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In High School, there was a gal that was pisssed about something and hollered "Hey jerk-off!" We all turned around. If I coulda been a fly on the wall... |
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Lemme guess. The girl that you really wanted badly turned you down in favor of a "jerk" right? Look man. Women go for a guy who.....
1. Makes a move on her. Yeah, he could be lying and all, but he is the one making the strong moves to get her. 2. Is confident. This doesn't mean a dude is a prick all the time. It's that women can sense a man with confidence and they will flock to that more often than not. 3. Women LIKE WHAT THEY LIKE. It could be the rough guy. It could be the dork. You never know. This concludes our session for the day. Live long and prosper. |
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Seriously? Wasn't aware i did.
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Lemme guess. The girl that you really wanted badly turned you down in favor of a "jerk" right? Look man. Women go for a guy who..... 1. Makes a move on her. Yeah, he could be lying and all, but he is the one making the strong moves to get her. 2. Is confident. This doesn't mean a dude is a prick all the time. It's that women can sense a man with confidence and they will flock to that more often than not. 3. Women LIKE WHAT THEY LIKE. It could be the rough guy. It could be the dork. You never know. This concludes our session for the day. Live long and prosper. you do have a point in that if he does not make a move and is interested in the woman she will not be aware of that....so logically are choices are going to be from the pool of men who actually DO something heck I don't even care that much if he's Mr. Confident as long as he is Mr. Say Something 
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Because some people's favorite color is red and others blue.
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Why do women like jerks in men? Shouldn't they want nice guys that care about them and not use them as meat? Men choose the wrong women, then complain about it. Why don't they choose nice, kind, considerate women who don't treat them like Meat? Seems they like to be treated like meat. 
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Because some people's favorite color is red and others blue. And thus the blood/crip war began. |
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Why do women like jerks in men? Shouldn't they want nice guys that care about them and not use them as meat? Hate to break this to you but the nice guys are the ones that turn out to be the jerks. I learned the hard way. |
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well was married to a jerk who lied all the time, its a question of low self esteem.
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Why do women like jerks in men? Shouldn't they want nice guys that care about them and not use them as meat? Hate to break this to you but the nice guys are the ones that turn out to be the jerks. I learned the hard way. some are good at covering it up for their personal agenda....and are only good or nice to you when it serves their purpose - like if you have something they want or they need your influence.... |
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Why do women like jerks in men? Shouldn't they want nice guys that care about them and not use them as meat? Hate to break this to you but the nice guys are the ones that turn out to be the jerks. I learned the hard way. some are good at covering it up for their personal agenda....and are only good or nice to you when it serves their purpose - like if you have something they want or they need your influence.... So what you are saying is that I should stop being nice, because you will think I have a hidden agenda? Or stop being so tolerant that a woman takes advantage once to often and I get pissed off? |
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Why do women like jerks in men? Shouldn't they want nice guys that care about them and not use them as meat? Hate to break this to you but the nice guys are the ones that turn out to be the jerks. I learned the hard way. some are good at covering it up for their personal agenda....and are only good or nice to you when it serves their purpose - like if you have something they want or they need your influence.... So what you are saying is that I should stop being nice, because you will think I have a hidden agenda? Or stop being so tolerant that a woman takes advantage once to often and I get pissed off? not really. at first glance it seems like I am saying you lose either way  isn't that what some men have come to expect from us ladies any how???
but really what I am saying is that it is important to get to know someone as if they are not as they say they it will become apparent - usually fairly soon I will say it's a tough rep to bust. if someone does have a hidden agenda for being nice to me and I catch on to that, I basically don't trust them at that point - even tho' it might not show in my behavior |
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Why do women like jerks in men? Shouldn't they want nice guys that care about them and not use them as meat? Hate to break this to you but the nice guys are the ones that turn out to be the jerks. I learned the hard way. some are good at covering it up for their personal agenda....and are only good or nice to you when it serves their purpose - like if you have something they want or they need your influence.... So what you are saying is that I should stop being nice, because you will think I have a hidden agenda? Or stop being so tolerant that a woman takes advantage once to often and I get pissed off? not really. at first glance it seems like I am saying you lose either way isn't that what some men have come to expect from us ladies any how???
but really what I am saying is that it is important to get to know someone as if they are not as they say they it will become apparent - usually fairly soon I will say it's a tough rep to bust. if someone does have a hidden agenda for being nice to me and I catch on to that, I basically don't trust them at that point - even tho' it might not show in my behavior I am still confused, I am I supposed to be nice or mean to you? |
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Why do women like jerks in men? Shouldn't they want nice guys that care about them and not use them as meat? Hate to break this to you but the nice guys are the ones that turn out to be the jerks. I learned the hard way. Nope not from my experience. The nice guys I met were just that, very nice. I can spot a JERK a mile away, so to speak. He shows his colors real fast. |
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Lemme guess. The girl that you really wanted badly turned you down in favor of a "jerk" right? Look man. Women go for a guy who..... 1. Makes a move on her. Yeah, he could be lying and all, but he is the one making the strong moves to get her. 2. Is confident. This doesn't mean a dude is a prick all the time. It's that women can sense a man with confidence and they will flock to that more often than not. 3. Women LIKE WHAT THEY LIKE. It could be the rough guy. It could be the dork. You never know. This concludes our session for the day. Live long and prosper. wow! do you hold seminars? cause you could be onto something very profitable and marketable right there,,,lol
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Why do women like jerks in men? Shouldn't they want nice guys that care about them and not use them as meat? Hate to break this to you but the nice guys are the ones that turn out to be the jerks. I learned the hard way. some are good at covering it up for their personal agenda....and are only good or nice to you when it serves their purpose - like if you have something they want or they need your influence.... Yep; you got what I meant. 
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Why do women like jerks in men? Shouldn't they want nice guys that care about them and not use them as meat? Hate to break this to you but the nice guys are the ones that turn out to be the jerks. I learned the hard way. some are good at covering it up for their personal agenda....and are only good or nice to you when it serves their purpose - like if you have something they want or they need your influence.... So what you are saying is that I should stop being nice, because you will think I have a hidden agenda? Or stop being so tolerant that a woman takes advantage once to often and I get pissed off? not really. at first glance it seems like I am saying you lose either way isn't that what some men have come to expect from us ladies any how???
but really what I am saying is that it is important to get to know someone as if they are not as they say they it will become apparent - usually fairly soon I will say it's a tough rep to bust. if someone does have a hidden agenda for being nice to me and I catch on to that, I basically don't trust them at that point - even tho' it might not show in my behavior I am still confused, I am I supposed to be nice or mean to you? How about just being yourself? I know that would work for me. |
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Why do women like jerks in men? Shouldn't they want nice guys that care about them and not use them as meat? Hate to break this to you but the nice guys are the ones that turn out to be the jerks. I learned the hard way. Nope not from my experience. The nice guys I met were just that, very nice. I can spot a JERK a mile away, so to speak. He shows his colors real fast. I met a guy that was very nice and always proclaimed he was nice; that was until he tried to break my neck which almost killed me. So, I don't trust someone who tries to sell themselves as nice. |
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Edited by
GreenEyes48
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Sun 12/23/12 07:34 AM
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It's not just a matter of being "nice." Too much "nice" without any "substance" can be boring..It's like eating a can of frosting all by itself with no cake!..Or drinking "A-1 Sauce" straight from the bottle with no steak or meat..There has to be some sort of a "match" and "mutual click" on both sides to give a relationship a strong foundation. If things are just one-sided a relationship won't last.
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Why do women like jerks in men? Shouldn't they want nice guys that care about them and not use them as meat? How come the nice guys never ask this question.... 
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