Topic: pondering thought
Dodo_David's photo
Thu 10/18/12 03:30 PM




That image reminds me of Mel Brooks in the movie Robin Hood: Men In Tights.

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Thu 10/18/12 03:48 PM






1. Perv
2.womanizer


Ah, so there isn't sexual equality being presented in this thread.


Well, I can't speak for the other poster but I was just kidding around. I am sorry if I offended you Dodo_David. flowerforyou


You have never offended me. flowerforyou

However, I do see a sexual double standard in claiming that an old man can be dirty but not an old woman.


It's just as creepy when much older women are with much younger men.

But, there's always a double standard when it comes to sex. Women who have several sexual partners are often referred to as sluts. Men are often praised for having several.


Such praise comes from adolescents . . . or from people with adolescent minds. However, you do have a point.

So, do we agree that men and women are equally dirty or equally perverted when it comes to dating a much younger person? Why should one gender be considered dirty or perverted but not the other?


Are you sure we're disagreeing with you? Call it whatever you want. Dirty/creepy/whatever. A man dating a women who is young enough to be his daughter creeps me out. Just as a woman dating a man young enough to be her son. I think it's still more acceptable in society for older men to date younger women, though.

What makes me laugh are the really young guys (19/20) who go after women my age saying they're into cougars. Cougars in my mind are much older. Even so, those guys are way too young for me.

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 10/18/12 03:56 PM
What makes me laugh are the really young guys (19/20) who go after women my age saying they're into cougars.


Nah. They simply want sugar mammas.

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Thu 10/18/12 07:18 PM
Edited by singmesweet on Thu 10/18/12 07:19 PM

What makes me laugh are the really young guys (19/20) who go after women my age saying they're into cougars.


Nah. They simply want sugar mammas.


What do you mean nah?

And young women who are into older men want sugar daddies?

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 10/18/12 07:35 PM

And young women who are into older men want sugar daddies?


Does the name "Anna Nicole Smith" mean anything to you?

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Thu 10/18/12 07:40 PM
I was just asking you if you thought it was the same for both men and women.

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 10/18/12 07:43 PM

I was just asking you if you thought it was the same for both men and women.


It looks that way to me. glasses

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Thu 10/18/12 07:52 PM
Alrighty! That was easy enough to answer. :wink:

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 10/18/12 07:55 PM

Alrighty! That was easy enough to answer. :wink:


flowers

Hikerjohn's photo
Thu 10/18/12 09:48 PM






1. Perv
2.womanizer


Ah, so there isn't sexual equality being presented in this thread.


Well, I can't speak for the other poster but I was just kidding around. I am sorry if I offended you Dodo_David. flowerforyou


You have never offended me. flowerforyou

However, I do see a sexual double standard in claiming that an old man can be dirty but not an old woman.


It's just as creepy when much older women are with much younger men.

But, there's always a double standard when it comes to sex. Women who have several sexual partners are often referred to as sluts. Men are often praised for having several.


Yeah; that is so true. :thumbsup:


Wow. Didn't we just cover this from the other direction. That when it came to men, women wanted a guy who knew what he was doing in bed. That requires practice. So in reality its the lady's who WANT a man who slept around. And some how is now tamed by your magic powers to only want you. And now we are wondering why male players are not considered sluts?

No wonder we cannot figure you ladies out. slaphead


wux's photo
Thu 10/18/12 10:22 PM
Edited by wux on Thu 10/18/12 10:25 PM

What is an older man called when he likes a younger women?
And a milf is a sexy mummy wat is sexy dad called?


Old goat
Silly old goat
Sexy senior citizen who likes sexy junior citizens
A dreamer, a visionary
Confused
Misplaced sense of self
Politician or other rich goofs
Senile



Sexy dad
Fox man
Hard man
Tuff man
Kid minder sex god
Romulus and Remus
Wolf man
Erectus huminis
A really lucky guy
A guy who gets laid a lot
Something every woman wants but is too afraid to ask for
The crown of creation
The wearer of the jewels of the Nile
King
Boss
Dad
Czar
Emperor
Father
(sometimes) Grandfather
The shaker and mover
Zzzzz the Zip dude
Gregory Peck
Noran Gleibensteiner
Santa Claus
The keeper of the leopard's jaws
The one that can pry open a crocodiles jaws with his bare hands and rummage around inside for his last night's rubber that the croc insisted he wear during oral sex
Lion tamer, tinker, tankerer, drinker

sandymac68's photo
Thu 10/18/12 11:17 PM
wow that was all interesting. So even todays society the debate in all is that women aren't considered a filthy dirty toyboy player as a man is a pedo, dirty old man, not all men r dirty pervs but young girls after old rich men r known as gold diggers...
And young guys looking for cougars, well wat is the age to be a cougar.... I've been called a cougar (considering i only date guys four years younger then me), milf and now been upgraded to a nilf (cause i'm a nanna) go figure.
I feel dirty when young guys call me that, even the others for two young is off limits n been called a gold digger when i go out with men way older then me..
I think sexy older men should be equal to us older women.. Cause either way at the age 44 i can't win when dating men...
Oh and i do call men who sleep with heaps off women sluts n they hate it.

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Thu 10/18/12 11:17 PM
Edited by sandymac68 on Thu 10/18/12 11:30 PM
well with this thread too i didn't want to be treading on glass with this thought. Just thought with in time things may have changed but as i can see things will never be equal for men.. And sorry if yr ears were burning to much hikerjohn...

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Fri 10/19/12 06:13 AM







1. Perv
2.womanizer


Ah, so there isn't sexual equality being presented in this thread.


Well, I can't speak for the other poster but I was just kidding around. I am sorry if I offended you Dodo_David. flowerforyou


You have never offended me. flowerforyou

However, I do see a sexual double standard in claiming that an old man can be dirty but not an old woman.


It's just as creepy when much older women are with much younger men.

But, there's always a double standard when it comes to sex. Women who have several sexual partners are often referred to as sluts. Men are often praised for having several.


Yeah; that is so true. :thumbsup:


Wow. Didn't we just cover this from the other direction. That when it came to men, women wanted a guy who knew what he was doing in bed. That requires practice. So in reality its the lady's who WANT a man who slept around. And some how is now tamed by your magic powers to only want you. And now we are wondering why male players are not considered sluts?

No wonder we cannot figure you ladies out. slaphead




I would guess it depends on the woman as to what she wants. I'm not really following your post, though. What does wondering why men are not considered sluts have to do with how you think women want men who sleep around?

And what are you not able to figure out?

Hikerjohn's photo
Fri 10/19/12 06:52 AM



I would guess it depends on the woman as to what she wants. I'm not really following your post, though. What does wondering why men are not considered sluts have to do with how you think women want men who sleep around?

And what are you not able to figure out?



I was being factitious sweety. In a slightly sarcastic way, I was stating the complexity of the irrational thought pattern that some ladies can have when there desires are conflictual at the moment they are confused with why it seams to make sense but doesn't in the hopes that a light bulb turns on and highlights the inner conflict that sometimes blinds one from seeing internal issues when they are looking externally.

Hope that helps clear up my post. :thumbsup:

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Fri 10/19/12 07:01 AM




I would guess it depends on the woman as to what she wants. I'm not really following your post, though. What does wondering why men are not considered sluts have to do with how you think women want men who sleep around?

And what are you not able to figure out?



I was being factitious sweety. In a slightly sarcastic way, I was stating the complexity of the irrational thought pattern that some ladies can have when there desires are conflictual at the moment they are confused with why it seams to make sense but doesn't in the hopes that a light bulb turns on and highlights the inner conflict that sometimes blinds one from seeing internal issues when they are looking externally.

Hope that helps clear up my post. :thumbsup:


You were being sarcastic? Ah, ok.

What irrational thought pattern are you talking about? What do you think women are confused about?

Hikerjohn's photo
Fri 10/19/12 07:23 AM
Edited by Hikerjohn on Fri 10/19/12 07:26 AM





I would guess it depends on the woman as to what she wants. I'm not really following your post, though. What does wondering why men are not considered sluts have to do with how you think women want men who sleep around?

And what are you not able to figure out?



I was being factitious sweety. In a slightly sarcastic way, I was stating the complexity of the irrational thought pattern that some ladies can have when there desires are conflictual at the moment they are confused with why it seams to make sense but doesn't in the hopes that a light bulb turns on and highlights the inner conflict that sometimes blinds one from seeing internal issues when they are looking externally.

Hope that helps clear up my post. :thumbsup:


You were being sarcastic? Ah, ok.

What irrational thought pattern are you talking about? What do you think women are confused about?


Well as I said only some ladies who can have irrational thought patterns. Not all ladies. Just some. And I am sure some guys too. And those thoughts are specific for each person so there is no set rational answer for the question. waving drinker

And my post was more factitious than sarcastic.

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Fri 10/19/12 07:45 AM






I would guess it depends on the woman as to what she wants. I'm not really following your post, though. What does wondering why men are not considered sluts have to do with how you think women want men who sleep around?

And what are you not able to figure out?



I was being factitious sweety. In a slightly sarcastic way, I was stating the complexity of the irrational thought pattern that some ladies can have when there desires are conflictual at the moment they are confused with why it seams to make sense but doesn't in the hopes that a light bulb turns on and highlights the inner conflict that sometimes blinds one from seeing internal issues when they are looking externally.

Hope that helps clear up my post. :thumbsup:


You were being sarcastic? Ah, ok.

What irrational thought pattern are you talking about? What do you think women are confused about?


Well as I said only some ladies who can have irrational thought patterns. Not all ladies. Just some. And I am sure some guys too. And those thoughts are specific for each person so there is no set rational answer for the question. waving drinker

And my post was more factitious than sarcastic.


I see.

Well, your previous post didn't clear up much, as it was confusing. That's why I asked you what you were talking about.

msharmony's photo
Fri 10/19/12 08:33 AM
Edited by msharmony on Fri 10/19/12 08:34 AM

was just thinking ( which i don't often do lately).. Lol
if an older woman who likes young men is called a cougar. What is an older man called when he likes a younger women?
And a milf is a sexy mummy wat is sexy dad called?



depends upon whom you ask,, and if its an exclusive requirement or just an inclusive consideration


If they ONLY want the young ones,,,I call them both predators,, but thats just me

krupa's photo
Fri 10/19/12 09:34 AM
You guys put way too much thought into it.....

Younger...older....who the hell cares?

If two people are happy...that is good enough....screw what anyone else thinks.

Me and my girl ain't the same age......I love her like a man is supposed to love and cherish his woman...anyone else don't like the age gap....that's THIER problem.

I just love my woman and she loves me...we talk about a lot of things but, age differences has never been brought up.