Topic: can distance relationship work?
Scotti71's photo
Tue 07/24/12 07:12 PM
Edited by Scotti71 on Tue 07/24/12 07:22 PM

This is just my take on it and this applies strictly to me....

I began talking to a really cool chick who kinda slowly made herself known into conversations on Mingle. The more I talked to her, the more we got along. Eventually, I grew to like her enough and felt a bond grow to the point, I got on a plane and flew out to see her. Then I flew across half the country to visit with her again. Each day speaking to her in the morning on the way to work...then again during my breaks and my lunch...again as I arived home to my dogs...then once again as I went to sleep....cause I needed her voice in my ear.

At the end of next month....I am moving to spend my days and nights with her. I put in my notice at work yesterday. I told my family, my friends and my coworkers that I have spent a long time developing a real relationship built on love, friendship, respect, understanding and patience...and that I am leaving. They are thrilled for me. Everyone is so supportive.
I am getting new teeth beforeice work man I go...cause I want to smile so big for her when I get there...instead of hiding the part of me that I hate. (none of you have ever seen me smile)

I am giving everything that I ain't taking to the guys I work with. All my furniture, lamps, mirrors, most of my clothes, tools...all of it. I don't need it.

I ain't taking alot...cause she is all I need. (and the house is furnished)...I am taking my clothes, my dog, my car and a few personal items on a 2,130 mile trip next month to start a new life with a woman I have grown to love.

I am as nervous and excited as a person can be.

I got the guts to step up...flop my heart on the table....and take the chance that I am good enough to be loved.

No matter what, I can at least know that I gave everything I got for a shot at love.

I spent waaaaay toooo many years being safe.....

Now is the time I stand up to the plate and EARN my homerun.


So...yes, long distance relationships can work.


Nicely done and congradulations!I know where your coming from with the ole"play-it-safe" angle.Still-nothin ventured,nothin gained as they say.Its taking a lot of guts to do what your doing and I wish you all the best.Trust in your heart and take that leap of faith.

ezas123's photo
Tue 07/24/12 07:18 PM
good luck

krupa's photo
Tue 07/24/12 07:23 PM
Thanks brother...but luck got nothing to do with it....

Love is earned....everyday.

None of us are lucky enough for anything easy.

josie68's photo
Wed 07/25/12 12:42 AM

This is just my take on it and this applies strictly to me....

I began talking to a really cool chick who kinda slowly made herself known into conversations on Mingle. The more I talked to her, the more we got along. Eventually, I grew to like her enough and felt a bond grow to the point, I got on a plane and flew out to see her. Then I flew across half the country to visit with her again. Each day speaking to her in the morning on the way to work...then again during my breaks and my lunch...again as I arived home to my dogs...then once again as I went to sleep....cause I needed her voice in my ear.

At the end of next month....I am moving to spend my days and nights with her. I put in my notice at work yesterday. I told my family, my friends and my coworkers that I have spent a long time developing a real relationship built on love, friendship, respect, understanding and patience...and that I am leaving. They are thrilled for me. Everyone is so supportive.

I am getting new teeth before I go...cause I want to smile so big for her when I get there...instead of hiding the part of me that I hate. (none of you have ever seen me smile)

I am giving everything that I ain't taking to the guys I work with. All my furniture, lamps, mirrors, most of my clothes, tools...all of it. I don't need it.

I ain't taking alot...cause she is all I need. (and the house is furnished)...I am taking my clothes, my dog, my car and a few personal items on a 2,130 mile trip next month to start a new life with a woman I have grown to love.

I am as nervous and excited as a person can be.

I got the guts to step up...flop my heart on the table....and take the chance that I am good enough to be loved.

No matter what, I can at least know that I gave everything I got for a shot at love.

I spent waaaaay toooo many years being safe.....

Now is the time I stand up to the plate and EARN my homerun.


So...yes, long distance relationships can work.




YAY I am so so so very happy for you both.. it will be worth every second. Luv yo u both.happy

oldhippie1952's photo
Wed 07/25/12 12:46 AM
I wish you the best Krupa.

daffeh7's photo
Thu 07/26/12 05:24 AM
thank you all 4 given out frank opion abt d topic. Thats d way it shd b one family one blood mingle members.

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Thu 07/26/12 06:30 AM

This is just my take on it and this applies strictly to me....

I began talking to a really cool chick who kinda slowly made herself known into conversations on Mingle. The more I talked to her, the more we got along. Eventually, I grew to like her enough and felt a bond grow to the point, I got on a plane and flew out to see her. Then I flew across half the country to visit with her again. Each day speaking to her in the morning on the way to work...then again during my breaks and my lunch...again as I arived home to my dogs...then once again as I went to sleep....cause I needed her voice in my ear.

At the end of next month....I am moving to spend my days and nights with her. I put in my notice at work yesterday. I told my family, my friends and my coworkers that I have spent a long time developing a real relationship built on love, friendship, respect, understanding and patience...and that I am leaving. They are thrilled for me. Everyone is so supportive.

I am getting new teeth before I go...cause I want to smile so big for her when I get there...instead of hiding the part of me that I hate. (none of you have ever seen me smile)

I am giving everything that I ain't taking to the guys I work with. All my furniture, lamps, mirrors, most of my clothes, tools...all of it. I don't need it.

I ain't taking alot...cause she is all I need. (and the house is furnished)...I am taking my clothes, my dog, my car and a few personal items on a 2,130 mile trip next month to start a new life with a woman I have grown to love.

I am as nervous and excited as a person can be.

I got the guts to step up...flop my heart on the table....and take the chance that I am good enough to be loved.

No matter what, I can at least know that I gave everything I got for a shot at love.

I spent waaaaay toooo many years being safe.....

Now is the time I stand up to the plate and EARN my homerun.


So...yes, long distance relationships can work.


:thumbsup:

no photo
Thu 07/26/12 06:39 AM

This is just my take on it and this applies strictly to me....

I began talking to a really cool chick who kinda slowly made herself known into conversations on Mingle. The more I talked to her, the more we got along. Eventually, I grew to like her enough and felt a bond grow to the point, I got on a plane and flew out to see her. Then I flew across half the country to visit with her again. Each day speaking to her in the morning on the way to work...then again during my breaks and my lunch...again as I arived home to my dogs...then once again as I went to sleep....cause I needed her voice in my ear.

At the end of next month....I am moving to spend my days and nights with her. I put in my notice at work yesterday. I told my family, my friends and my coworkers that I have spent a long time developing a real relationship built on love, friendship, respect, understanding and patience...and that I am leaving. They are thrilled for me. Everyone is so supportive.

I am getting new teeth before I go...cause I want to smile so big for her when I get there...instead of hiding the part of me that I hate. (none of you have ever seen me smile)

I am giving everything that I ain't taking to the guys I work with. All my furniture, lamps, mirrors, most of my clothes, tools...all of it. I don't need it.

I ain't taking alot...cause she is all I need. (and the house is furnished)...I am taking my clothes, my dog, my car and a few personal items on a 2,130 mile trip next month to start a new life with a woman I have grown to love.

I am as nervous and excited as a person can be.

I got the guts to step up...flop my heart on the table....and take the chance that I am good enough to be loved.

No matter what, I can at least know that I gave everything I got for a shot at love.

I spent waaaaay toooo many years being safe.....

Now is the time I stand up to the plate and EARN my homerun.


So...yes, long distance relationships can work.


Awesome! We need more posts and thinking like this. I wish you both the bestest of the best. drinker

Median's photo
Thu 07/26/12 10:32 AM
Well I've just started a fairly long distance friendship, but if things work out I'm prepared to move to any location. It can work!

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Thu 07/26/12 10:46 AM

This is just my take on it and this applies strictly to me....

I began talking to a really cool chick who kinda slowly made herself known into conversations on Mingle. The more I talked to her, the more we got along. Eventually, I grew to like her enough and felt a bond grow to the point, I got on a plane and flew out to see her. Then I flew across half the country to visit with her again. Each day speaking to her in the morning on the way to work...then again during my breaks and my lunch...again as I arived home to my dogs...then once again as I went to sleep....cause I needed her voice in my ear.

At the end of next month....I am moving to spend my days and nights with her. I put in my notice at work yesterday. I told my family, my friends and my coworkers that I have spent a long time developing a real relationship built on love, friendship, respect, understanding and patience...and that I am leaving. They are thrilled for me. Everyone is so supportive.

I am getting new teeth before I go...cause I want to smile so big for her when I get there...instead of hiding the part of me that I hate. (none of you have ever seen me smile)

I am giving everything that I ain't taking to the guys I work with. All my furniture, lamps, mirrors, most of my clothes, tools...all of it. I don't need it.

I ain't taking alot...cause she is all I need. (and the house is furnished)...I am taking my clothes, my dog, my car and a few personal items on a 2,130 mile trip next month to start a new life with a woman I have grown to love.

I am as nervous and excited as a person can be.

I got the guts to step up...flop my heart on the table....and take the chance that I am good enough to be loved.

No matter what, I can at least know that I gave everything I got for a shot at love.

I spent waaaaay toooo many years being safe.....

Now is the time I stand up to the plate and EARN my homerun.


So...yes, long distance relationships can work.




Made me feel so happy when I read thishappy ..I read it to my guy...smitten You are a tootsie roll pop Krupa...Soft, sweet, and chewy in the middle..I know you will have a wonderful life by the sea....drinker

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Thu 07/26/12 12:03 PM





Made me feel so happy when I read thishappy ..I read it to my guy...smitten You are a tootsie roll pop Krupa...Soft, sweet, and chewy in the middle..I know you will have a wonderful life by the sea....drinker
YOU DID??? oh wait...you did slaphead

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Thu 07/26/12 12:08 PM






Made me feel so happy when I read thishappy ..I read it to my guy...smitten You are a tootsie roll pop Krupa...Soft, sweet, and chewy in the middle..I know you will have a wonderful life by the sea....drinker
YOU DID??? oh wait...you did slaphead


Short term memory loss is one of the first signs of aging ManO....whoa What's my name?spock

no photo
Thu 07/26/12 12:10 PM







Made me feel so happy when I read thishappy ..I read it to my guy...smitten You are a tootsie roll pop Krupa...Soft, sweet, and chewy in the middle..I know you will have a wonderful life by the sea....drinker
YOU DID??? oh wait...you did slaphead


Short term memory loss is one of the first signs of aging ManO....whoa What's my name?spock
what did you say ???

no photo
Thu 07/26/12 12:11 PM








Made me feel so happy when I read thishappy ..I read it to my guy...smitten You are a tootsie roll pop Krupa...Soft, sweet, and chewy in the middle..I know you will have a wonderful life by the sea....drinker
YOU DID??? oh wait...you did slaphead


Short term memory loss is one of the first signs of aging ManO....whoa What's my name?spock
what did you say ???


I said memory, not hearing...Although eventually that may happen toO...pitchfork

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Thu 07/26/12 12:33 PM
I think it can work if the two people really want it to work and they truly trust each other.

daffeh7's photo
Thu 07/26/12 03:32 PM

I think it can work if the two people really want it to work and they truly trust each other.
very right

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Thu 07/26/12 04:51 PM









Made me feel so happy when I read thishappy ..I read it to my guy...smitten You are a tootsie roll pop Krupa...Soft, sweet, and chewy in the middle..I know you will have a wonderful life by the sea....drinker
YOU DID??? oh wait...you did slaphead


Short term memory loss is one of the first signs of aging ManO....whoa What's my name?spock
what did you say ???


I said memory, not hearing...Although eventually that may happen toO...pitchfork
asleep

no photo
Thu 07/26/12 05:02 PM










Made me feel so happy when I read thishappy ..I read it to my guy...smitten You are a tootsie roll pop Krupa...Soft, sweet, and chewy in the middle..I know you will have a wonderful life by the sea....drinker
YOU DID??? oh wait...you did slaphead


Short term memory loss is one of the first signs of aging ManO....whoa What's my name?spock
what did you say ???


I said memory, not hearing...Although eventually that may happen toO...pitchfork
asleep


Nodding off is another oneshocked ......You're scaring me scared


no photo
Thu 07/26/12 05:03 PM











Made me feel so happy when I read thishappy ..I read it to my guy...smitten You are a tootsie roll pop Krupa...Soft, sweet, and chewy in the middle..I know you will have a wonderful life by the sea....drinker
YOU DID??? oh wait...you did slaphead


Short term memory loss is one of the first signs of aging ManO....whoa What's my name?spock
what did you say ???


I said memory, not hearing...Although eventually that may happen toO...pitchfork
asleep


Nodding off is another oneshocked ......You're scaring me scared


pitchfork

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Thu 07/26/12 05:19 PM

This is just my take on it and this applies strictly to me....

I began talking to a really cool chick who kinda slowly made herself known into conversations on Mingle. The more I talked to her, the more we got along. Eventually, I grew to like her enough and felt a bond grow to the point, I got on a plane and flew out to see her. Then I flew across half the country to visit with her again. Each day speaking to her in the morning on the way to work...then again during my breaks and my lunch...again as I arived home to my dogs...then once again as I went to sleep....cause I needed her voice in my ear.

At the end of next month....I am moving to spend my days and nights with her. I put in my notice at work yesterday. I told my family, my friends and my coworkers that I have spent a long time developing a real relationship built on love, friendship, respect, understanding and patience...and that I am leaving. They are thrilled for me. Everyone is so supportive.

I am getting new teeth before I go...cause I want to smile so big for her when I get there...instead of hiding the part of me that I hate. (none of you have ever seen me smile)

I am giving everything that I ain't taking to the guys I work with. All my furniture, lamps, mirrors, most of my clothes, tools...all of it. I don't need it.

I ain't taking alot...cause she is all I need. (and the house is furnished)...I am taking my clothes, my dog, my car and a few personal items on a 2,130 mile trip next month to start a new life with a woman I have grown to love.

I am as nervous and excited as a person can be.

I got the guts to step up...flop my heart on the table....and take the chance that I am good enough to be loved.

No matter what, I can at least know that I gave everything I got for a shot at love.

I spent waaaaay toooo many years being safe.....

Now is the time I stand up to the plate and EARN my homerun.


So...yes, long distance relationships can work.




This is beautiful news!