I was refering to one love, for life..... To love, regardless of the amount, is the reason we all are here. We are all connected, wanting and hopefully, giving the same as we receive. Loving is not just sex, but a connection by way of the touch, the scent of a woman, the look that holds..... I will stop there.

Sherbert.....have you tried singing "Come on baby light my fire" while riding a tricycle down 69th and Vine???? I heard this works to get that spark!

I find lighting my farts works better, it's easier and a lot more fun. :)

lol well its a bit more dangerous than shaving !!!laugh: But, yes, more fun indeed!!!

well have you found your dog sparky yet.....wait a minute your talking about a spark of love!!!my bad!!!lol, just wanted to say its been a long time for me too with the whole chemistry spark feeling i wander though if i hold a penny in the light socket would i get a result there, but do have a wedding next weekend to go to you never know maybe ill find her there!!!!

try a fork in any outlet in the house.......Ive heard this also works as well!

Well I have at times had that same spark and yes it can happen more than once and there is no gurantee how long it will stay around. The last guy I had that instant spark with was 2 years ago and it was like fireworks each time I was around him . So yeah I know the feeling. And wonder myself if I will every find that feeling again. For I will take no less than that feeling again. If it deems that I'm alone the rest of my life then so be it I want that feeling again.

so does this spark guarantee long lasting love? Or do we just want to feel that spark, even for a little while? What is inside that spark? What chemical is it??? Pheromes?

It can happen more than once and I have loved from afar before. He recently admitted he feels the same way, but we can't be together. Sparks, firewirks, longing, pain and missing him most of the time. Everytime I say no more, I end up going back on what I said. Without going into too many details, he totally wrong for me and yeah maybe it is pheramones......who the hell knows? I just know it hurts, so Shenerd, don't feel alone. It can happen again, my problem is proximity and patience......Txs, you are right on the money. I hope that I can be strong enough to stay alone rather that settle for less. And Gypsi, can I borrow your monkey and his fork? I need a good shoke to the old brian to wake my azz up. Caffine just ain't gonna do it today. Shenerd, can you have your monkey bake me up some strudel and I'll bring the chocolate chips and peanutbutter. All I have are the chips right now but they melt real good

It is more of a chemistry like two belong together some say spark some say love others say it is chemistry, to me they are all one and the same to me. Being around them leaves you breathless you enjoy your time together. When there not there you wish they were. Sometimes just by a look you know what the other is thinking. There touch upon you skin sends mild electric shocks through your body. It just all seems right.

But gurantee there is no gurantee's in love at all. Lasting Love do any of us know what that is ? Because if we are looking then we have not had that lasting Love as of yet.

I got yer forbidden strudel right here!



all i need is your soul

That is why I am looking or I guess waiting for the "right" guy to come along and accept me for who and what I am. I am not "hung up" this person so much that I can't recognise real love reciprocated and accepting. I just don't want to be used up and kicked to the curb. No one does, but sometimes we can't help who we love and that doesn't mean that we don't have control over how we deal with it. I am not waiting around to find someone to behave, cat like or replace the person I wish I could be with or I wouldn't be here, but rather waiting for the person I deserve and who deserves me......that I beleave can happen. If it happens here all the better!

I find hiding in my house and only going out to work, keeps me from finding any sparks....its safer that way

Gypsi.......so you replace the sparks with a monkey with a fork in a socket? hahahaha.

Awww Gypsy , girl your not the only one that does that. that way one don't have to deal with the heart ache later.

Satan says,

Gypsy i already have...she burns
and SheNerd will burn too

ok where is sherbert??? at the horny chair again???

Hey might not be a bad ideal still get those SPARKS