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the other persons heart and desire is not with you anymore. Is that OK with you? That's the question. And if you tell them its OK, then they will continue. The risk is telling them its not OK and them leaving. But do you want to stay with someone who is seeking pleasure with someone other than you. Ditto..... 
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Yes, it is cheating. You should be enough and she should have been having cyber sex with you.
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I see it as not only cheating but distorted thinking and exploitative since too many people resort to doing this under duress of one sort or another. It is living a lie on so many levels it would make me seriously question their judgment, sense of boundaries, and impulse control. There may come a day when cyber sex is well programmed enough that it is just images and digital responses but currently that is someone on the other end of the keyboard camera that is pimping themself and doing the "Brain function" (however limited that might be) for the client. I think when you interact in an intimate sexualized fashion with someone other than your partner that is definitely cheating. All the way...that's exactly what I would say. Some might pin the person they are doing this to as "too controlling" "needy" "obsessed" "a nag." Nope, in Mariah's land, if the person you are exclusive with is not enough, then BREAK UP with them. |
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No it is not "infidelity" but it is a deal breaker for me.
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Mind, Spirit, Body.......there are many forms of infidelity........
If one is focused on someone other than your S.O then someone is losing out. JMO |
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Safe sex though. lol
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Years ago my friend's new husband called me on the phone and tried to do "sex talk" with me...I never liked him. He always seemed "creepy" to me. I didn't know what my friend saw in him. But she sure claimed to be head over heels in love with him...I cut him off and told him off when he called... I told him that I didn't think he was "all that." And I warned him not to call me again "or else."...I thought about telling my friend but it seemed awkward since they just got married and she professed to be "oh so in love" with him...I stopped spending time with my friend. I didn't want to be in the middle of anything. Or see him if I went to their house...Maybe I should have told her. I'm not sure...She seemed in "ga-ga land" and it was hard to burst her "bubble." I never understood why she married him. I think she was on the "rebound." Her longtime husband left her for a much younger woman...The Internet wasn't invented (or in operation) back then. But her husband definitely seemed like the kind of guy who would love "cyber-sex."
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Mind, Spirit, Body.......there are many forms of infidelity........ If one is focused on someone other than your S.O then someone is losing out. JMO Damn right...
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Thanks everyone for your post replies. In my opinion it is infidelity, and were it to happen to me I am not sure how I would react. I would be shattered. A serious relationship and marriage for me must be monogamous in every sense. I would certainly need to talk about it with my partner, and then decide if my love and trust could be restored or had been lost forever.
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Mind, Spirit, Body.......there are many forms of infidelity........ If one is focused on someone other than your S.O then someone is losing out. JMO Damn right...
Ditto!!! I have seen people cheat with being addicted to many things, people, or even ideas or religion. I think if a mate is "deprived" in a relationship they have to speak up for themselves and get their needs met by their spouse not a third party. |
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It is still cheating. It may not have been "physical" but it was emotional... Cheating is cheating.
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For me,yes definately .IT would be enough for me to end a marrage ,II wasnt enough, then he needs to be with someone who is Is porn cheating? |
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