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Does this actually work or is it too "nice guy"?
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Depends on the gift. Engagement ring might not be a good first date gift.
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it shows a nicer softer side of a man
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She's kind of a tomboy & she like the Cubs. Someone gave me some random baseball cards. I found two Cubs. One for her & one for her baby boy.
I'm thinking too far ahead though. I haven't even asked her out yet. Haha. |
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That would be more creative than the cliche gift of flowers or box o chocolates.
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That would be more creative than the cliche gift of flowers or box o chocolates. My thoughts exactly. Who WOULDN'T like that? |
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women will not be too offened that you have thought that far in advance. it is a sweet gesture and not too flouncy
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She's kind of a tomboy & she like the Cubs. Someone gave me some random baseball cards. I found two Cubs. One for her & one for her baby boy. I'm thinking too far ahead though. I haven't even asked her out yet. Haha. As far as something like that it's all good. Ohh yeah and brownie points for thinking of their kids... ![]() ![]() Plus the gift is not over doing it...which I would recomend never to do on the first date...now second one it's all open.... ![]() |
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Edited by
Leigh2154
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Mon 07/23/12 08:41 AM
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Jerry gave me a random gift on our first date
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Jerry gave me a random gift on our first date ![]() ![]() I thought that was sweet you gave each other a picture of me. |
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this is the photO manO faxed me the day he bought the gift
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Does this actually work or is it too "nice guy"? Stop worrying about being a nice guy and just be yourself. If it's someone you've been getting to know prior to the date, giving her something little isn't a bad idea. |
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Yeah, I've been playin it cool with this one. Don't wanna scare her off. I think I'll wait until the second date. I don't know. I don't wanna come on too strong, too fast and have her mistake that for desperation or something.
She already kinda offered me a gift, so we'll see how that goes. |
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Stop worrying about being a nice guy and just be yourself. Perfectly said. |
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I got a beautiful bouquet "flowers" as a random gift once
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See, I don't get the whole "trying to play it cool" thing. If I like someone or I'm interested in dating them, I just say that or express it in some way. If I "scare" them away by just being myself then that's ok because it means he wasn't the right person for me.
I can't handle the stress of trying to be anything else than myself. |
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That is being myself. I'm just kind by nature. I never try to act different in front of anyone. If someone doesn't like me for who I am, there not worth my time anyway.
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Jerry gave me a random gift on our first date ![]() ![]() I thought that was sweet you gave each other a picture of me. Jerry said he wouldn't tell you!! ![]() ![]() |
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Edited by
Torgo70
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Mon 07/23/12 10:22 AM
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Sew a lock of her hair to your chest.
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Jerry gave me a random gift on our first date ![]() ![]() I thought that was sweet you gave each other a picture of me. Jerry said he wouldn't tell you!! ![]() ![]() I have the same one on mine. |
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