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Topic: Sex in a relationship
Unknow Joined Sat 10/21/06 Posts: 3353	Fri 09/21/12 05:07 PM
Have you probably felt being used and cheap after a first date sex? It aint worth it really. ...Gotta agree with Napodan too! Get to know em first!

andrewzooms Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 2842	Fri 09/21/12 05:13 PM
Have you probably felt being used and cheap after a first date sex? It aint worth it really. It sure makes for an exciting night.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Fri 09/21/12 06:27 PM
How long would you date someone before you feel its mature enough to make love. Is it like if you rush in, you would rush out or it helps to make the relationship stronger? its not set in stone, I do have to feel there is love and commitment first,, and thats not gonna happen (for me) in just one day or one week,,,,or one month...

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Fri 09/21/12 06:42 PM
no set time or rule, just when it feels right for me. Am einundzwangigsten Januar, zwanzig hundert dreizehn, genau am sechzehn Uhr funfunddreisig Minuten. This means, on January 21, 2013, at exacly thirty-five minutes past sixteen hundred hours. I put it in German to create some credibility to the the perceived precision of the timing.

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Fri 09/21/12 06:45 PM
Have you probably felt being used and cheap after a first date sex? It aint worth it really. It sure makes for an exciting night. What do you mean. It's exciting to have sex, or it's exciting to do activities that cheapen you and are not really worth doing? I'm not trying to start an argument. I am just trying to say that if it's the latter, then I am jealous of your wit.

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Fri 09/21/12 06:47 PM
Have you probably felt being used and cheap after a first date sex? It aint worth it really. I don't think sex is cheap. It's quite expensive, actually. And if it's cheap, you usually get what you pay for it.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Fri 09/21/12 06:48 PM
Have you probably felt being used and cheap after a first date sex? It aint worth it really. It sure makes for an exciting night. I have done both - waited and "gone for it" I by far recommend waiting - lost the one (only one) I really wanted by diving in too soon. I was fine with it but I think he felt a little overwhelmed....guys are weird

mzakii Joined Mon 09/17/12 Posts: 5	Fri 09/21/12 07:42 PM
wow nice question, it depends time of capacity.comfartable.heart,etc

mzakii Joined Mon 09/17/12 Posts: 5	Fri 09/21/12 07:47 PM
it depend comfartable heart and time of feeling

Unknow Joined Sat 10/21/06 Posts: 3353	Sat 09/22/12 10:16 AM
Have you probably felt being used and cheap after a first date sex? It aint worth it really. It sure makes for an exciting night. I have done both - waited and "gone for it" I by far recommend waiting - lost the one (only one) I really wanted by diving in too soon. I was fine with it but I think he felt a little overwhelmed....guys are weird I have done this and really do agree. I still talk to him but it's weird as we're still getting to know each other but we have been intimate a few times in the past. We really should have waited because now it always feels like thats all there is to it. Not on my end thoug ....weird when a guy says "he needs time: lol

Unknow Joined Sat 09/22/12 Posts: 2	Sat 09/22/12 11:17 AM
Well ... ,i believe love is in the air , one needs to open his/her 6Th sense, and yes live the life you love may be or love the life u live ... things like this happened in right time and with right person ...

SimplicityAtItsBest Joined Mon 09/10/12 Posts: 960	Sat 09/22/12 11:32 AM
I cant imagine not being sexual in a romantic relationship. I recently met a couple of women who actually dont like sex but have it with their husbands anyway. I cant imagine not liking sex. I gotta think its because they arent having orgasms, but I didnt want to pull off that bandaid. wth! Some women become desensitized to sex after years of dealing with husband's b/s Perhaps it could be a number of other reasons (hormonal imbalance/menopause, etc). Either way, I wouldn't want to be the one to pull that bandaid off either ~

Unknow Joined Sat 09/22/12 Posts: 2	Sat 09/22/12 11:40 AM
Well ... ,i believe love is in the air , one needs to open his/her 6Th sense, and yes live the life you love may be or love the life u live ... things like this happened in right time and with right person ...

Unknow Joined Thu 01/05/12 Posts: 241	Sun 09/23/12 12:16 AM
Have you probably felt being used and cheap after a first date sex? It aint worth it really. It sure makes for an exciting night. Yeah sex is always an exciting event but what are the after effects after the night. The relationship would seem to be based on sex alone. Trust me that aint a good foundations.

42BlackBBW Joined Mon 09/12/11 Posts: 3243	Sun 09/23/12 03:02 AM
Humm sorry but at my age I threw the rules out the window. Now I do what I feel like doing and when, I don't have a time limit... It all depends on how well we click...... I'm of the same mindset.

Precious-Man Joined Thu 10/13/11 Posts: 88	Mon 09/24/12 04:32 PM
I will give it to her if she needs it at anytime You are so giving You may be right

Hikerjohn Joined Sun 08/19/12 Posts: 1028	Mon 09/24/12 05:19 PM
Have you probably felt being used and cheap after a first date sex? It aint worth it really. It sure makes for an exciting night. I have done both - waited and "gone for it" I by far recommend waiting - lost the one (only one) I really wanted by diving in too soon. I was fine with it but I think he felt a little overwhelmed....guys are weird Ha ha ha ha ha. You said dive. Actually why do you think you had anything to do with losing the one you cared about. You truly dont know what was ever really in his head to start with. If we follow this logic then we are assuming that had you changed the way you did things you might have magically found the right combination to open his heart. Thats crap or one in a million shot. And you would have been living a lie as you were not being you. Wouldn't it be better to just be you and chose from those who like who you are?

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Mon 09/24/12 07:15 PM
A bull doesn't run down the hill to hump a cow in the herd.... A bull walks down slowly....and humps all the cows. I didn't write the rules...,.but, I ain't wrong.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Mon 09/24/12 07:24 PM
How long would you date someone before you feel its mature enough to make love. Is it like if you rush in, you would rush out or it helps to make the relationship stronger? No.....that is amature. Rushing love is like trying to put a splint on your penis...it may get it to do the job...but, for the wrong reasons.

Hikerjohn Joined Sun 08/19/12 Posts: 1028	Tue 09/25/12 01:10 PM
I cant imagine not being sexual in a romantic relationship. I recently met a couple of women who actually dont like sex but have it with their husbands anyway. I cant imagine not liking sex. I gotta think its because they arent having orgasms, but I didnt want to pull off that bandaid. wth! Some women become desensitized to sex after years of dealing with husband's b/s Perhaps it could be a number of other reasons (hormonal imbalance/menopause, etc). Either way, I wouldn't want to be the one to pull that bandaid off either ~ Bingo And the most foolish thing to do is assume you know why someone reacts I any way. You can hold someone's hand and based on there past could comfort them could arouse them and or you could activate a deep fear from some abusive past. To assume its your touch caused the response is being a fool.