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by what date should there be enough trust established for a couple to deceide to be an exclusive couple?
By which date would distrust be a red flag? |
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singmesweet
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Mon 09/10/12 05:46 AM
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There's no set schedule for exclusivity. It will be different for each person.
Distrust will be an issue right away. |
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No but there is a general amount of time you should know enough about someone to know if you want to be with them or not. Right? |
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I guess for me; it would be about 6 months.
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:-\ No but there is a general amount of time you should know enough about someone to know if you want to be with them or not. Right? Well, I know right away if I'm attracted to them. It just depends on how well things go. Communication is key. If you can't talk about those kind of things with the person you're dating, you're definitely not ready to be exclusive. |
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For me, it's usually after I have had sex with him. Obviously this is dependent on whether we've both enjoyed 'it'.
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Well I am not convinced there should be a set time. It took a friend of mine 3 years to discover her husband of a year then has Hep. C
And he had been diagnosed almost 7 years by then. It never surprises me to see what people hide from one another. |
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by what date should there be enough trust established for a couple to deceide to be an exclusive couple? By which date would distrust be a red flag? June 29th, 2008. Any other date and it's not good. |
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Well I am not convinced there should be a set time. It took a friend of mine 3 years to discover her husband of a year then has Hep. C And he had been diagnosed almost 7 years by then. It never surprises me to see what people hide from one another. That's why communication is important, then again even with good communication, people will still be deceitful and manipulative. In general though good communication is the key. No, there isn't a specific amount of time and every is different, but after a period of time, we should be able to open more and more to one another in a relationship. If there are issues, we should be able to deal with them with good communication and patience. |
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There's no set schedule for exclusivity. It will be different for each person. Distrust will be an issue right away. I agree with what she said... |
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Well I am not convinced there should be a set time. It took a friend of mine 3 years to discover her husband of a year then has Hep. C And he had been diagnosed almost 7 years by then. It never surprises me to see what people hide from one another. Me neither. |
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Exclusivity happens immediatly upon an agreed commitment to each other IMO. Distrust should figure nowhere in a healthy relationship. If distrust has no substantial reason to be justified, in the dating cycle, someone has an issue to be dealt with.
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