Topic: Random gift on a first date | |
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Does this actually work or is it too "nice guy"?
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Depends on the gift. Engagement ring might not be a good first date gift.
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it shows a nicer softer side of a man
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She's kind of a tomboy & she like the Cubs. Someone gave me some random baseball cards. I found two Cubs. One for her & one for her baby boy.
I'm thinking too far ahead though. I haven't even asked her out yet. Haha. |
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That would be more creative than the cliche gift of flowers or box o chocolates.
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That would be more creative than the cliche gift of flowers or box o chocolates. My thoughts exactly. Who WOULDN'T like that? |
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women will not be too offened that you have thought that far in advance. it is a sweet gesture and not too flouncy
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She's kind of a tomboy & she like the Cubs. Someone gave me some random baseball cards. I found two Cubs. One for her & one for her baby boy. I'm thinking too far ahead though. I haven't even asked her out yet. Haha. As far as something like that it's all good. Ohh yeah and brownie points for thinking of their kids... NOt sayting that is what you had in mind...But it does hit a soft spot even in the hardest person when another thinks about our kids... Plus the gift is not over doing it...which I would recomend never to do on the first date...now second one it's all open.... |
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Edited by
Leigh2154
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Mon 07/23/12 08:41 AM
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Jerry gave me a random gift on our first date ...The amazing thing was we both had the same gift in mind for the other one...It was an 8 x 10 copy of a picture we both liked...
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Jerry gave me a random gift on our first date ...The amazing thing was we both had the same gift in mind for the other one...It was an 8 x 10 copy of a picture we both liked... I thought that was sweet you gave each other a picture of me. |
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this is the photO manO faxed me the day he bought the gift
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Does this actually work or is it too "nice guy"? Stop worrying about being a nice guy and just be yourself. If it's someone you've been getting to know prior to the date, giving her something little isn't a bad idea. |
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Yeah, I've been playin it cool with this one. Don't wanna scare her off. I think I'll wait until the second date. I don't know. I don't wanna come on too strong, too fast and have her mistake that for desperation or something.
She already kinda offered me a gift, so we'll see how that goes. |
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Stop worrying about being a nice guy and just be yourself. Perfectly said. |
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I got a beautiful bouquet "flowers" as a random gift once
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See, I don't get the whole "trying to play it cool" thing. If I like someone or I'm interested in dating them, I just say that or express it in some way. If I "scare" them away by just being myself then that's ok because it means he wasn't the right person for me.
I can't handle the stress of trying to be anything else than myself. |
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That is being myself. I'm just kind by nature. I never try to act different in front of anyone. If someone doesn't like me for who I am, there not worth my time anyway.
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Jerry gave me a random gift on our first date ...The amazing thing was we both had the same gift in mind for the other one...It was an 8 x 10 copy of a picture we both liked... I thought that was sweet you gave each other a picture of me. Jerry said he wouldn't tell you!! It's on my bedside table Torgo... |
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Edited by
Torgo70
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Mon 07/23/12 10:22 AM
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Sew a lock of her hair to your chest.
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Jerry gave me a random gift on our first date ...The amazing thing was we both had the same gift in mind for the other one...It was an 8 x 10 copy of a picture we both liked... I thought that was sweet you gave each other a picture of me. Jerry said he wouldn't tell you!! It's on my bedside table Torgo... I have the same one on mine. |
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