USA, for example, can subject a person to extream poverty, isolation, cultural shock, homelessness, crime, and sometimes even deportation which believe me is not a good thing. It often does not necessarily mean home but only out of the USA.

Nor is the fact that trying to come to the USA can also result in being "redirected" into Human Trafficing and even death.

Your country will not care, or help you home, and the current social climate in the USA towards immigrants is NOT even remotely close to the happy results that are often advertized. Discrimination is a daily fact of life and it can be profound lasting for years. Do not ever kid yourself if you come here and do not speak and write English fluently you will be a for all intents and purposes often treated as a second class citizen socially and employment will be VERY difficult.

I would recommend NEVER attempting international travel without substantial resources, formal sponsorship of a very large organization or church with your countries full support. And a private saftey net that affords you shelter and transportation home.

Even if someone brings you here you CAN NOT force them to send you home and the USA will not front the expense.

Me personally, I've never seen one work. I've tried it twice myself. I know others who have tried it and it didn't work out. The great majority of women I have met want a man that's there,close by that they can see regularly. Not someone 100 miles or more away. It just makes things to hard.

It would not work...why not try to give each other a break instead?

I agree!

Then there are women like me, who actually don't want or need a man to be there too much....I have been a loner for a loooooong time...and yeah, it makes it hard for me to find someone to be a part of our lives, but hey...if they can't understand when I say, "I can't see you this week, what with work and the kiddo", then they don't need to, they can just go away.

I think it can just needs a different approach . Yet I will not kid you nor myself tho king it would be easy.

I think it makes it more difficult, but it all depends on the people, for me I have a mob of teenage children, who love and cuddle me constantly, so I dont have the neediness for a man to be near me through the day, It is really the nights that are the hardest as thats when normally you want to just lay and be together.

I need to know I am loved, but dont actually need someone holding my hand all day.

So for me a few miles works out OK, Although if i had a choice, I would choose to be together.