that i don't know what i want anymore in relationship wise for every man i have met either want nsa, an affair or r scammers. So tired of them saying they don't play games when they r. Its just disheartened all the time. I'm to old for games n playtime. Am i the only one that feels like this. And i know there is some men out there in the same boat. It's just not fair anymore, that my trust is fading away again.

Awww! Don't give up!

There are some of us out here not playing games....

Nope; you aren't the only one the feels that way. I fully agree with what you said.

OMG!!! I was beginning I was out on that limb by my self. Thank you I am not by my self.I know this is so so so old. All I ask is honesty, you would,'t think that would be that hard. Well it sure is. An it is so easy to know if there are from here or not.Or if there married or not. My My I just wish they would get it togather. But thank you for posting that.

No, you are most certainly not alone in feeling that way.
I have pretty much had enough of it myself.
Good thing is though, I am quite happy with my life just the way it is ,so it doesn't really matter that much if I find a man or not.

you are not alone

I seem to meet only extremes, those with 'diminished' values or those who are some type of conpiracist/illuminati/fundamentalist extremists,,,


its terribly difficult to find that balanced personality Im attracted to,, but, I guess if they ever find me it will be more than worth the effort

Naw heck now I'm pretty much looking for someone I can talk to, laugh with & can get along with....and well even that is hard to find

on the bright side , even though it didn't work ,I had a lot of fun with some while it lasted.

We are all different. Some people may be looking for what you are not. Just move on until you find what you seek. Doesn't make either one of your right or wrong. Just different.

I dont mind playing games as long as I win some.

I think we all run it to a plague of Frogs now and then.

And yes it is really disheartening. But it is just a numbers thing. If you say hi to at least one new person a day generally one person every week or so will move up the food chain to be "dateable". I think business cards are a big plus in the local search which makes a lot of sense to me but just generally hitting the mutual match list and seeing if a person posts can help responses on the emails.

And I think if you build a pool of friends to hang out with at least you have some good times to balance out the not so wonderful outings. A lot of times just going out with friends is a great way to attract interest.

all is so true but six years on and off dating sites looking and failing does takes its toll on the mind n heart. Especially at this time of age when they say life begins at 40. And it is good to know that i am not the only one that feels this way, but i don't give up for that day will come when least expecting it... And the same for all others that search for their special someone