why did it ask for my cell number?? is it going to bill me

If you did not sign up for 'Premium' membership,
there is NO billing involved.

Adresses and phone numbers are most often asked on these sites for the ads that pay for the site. It gives more locations to contact.

i dont even ever recall
when i signed up
them asking me for my phone

Hello dgreeley,

The phone texting service is a co-registration offer. If you have inadvertently subscribed to this offer, you can opt out at any time.

In order to unsubscribe from the service, first locate any text message you have received from this service on your cell phone. Open that text message and select "Reply" to write back to the sender. In that message simply put the word "STOP" and hit "Send". You should receive a confirmation within 1-2 minutes that your service has been cancelled.

If you need further information, please mail me.