Topic: Why do people say one thing?
BCWolven01's photo
Mon 08/06/12 05:24 PM
Okay I have been seeing this guy for a couple of weeks now and thought things were going well. We had talked about him moving in with me(I have known him for 2 years now) and at first he was like all good with it until last night where he finally came out and said that he had no intentions on being with me and never did. He sure as hell had no problems spending my money when I had it and sure as hell didn't mind me giving him head either. So my question is, doesn't this seem strange for someone who doesn't want to be with me? I am really angry and hurt by this.

italio69's photo
Mon 08/06/12 05:30 PM
i guess he sucked you dry .i dont know just saying

Dodo_David's photo
Mon 08/06/12 05:47 PM

Okay I have been seeing this guy for a couple of weeks now and thought things were going well. We had talked about him moving in with me(I have known him for 2 years now) and at first he was like all good with it until last night where he finally came out and said that he had no intentions on being with me and never did. He sure as hell had no problems spending my money when I had it and sure as hell didn't mind me giving him head either. So my question is, doesn't this seem strange for someone who doesn't want to be with me? I am really angry and hurt by this.


He plays by rules of his choosing.
Why shouldn't he play by them?

BCWolven01's photo
Mon 08/06/12 05:53 PM
Because people should be honest when it comes to relationships?

Dodo_David's photo
Mon 08/06/12 06:04 PM

Because people should be honest when it comes to relationships?

Perhaps that rule isn't in the rules that he plays by.

What standard of morality are you judging him by?

Kaleijoscope's photo
Mon 08/06/12 06:18 PM
i guess you can never truly get to know a person unless you live with him 24/7 in crisis/good times,.in your case,just consider yourself lucky that he came out now, than later when you are way too deep to get out of the relationship and would be really broken,.the hurt and anger would eventually go away,and you will just laugh this off..for now,pamper yourself,you deserve it...smile!

luvin53's photo
Mon 08/06/12 07:01 PM
Don't let it hurt your feeling. He wasn't worth your being hurt.2 years is a long time to chat. only 2 weeks to know him personally,isn't much time.Take it for whats its worth, a learning experience.I have found out on the short time I have been on. Words arejust that words.Have had a few say they want to talk, but they really just wast cyber sex. I won't. so that ends the chat. I really don't think anyone really want to get to know someone or date on here. but I have meet a very few really good friends here. So take it at face value. Nothing more or less. An so so sorry you were hurt.flowerforyou

navygirl's photo
Mon 08/06/12 08:01 PM

Because people should be honest when it comes to relationships?


Good luck with that. People always lie in a relationship and even telling a lie to be kind to someone is still lying. Guess its in human nature to lie. rant

BCWolven01's photo
Mon 08/06/12 10:37 PM
Actually I also have known him in person for that long as well...but you're right...I will get through this.

pyxxie13's photo
Tue 08/07/12 10:35 PM
Sounds like you were used. ohwell