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Topic: How interesting
msharmony's photo
Thu 12/13/12 04:44 PM
Edited by msharmony on Thu 12/13/12 04:44 PM

I have viewed 25 profiles in the last week, with and without pics, and it would say to me that atleast one would view mine strictly for curiousity that i viewed theirs which would be indicated in my account page. Nothing, yet mingle boasts 9874 matches in the above pages, maybe i should view all 9874 to get someone to view mine back. Then again they all could be on holiday.



I dont even pay attention to who has viewed me

if its not a nudge or a mail, its not even aknowledged,,,

if they view me and didnt follow up, there must not be an interest
why look at their profile if there is no interest on their part?

Bravalady's photo
Thu 12/13/12 05:08 PM


I have viewed 25 profiles in the last week, with and without pics, and it would say to me that atleast one would view mine strictly for curiousity that i viewed theirs which would be indicated in my account page. Nothing, yet mingle boasts 9874 matches in the above pages, maybe i should view all 9874 to get someone to view mine back. Then again they all could be on holiday.



I dont even pay attention to who has viewed me

if its not a nudge or a mail, its not even aknowledged,,,

if they view me and didnt follow up, there must not be an interest
why look at their profile if there is no interest on their part?


Ditto.

no photo
Fri 12/14/12 06:24 AM
Well if they dont view my profile then we will never exchange pics and they'll never see just how handsome i am,, if some of these ladies could see how handsome i am they would all die and go to heaven.

unsure's photo
Fri 12/14/12 06:45 AM
Put a picture up and then write in the forums more. People have to get to know you a little. Plus never start an email by saying something stupid like
WOW YOU HAVE BEAUTIFUL LIPS OR YOU ARE HOT....major turn off!!!

no photo
Fri 12/14/12 06:56 AM

Put a picture up and then write in the forums more. People have to get to know you a little. Plus never start an email by saying something stupid like
WOW YOU HAVE BEAUTIFUL LIPS OR YOU ARE HOT....major turn off!!!


So you are saying when i reply with an email "hi my name is Sonnyyy , now can we have sex is out of the question ??

no photo
Fri 12/14/12 08:22 AM

Well if they dont view my profile then we will never exchange pics and they'll never see just how handsome i am,, if some of these ladies could see how handsome i am they would all die and go to heaven.


funny.. I saw your pic yesterday.. and didn't swoon or die but have lived yet anOTHER day.. go figure ohwell


no photo
Fri 12/14/12 08:23 AM

Well if they dont view my profile then we will never exchange pics and they'll never see just how handsome i am,, if some of these ladies could see how handsome i am they would all die and go to heaven.


sounds like a scam - tryna get peeps off the sites to private mail right away is a scamarama

BettyB's photo
Fri 12/14/12 10:28 AM



Well. i'm not going to argue the definitions of "lurk" , i did however came to this site to find a mate, and perhaps exchange chat and discussion but all i have seen is defensive mods on standby to direct the conversation to their points of view.
Where are the real people ?//


The real people are right here responding to you. If you want people to think you're real, put some effort into your profile, add clear pictures that show exactly what you look like and start getting to know people. Viewing people's profiles in hopes that they view you back and waiting around for them to contact you isn't going to work well, especially when you have no picture.


Interesting you say that, i viewed a profile with a very large , not so attractive elderly lady and her profile heading said "looking for a friend " In state of compassion and with her being local , i thought hell what is wrong with saying to her "i'll be your friend" and it would not kill me to have a coffee with her and a pleasant chat, even she did not reply or check my profile and now i'm left feeling neglected.

well now isn,t that just every womans dream..to have a sympathy date
How dare she refuse such a charming offer.

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 12/14/12 11:17 AM

Well if they dont view my profile then we will never exchange pics and they'll never see just how handsome i am,, if some of these ladies could see how handsome i am they would all die and go to heaven.


Wow, what a delusion of grandeur. Of course he doesn't bother to have a profile image. It would ruin the delusion.

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