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I would consider a woman who has tried oral and got to 3rd base a virgin but not prude.
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I apologize for not acting like a cheap whore. Yeah. Pfffffffffft. true, but prude virgins probably get less STDS, abortions and unwanted kids,,,etc,,, so it may be best for HER to be that even if its not his preference ,,,bottom line, is , it just depends upon the two partis involved and what they are hoping for,,,, So do those who are responsible and use protection. yep, 'responsible' sex is a step below abstinence, but still has more cases of abortions and unwanted kids,,,because its not nearly as failsafe,,, Responsible adults are aware of that. Preaching abstinence to adults isn't going to do much, though. not my intent to preach as much as to support those who still choose abstinence in a sea of ridicule and misunderstanding by others who dont,,,, |
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I would consider a woman who has tried oral and got to 3rd base a virgin but not prude. lol I think a woman who has standards about her body that involve 'waiting' for more than a physical chemistry,,,,as highly respectable/admirable, because it isnt easy I dont consider her a prude based on that or any other one issue a prude, to me, is someone who repeatedly shows obsessive caution in several different areas of life,,, |
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I'd like to ask the women who are dating for a year before sex, "Who is picking up the tab on all of those outings?"
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I'd like to ask the women who are dating for a year before sex, "Who is picking up the tab on all of those outings?" depends upon who is doing the inviting I have been out with someone for a while (though not a full year, I must admit, ) when we get to a level beyond mere 'dating' but not quite 'intimate' , I sometimes will ask them if they want to do something like a show, a trip,,etc,,, IF I ask, I pay,,, |
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I'd like to ask the women who are dating for a year before sex, "Who is picking up the tab on all of those outings?" depends upon who is doing the inviting I have been out with someone for a while (though not a full year, I must admit, ) when we get to a level beyond mere 'dating' but not quite 'intimate' , I sometimes will ask them if they want to do something like a show, a trip,,etc,,, IF I ask, I pay,,, So when you're dating, you don't ask and don't pay? |
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I'd like to ask the women who are dating for a year before sex, "Who is picking up the tab on all of those outings?" depends upon who is doing the inviting I have been out with someone for a while (though not a full year, I must admit, ) when we get to a level beyond mere 'dating' but not quite 'intimate' , I sometimes will ask them if they want to do something like a show, a trip,,etc,,, IF I ask, I pay,,, So when you're dating, you don't ask and don't pay? not while initially dating,, no once its more familiar and there is more of a bond and friendship, I will sometimes ask as well but its usually the guy, my treats are on special occasions just like, once in a relationship, the guy cleaning is a special treat and Im usually the one staying on top of the domestic stuff .... just trade offs that happen for me, I dont truly expect anything to be completely 50/50,,,its gonna depend upon our strengths,,, taking someone else out, is not my strength,,,cleaning is usually not a strength of the men Im attracted to,,, |
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Any guy who thinks dinner=sex is on my s*** list. Sorry.
If you want sex for $20-$50, go down to the Avenue and pick up some skanky hooker and make a deal. I am no prude but I can't stand that. If I am getting those vibes from a guy, I PAY to be sure he understands that he is NOT getting anything. One of my good friends started out as a blind date. We never slept together but while we were dating, he took me out to fine restaurants, bought me a new vacuum cleaner, etc. and never even tried to get sex out of me. |
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Any guy who thinks dinner=sex is on my s*** list. Sorry. If you want sex for $20-$50, go down to the Avenue and pick up some skanky hooker and make a deal. I am no prude but I can't stand that. If I am getting those vibes from a guy, I PAY to be sure he understands that he is NOT getting anything. One of my good friends started out as a blind date. We never slept together but while we were dating, he took me out to fine restaurants, bought me a new vacuum cleaner, etc. and never even tried to get sex out of me. You may have misread this doll... What would you pay to have someone who is hot to screw you? |
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I'd like to ask the women who are dating for a year before sex, "Who is picking up the tab on all of those outings?" depends upon who is doing the inviting I have been out with someone for a while (though not a full year, I must admit, ) when we get to a level beyond mere 'dating' but not quite 'intimate' , I sometimes will ask them if they want to do something like a show, a trip,,etc,,, IF I ask, I pay,,, So when you're dating, you don't ask and don't pay? not while initially dating,, no once its more familiar and there is more of a bond and friendship, I will sometimes ask as well but its usually the guy, my treats are on special occasions just like, once in a relationship, the guy cleaning is a special treat and Im usually the one staying on top of the domestic stuff .... just trade offs that happen for me, I dont truly expect anything to be completely 50/50,,,its gonna depend upon our strengths,,, taking someone else out, is not my strength,,,cleaning is usually not a strength of the men Im attracted to,,, Interesting. I always offer to pay my share. Then again, I'd always expect him do his half of the chores as well. That kind of stuff can definitely be 50/50. |
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Cool topic. Been 2 long since I've been in relationship. Could use some good #@&$ing now lol!
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Edited by
SimplicityAtItsBest
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Fri 10/05/12 09:55 PM
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I'd like to ask the women who are dating for a year before sex, "Who is picking up the tab on all of those outings?" depends upon who is doing the inviting I have been out with someone for a while (though not a full year, I must admit, ) when we get to a level beyond mere 'dating' but not quite 'intimate' , I sometimes will ask them if they want to do something like a show, a trip,,etc,,, IF I ask, I pay,,, So when you're dating, you don't ask and don't pay? not while initially dating,, no once its more familiar and there is more of a bond and friendship, I will sometimes ask as well but its usually the guy, my treats are on special occasions just like, once in a relationship, the guy cleaning is a special treat and Im usually the one staying on top of the domestic stuff .... just trade offs that happen for me, I dont truly expect anything to be completely 50/50,,,its gonna depend upon our strengths,,, taking someone else out, is not my strength,,,cleaning is usually not a strength of the men Im attracted to,,, Nice. Sounds like an old-fashioned type of relationship. We don't see a lot of that anymore. I need to find me someone like that. Lol. I usually get the ones that ask me out on dates and then expect me to pay for myself (and at times, for him as well). Sometimes it's easier to just date yourself 
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I'd like to ask the women who are dating for a year before sex, "Who is picking up the tab on all of those outings?" depends upon who is doing the inviting I have been out with someone for a while (though not a full year, I must admit, ) when we get to a level beyond mere 'dating' but not quite 'intimate' , I sometimes will ask them if they want to do something like a show, a trip,,etc,,, IF I ask, I pay,,, So when you're dating, you don't ask and don't pay? not while initially dating,, no once its more familiar and there is more of a bond and friendship, I will sometimes ask as well but its usually the guy, my treats are on special occasions just like, once in a relationship, the guy cleaning is a special treat and Im usually the one staying on top of the domestic stuff .... just trade offs that happen for me, I dont truly expect anything to be completely 50/50,,,its gonna depend upon our strengths,,, taking someone else out, is not my strength,,,cleaning is usually not a strength of the men Im attracted to,,, Nice. Sounds like an old-fashioned type of relationship. We don't see a lot of that anymore. I need to find me someone like that. Lol. I usually get the ones that ask me out on dates and then expect me to pay for myself (and at times, for him as well). Sometimes it's easier to just date yourself
I guess this would be a bad time to ask you to buy me some horror DVDs. |
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Edited by
SimplicityAtItsBest
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Sat 10/06/12 12:17 PM
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The Horror Guru needs me to buy him dvds???
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The Horror Guru needs me to buy him dvds???
You expect me to pay for my horror DVD fix!? 
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Considering it's been like 5yrs since I have had sex, I probably couldn't control myself for too long. Of course I would want to make sure that there is a possibility of it going somewhere. Not looking to be used, but if it doesn't happen within the first month I would think something was wrong. I've been friend zoned way too many times this way.
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then you seem to be one of the few who realize that a woman is more than a "not-do-it-yourself kit".
 
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Do people really have a certain number of dates they wait? Are there rules they actually follow when it comes to this? Not in California |
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