all my friends are leaving there wifes dont want sex no more all way excuse not to have sex, all way tire, but you tell them your taken them out they have nothing wrong with them, not sick tired headach long as your spending money on them there fine

I have dated a few "Wemon"and was on a couple of different dating sites.Since i've been living in this Bus or they see on my profile about the Bus they move on.My daughter told me a good while ago that when i meet a woman i'm being too good to them,and i try too hard for a relationship with women?But that's the way i was brought up "with respect"for yourself and others.Most of todays women just see a $ sign and not compatibility with a man(not all)but they are far and few.Sometimes i also wonder if any good Women are out there?As i am sure Good women are wondering about Men.Seems like a lie has taken its toll on everyone Good these days and the Truth doesn't belong anymore!To me it doesn't matter anymore,and i live the way i do out of necessity not because i like it!And ide move in a home tomorrow if ide find this good woman but when viagra days hit me i won't be on dating sites anymore!The best of luck to you and to anyone else reading this!!

OP's profile, speaks lots of negative points in his present life. Now he seems to ramble about problems ladies have. I ask the question: Would a more positive approach to life get better results? I am sorry for his present situation, but suggest getting some help finding a more positive approach to life. I can't see blaming others, when a person approaches life IS A CHOICE.

OPINION

well that attitude doesn't inspire the closeness required to feel sexual. perhaps all of your friends are no longer attractive to their wives for one reason or another?

what happened to love and loyality in later years ?

Interesting as I have two male friends in their 50s who have lost their desire for sex but their wives aren't leaving them. Funny how people react to this problem.

I seem to have the problem with men that think they can buy my love with money. I don't want a man's money; nor do I want silly gifts bought, nor do I want a man to support me in any way. However; you tell a guy this and he gets mad. So, you get mad when a woman wants you for money then you get mad when a woman doesn't want you for money. Talk about confusing messages.

I admire you for contributing in any relationship,But there are gifts from the heart as well as gifts just for buying affection.Look how the presentation of these are!The greatest gifts i've received is a look or hug!Its always what you put in a relationship that counts not money, Some people look at these posts as Negativity,and confuse them for Honesty,I can't because for one i'm not the person that's posting and can see in their head or their feelings.All i do is Read and Absorbe information!

I agree that gifts should come from the heart but men think they can buy that with money. You have a disagreement and rather than say you are sorry; you try to buy the apologies with stupid things like flowers or jewelry. Most women will buy into this crap but I won't.

You dont't leave a wife cause she doesnt want sex, get help all kinds out there.

I don't want any man that does not know how to give a nice gift. I'm use to that at times and I wouldn't want any different. The men I've been in relationships with were givers not just to Me, but any Woman they really cared about.

I hate stingy men.

Me; I would rather a man give me his ear, a shoulder to lean on, or his understanding, or a little of his personal time instead of a store bought gift.

right navy girl

We go in and out on wanting the sex in older years and loving man that understands is the one I want. Respect in a relationship keeps it from dying.

I agree with Don the OP is negative.

Treat me like your treasure not your belongings.

When men talk about this money thing I just think there stingy and go on. Yes I know some women will take you for your money but most don't. Are you looking for the good ones. If your looking for tramps and get taken who's fault is that. Just sayin

I agree with what she is saying,"from a woman's view"But again this is only my view-I want the WHOLE PACKAGE when i decide to try again for a relationship.Yes we are ALL getting older"time never stops"Caring,Holding Hands,Making Love,Cuddling,Sharing,It all goes in a commitment with whomever you decide to be with!But my experiences with relationship's is a woman withholding all the above from a man"just to get her way"And i ask you if he is a Good man"is this right?Like i say we are all getting Older and Hopefully Smarter don't you think~"All Pleasures reward the Labor to keep the Relationship Going?Nobody should be Used.
Try Thinking of the other persons Feelings and what they want as well!!!Maby we can All stay YOUNG AT HEART at least?

We all post Negatives and Positives in a conversation on here.But i look at all posts as the Ops opinion.
We all have conversations this way.

Carold speaks of a "woman will take you for your money". THERE IS NO WAY ANYONE CAN "TAKE YOUR MONEY". Let's call a Spade, a Spade. If a man CHOSES to give a LADY MONEY, he MAY have a hidden agenda. That agenda could be a manner of control & when that "control" is not achieved, they cry "FOUL" & "SHE TOOK MY MONEY". When the truth is, HE GAVE THAT MONEY, WILLINGLY.

Want the "WHOLE PACKAGE" & money is a major concern. DISCUSS money at the first meeting & let the lady know, how you see things. Don't spend money & then set the rules. My OPINION.

So the sage sayth.

I want a Man who does all that as well as gives gifts along with it. There are still lots of men out there who do all this, problem is not many left Single in my age group.

This post is confusing at best...but however you interpret it, it's negative. Nobody gets "taken" without their consent and a loving relationship may/may not have a sexual element at a particular age. It sounds like there are a lot of other things going on. Good luck to you and all your friends in their search for happiness, wherever you all find it.

Huh, I guess you haven't experienced the kind of person who will run up your phone bill on multiple long distance calls for a month, then leave you for parts unknown.

Yes, this was when people still had house phones. Not so likely now, I suppose, but still, I just think you've been lucky not to run into people like this. I was lucky I only ran into one.

It never ceases to amaze me the number of creeps out there. It seems to me that they would be easier to spot. I guess not.