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Topic: Serious Question
Kaleijoscope Joined Fri 10/15/10 Posts: 3319	Sat 07/28/12 09:30 PM
well...tell the hot chick to hang in there..maybe the guy just ran out of condoms or viagra,or whatever it is they need...he might come back with full supplies and hot chick is in for a loooong night.... (~j^)

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Sat 07/28/12 09:42 PM
No it doesn't mean he's gay. Men may be somewhat simpler in their needs than women, but they're still human being with a wide range of emotions. It could be any number of things. Don't take it personally. Although I understand rejection is never fun. See I've been saying this for years. Everyone always denies men are simple creatures. I'd say that breaks things down nicely.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Sat 07/28/12 09:47 PM
He might also be in love with someone. Guys do exist who won't "cheat."

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Sat 07/28/12 11:32 PM
He might also be in love with someone. Guys do exist who won't "cheat." I really hope so, sigh.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Sat 07/28/12 11:37 PM
I don't cheat...so I know there are more like me.

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Sat 07/28/12 11:39 PM
That's because you are single. I notice some guys are worse when they are taken because their egos get inflated by the fact they have a girlfriend all this sudden they want to be flirtatious with everyone else. What gives....

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Sat 07/28/12 11:41 PM
No, I did not cheat when with a gf either. When I'm with someone, I'm with them. End of story.

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Sun 07/29/12 12:00 AM
No, I did not cheat when with a gf either. When I'm with someone, I'm with them. End of story. Ditto

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Sun 07/29/12 03:51 AM
If a guy is too busy to have sex with a hot chick is he gay? i'm going with yes on this one.....

gaurav_malik Joined Wed 05/25/11 Posts: 242	Sun 07/29/12 04:41 AM
If a guy is too busy to have sex with a hot chick is he gay? SOMETIME MAN GOT BORED DOING ****ING ALL THE TIME. SO HE HAS RIGHT TO REFUSE SOME TIME . WE ARE NOT SEX MACHINE

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Sun 07/29/12 01:08 PM
If a guy is too busy to have sex with a hot chick is he gay? i'm going with yes on this one..... Was wondering when you were gonna say something...

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Sun 07/29/12 02:06 PM
Where is she????? I'm not busy!!!!

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Mon 07/30/12 06:38 PM
Where is she????? I'm not busy!!!! If I was the girl would you give me the "too busy" line? Hypothetically speaking...

rocket2d4 Joined Tue 07/31/12 Posts: 12	Tue 07/31/12 11:28 AM
It's just preference. Just becuase you're a hot chick dosnt mean a guy will be sexaully attracted to you. It dosnt neccessay mean he's gay. Hotness or sexiness are percieved from the eye's of the beholder. It also depends on where he's at in his life. Plus if you're a guy that's been with hot chicks (his preference) all you're life. You get a little bit more picky or not desperate. Not unless he's just playing. It's the samething why women won't sleep with certain men no matter how nice, sweet, cute, rich ...ect he is. She's simply no sexaully attracted to him. Shell puts him in the friendzone or will always reject him sexaully and have sex to someone's else, even if he dosnt have all the qualities as the nice, rich guy. Shouldnt take it personally or enternalize it. Best to just move on.

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Tue 07/31/12 11:36 AM
Where is she????? I'm not busy!!!! If I was the girl would you give me the "too busy" line? Hypothetically speaking... NEVER!!!!!!! But I already told ya.... Those wings are HAWT!!!!!

Rasmus916 Joined Wed 06/24/09 Posts: 496	Tue 07/31/12 11:37 AM
Honestly, I have been in relationships where the female thought I was ignoring her. Only thing was, whenever she wanted to get squirrley, it was usually when she got home from work (2am ish) and the bigger of the two problems was that I had to wake up for work at 5am ish. It wasn't that I didn't find her attractive or anything like that, but I was the bread winner in the household and I was more worried about making rent and having a roof over our heads than I was about one night of fun ya know?

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Tue 07/31/12 02:22 PM
Where is she????? I'm not busy!!!! If I was the girl would you give me the "too busy" line? Hypothetically speaking... NEVER!!!!!!! But I already told ya.... Those wings are HAWT!!!!! I'm starting to believe you now...

Whywherewhenwho Joined Fri 10/01/10 Posts: 322	Tue 08/14/12 06:42 AM
Mmm, not necessarily. He is either big time in love, curing a STD, or has another definition of hot chicks... But if the hot chick was you in this case, his loss then, not yours

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Tue 08/14/12 05:21 PM
Mmm, not necessarily. He is either big time in love, curing a STD, or has another definition of hot chicks... But if the hot chick was you in this case, his loss then, not yours Swiss boys are now on my radar.

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Sun 08/19/12 11:46 AM
Where is she????? I'm not busy!!!! I'm here!!!! Over here!!