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Women are not logical creatures, so there not gonna make sense. When you understand that everything makes sense. Use your instincs, i've found being more primal will let you make better choices when it comes to women. seriously?? 
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Addressing the title of this thread, when are women not confusing? when men actually listen... 
Oh, men listen to women. Men just don't understand what they hear. If they pay attention while listening it will help a great deal. Oh, men do pay attention, but what they hear doesn't always make sense. Several years ago, my late wife scolded me for forgetting about a birthday party for her niece. There was just one problem. She hadn't told me about the party. The party had been discussed while my wife and I were visiting her brother, but my wife and her relatives spoke in Spanish while discussing the upcoming party. I don't speak Spanish, and everyone knew that. Thus, I didn't understand a word that was said about the party, and my wife did not explain to me what was said. So, on the day of the party, I did not know that I had a party to attend, which is why I stopped to talk to someone on the way home from work. My wife was mad because she was waiting for me to get home so that we could go to the party . . . a party that she had not told me about. The problem wasn't that I hadn't paid attention while listening. The problem was that my wife had failed to communicate to me what was going on. Yes, a woman can be the cause of a man's confusion. |
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Women are not logical creatures . . .
 Dude, expect this to be opened up on you:
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Addressing the title of this thread, when are women not confusing? when men actually listen...
Oh, men listen to women. Men just don't understand what they hear. If they pay attention while listening it will help a great deal. Oh, men do pay attention, but what they hear doesn't always make sense. Several years ago, my late wife scolded me for forgetting about a birthday party for her niece. There was just one problem. She hadn't told me about the party. The party had been discussed while my wife and I were visiting her brother, but my wife and her relatives spoke in Spanish while discussing the upcoming party. I don't speak Spanish, and everyone knew that. Thus, I didn't understand a word that was said about the party, and my wife did not explain to me what was said. So, on the day of the party, I did not know that I had a party to attend, which is why I stopped to talk to someone on the way home from work. My wife was mad because she was waiting for me to get home so that we could go to the party . . . a party that she had not told me about. The problem wasn't that I hadn't paid attention while listening. The problem was that my wife had failed to communicate to me what was going on. Yes, a woman can be the cause of a man's confusion. So, because your wife forgot to tell you something, no women make sense? Do you realize how silly that sounds? |
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Women are not logical creatures, so there not gonna make sense. When you understand that everything makes sense. Use your instincs, i've found being more primal will let you make better choices when it comes to women. 
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Women will stop being confusing the day that men stop.
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I am confused
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So, because your wife forgot to tell you something, no women make sense? Do you realize how silly that sounds? You claimed that if men don't understand what women say, then it is because the men are doing something wrong. Thus, I gave an illustration of a communication error being a woman's fault. To be fair, I do regret my first post in this thread. I erred by saying what I said. I am now doing this to myself: 
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So, because your wife forgot to tell you something, no women make sense? Do you realize how silly that sounds? You claimed that if men don't understand what women say, then it is because the men are doing something wrong. Thus, I gave an illustration of a communication error being a woman's fault. To be fair, I do regret my first post in this thread. I erred by saying what I said. I am now doing this to myself: Actually, what I said was that if you listen and pay attention, you'd understand women more. Is it wrong if you don't pay attention? Well, if you want to understand women, then you decide if it's wrong. The example you gave was for a specific person, not women in general. |
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So, because your wife forgot to tell you something, no women make sense? Do you realize how silly that sounds? You claimed that if men don't understand what women say, then it is because the men are doing something wrong. Thus, I gave an illustration of a communication error being a woman's fault. To be fair, I do regret my first post in this thread. I erred by saying what I said. I am now doing this to myself: Actually, what I said was that if you listen and pay attention, you'd understand women more. Is it wrong if you don't pay attention? Well, if you want to understand women, then you decide if it's wrong. The example you gave was for a specific person, not women in general. A man can listen well, pay attention and still end up confused if the woman's message is confusing. It is possible for a woman not to communicate well no matter how well a man listens and pays attention. |
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So, because your wife forgot to tell you something, no women make sense? Do you realize how silly that sounds? You claimed that if men don't understand what women say, then it is because the men are doing something wrong. Thus, I gave an illustration of a communication error being a woman's fault. To be fair, I do regret my first post in this thread. I erred by saying what I said. I am now doing this to myself: Actually, what I said was that if you listen and pay attention, you'd understand women more. Is it wrong if you don't pay attention? Well, if you want to understand women, then you decide if it's wrong. The example you gave was for a specific person, not women in general. A man can listen well, pay attention and still end up confused if the woman's message is confusing. It is possible for a woman not to communicate well no matter how well a man listens and pays attention. Sure it is. Just as it's possible for a man to be confusing and not communicate well. Does that mean all women are confusing and make no sense? No. Does that mean all men are confusing and make no sense? No. |
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So, because your wife forgot to tell you something, no women make sense? Do you realize how silly that sounds? You claimed that if men don't understand what women say, then it is because the men are doing something wrong. Thus, I gave an illustration of a communication error being a woman's fault. To be fair, I do regret my first post in this thread. I erred by saying what I said. I am now doing this to myself: Actually, what I said was that if you listen and pay attention, you'd understand women more. Is it wrong if you don't pay attention? Well, if you want to understand women, then you decide if it's wrong. The example you gave was for a specific person, not women in general. A man can listen well, pay attention and still end up confused if the woman's message is confusing. It is possible for a woman not to communicate well no matter how well a man listens and pays attention. They just want you do what they say or wish not minding if it makes sense to you or not. That way you are... caring. |
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So, because your wife forgot to tell you something, no women make sense? Do you realize how silly that sounds? You claimed that if men don't understand what women say, then it is because the men are doing something wrong. Thus, I gave an illustration of a communication error being a woman's fault. To be fair, I do regret my first post in this thread. I erred by saying what I said. I am now doing this to myself: Actually, what I said was that if you listen and pay attention, you'd understand women more. Is it wrong if you don't pay attention? Well, if you want to understand women, then you decide if it's wrong. The example you gave was for a specific person, not women in general. A man can listen well, pay attention and still end up confused if the woman's message is confusing. It is possible for a woman not to communicate well no matter how well a man listens and pays attention. They just want you do what they say or wish not minding if it makes sense to you or not. That way you are... caring. |
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A man can listen well, pay attention and still end up confused if the woman's message is confusing. It is possible for a woman not to communicate well no matter how well a man listens and pays attention. Sure it is. Just as it's possible for a man to be confusing and not communicate well. Does that mean all women are confusing and make no sense? No. Does that mean all men are confusing and make no sense? No. I did say that I erred in my first post in this thread and that I am kicking myself for saying what I said. You won the argument. |
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Edited by
indianadave4
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Fri 11/30/12 10:16 AM
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All pregnancies begin as a female even if the Y gene is present. At 8 weeks the Y gene causes the child to be saturated with testosterone and a number of changes take place.
From conception the logic center is run through the emotion center. When testosterone is exposed many of these interconnects (Synapsis) are severed and the logic center develops other interconnects. In a sense men could be considered "damaged goods". The difference is a woman's logic thought pattern is "filtered" through her emotion center: a man's logic is not. This is why men's logic seems so void of emotion to women. Yes, there are small variations but over all this is one of the processes that set us apart. Something that may explain why women require a long term relationship before they consider sexual involvement is female sex impulses are channeled through the emotion center. Over all they need their emotions stimulated before they will concede to sex and the best condition for this is in a long term relationship. This physiological difference is why men and women sometimes misunderstand each other. The same information can be heard/seen by both but the brain processes it a little differently. |
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Regardless of how much u love ur partner there are still some habits u jst can't understand??? I hope we all helped you and you understand everything that's been said. |
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Always reply with "Yes, Dear" ... Even when confused WORD 
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that would be called "selective hearing" 
either that or their ears are covered by the boobs that surround them
are u referring to the tendency for boobs to be a distraction? Where is JT? he's never around when we need an expert opinion 
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that would be called "selective hearing"
either that or their ears are covered by the boobs that surround them
are u referring to the tendency for boobs to be a distraction? Where is JT? he's never around when we need an expert opinion
JT can be distracting at times, but isn't it a bit too much to call him a boob? From http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/boob Definition of BOOB
1 : a stupid awkward person : simpleton 2 : boor, philistine |
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I think you should put "some" before "women" on your title....thank you. I agree! |
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