I don't seek out anyone, they should come to me. And they do!

He's probably not gay, well he might be, but I'd never pass up the offer.

I wouldn't pass up the chance if I wasn't taken. Who knows where it would lead and no, I 'm still single...

You should never jump to a conclusion like that. It shows disrespect for men. Do you think that a man can't "just say no" without you thinking they are gay?

Men have the right (and should be able) to say no to a woman's advances without being suspected of "being gay."

Maybe he is gay, maybe he is just not into that girl, maybe he is married and wants to be faithful, maybe he has a girlfriend and wants to be faithful, maybe he thinks the hot chick is a psycho crazy bi'tch.

Whatever the reason, a man has a right to say no to a woman's sexual advances.

I do agree, of course he should be able to say 'no' without the assumption of him being gay, but, personally, I don't say no to offers, and I wont be when I go to see my girl.

Just a side, I don't think its that deep. Could be a lot of things but I highly doubt a woman in her right mind would be a crazy stalker if a dude says no. Most of the time she'll think his loss and move on. I'm talking about normal people here, not the ones who wait out where the buses don't run.

A man who won't say "no" to all offers is what is called an easy mark.

And he is probably a slave to sex and easy to manipulate. And his girl or wife, if he has one, can never trust him to be faithful.

He is basically out of his own control. He lets his penis do his thinking for him.

When men mature, hopefully they get under control but sometimes they don't.

You betcha.

Some guys have low testosterone, = low sex drive.


Then again, when I was young I refused meaningless sex like a true nerd.

Was that a choice?

If a guy is smart, and follows his heart and not the urging of his penis, he will think long and hard before he jumps into the sack with just any woman.

He could be paying for it the rest of his life. (Child support, STD etc.)

"If you're not thinking with your wiener you're acting directly on its behalf."

P.S.

And he need not worry about the woman he said no to, he needs to worry about the one he had sex with.

Have you seen the movie "Play misty for me."

or "Fatal attraction."

All men should watch both of those movies.

Kick his *** and look for a person that worth to be with :)

Yes I had a choice. I should of followed my heart even though they didn't love me because they might have grown feelings. Water under the bridge now.

Didn't those movies scared the pants back on men? Correct me if I'm wrong?

Yep.

All men should watch those movies.....

Its good to not have any regrets. What's life with those hanging around?

I have seen both....I have seen the light.

I hate sports.