She annd her hub were in sex lust

i think you know your in love if you can sit in the same room for an hour or more and say nothing if you dont feel the need to talk because your content just being with that person then thats when you know!

When you just feel love, that is no guarantee for real love.

You have to separate love from lust though both works wonders togther. Love takes a while to feel it and mean it. And, it takes two to make this happen.

No fun talking about someone you love and he/she don't share the same feelings fully.

yup them comfortable silences eh

sin thats how i feel at the current time.

i love her,but im not sure if she feels the same.

When it is undefinable.

I don't think you really ever know!! How many times did you really think you were in love and then sooner or later its just gone? Then after the relationship ends you think...how did I ever think I was in love with that person?
I think what we do is fall into a routine and then we get into the relationship...we have sex...if sex is good it becomes a "lust" feeling. This is why I don't have sex with someone for awhile. Sex will only make things more complicated...then you are feeling connected with that person for other reasons. Sex is a mind boggler that only confuses us....HMMMM is this why men like to rush us into sex? LOL

evad - then tell her how you feel. The worse you might get from her is a "no". Better to know than to just wonder about it, right? The truth hurts if the answer is not what you want to hear. But hey, it's not the end of the world.

Good Luck!

*smiles

love is hard to find and dont belive people that you will know it when it happens

you dont....next question

real love...hmmm...
don't know if love is ever really REAL...
it changes and evolves....
so...
I honestly don't no

If someone ask you "why do you love this person?" and the only answer you can give is "I don't know why, I just know I do" then its really love. think about it...you can say all kinds of reasons for loving a person but when the feelings really come from the heart and you know they're there but you can't explain them...THATS LOVE!

I wouldn't know never experienced it....don't think I'm capable of such emotion..at least not in that sense!
Too set in my ways..

i know maternal love...thats good enough for me!..
Personally, it costs too much..so exhausting...ugh..gotta take a nap now.....zzzzzz

Hmmm? When you never shut up for anyone or anything and he leaves you speechless, breathless... when you finish each others' thoughts before either of you speak...
When neither one of you cares what you leave behind as long as you have each other. When he asks about your kids... what they're doing... and wants to talk to them on the phone just as much as he wants to talk to you... and you spend 8 hours on the phone straight... the phone dies... and you IM for another hour after...

You know it's love when it makes absolutely no sense whatsoever and yet life has never attained more clarity...

No......thats the honeymoon stage!~!!!

When that truck hits you at 55 and you're still smiling like an idiot!

I think its when you are running through that field of daisies in your white yoga outfit and you trip and fall on your face and then you wake up...

no.... i've been married twice- divorced twice... Never felt this way before in my life. This is the real deal... my food tastes better, sun is brighter... I get weird looks on the bus when traveling to work because I have a cheesy grin on my face... I sing Sinatra's "fly me to the moon" at the top of my lungs in the on busy public streets of Chicago while dancing with my daughter all the way to and from the bus stop when I take her to school.
This is love.

how is the road rash kid???

Whaddaya mean road rash? I didn't see no truck!