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Topic: at your first date....
broadmaverick Joined Sat 04/07/12 Posts: 5	Sun 07/08/12 08:34 AM
do you talk about sex when you are dating with a person for the first time?

jaded72 Joined Tue 12/06/11 Posts: 1456	Sun 07/08/12 08:50 AM
No.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Sun 07/08/12 09:30 AM
No. I talk about marriage!

tazzops Joined Sat 12/20/08 Posts: 33333	Sun 07/08/12 09:43 AM
Nope. Not even the third date.

L14ra Joined Tue 06/26/12 Posts: 135	Sun 07/08/12 09:49 AM
Absolutely Not

Chloe23Irish Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 717	Sun 07/08/12 09:53 AM
Nooooooo

Godiva Joined Tue 12/09/08 Posts: 5330	Sun 07/08/12 01:15 PM
Sure why not. Then you can jump right into talking about not seeing each other anymore.

Christinacospgs Joined Sun 04/27/08 Posts: 6376	Sun 07/08/12 01:19 PM
Sure why not. Then you can jump right into talking about not seeing each other anymore.

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Mon 07/09/12 08:30 AM
I think it is probably not really necessary on the first few dates and ups your odds of sounding desperate or neurotic. Sex is one of those things that adults do generally think about so stands to reason it will eventually be a topic of conversation but just be smart and keep that on the back burner and see if you actually like this person's personality first.

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Mon 07/09/12 08:34 AM
Yes, with diagrams and charts.

Pr1nc3ss Joined Thu 07/05/12 Posts: 39	Mon 07/09/12 09:46 AM
Not even close...

wrmnnaturl Joined Mon 07/02/12 Posts: 22	Mon 07/09/12 01:10 PM
hmm..depends on the person I'm with I suppose....if it's a guy I don't respect then why not..but if it's a guy I respect and want that to be returned my way..absolutely not....if I'd like to see the guy again that topic is out of the question...

blueeyes2000 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 1517	Tue 07/10/12 03:02 AM
Sure,why not? You can also play footsie and make suggestive faces at each other too.

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Thu 07/12/12 07:33 PM
Why talk about it.

Kaleijoscope Joined Fri 10/15/10 Posts: 3319	Thu 07/12/12 08:22 PM Edited by Kaleijoscope on Thu 07/12/12 08:23 PM
why sex topic right away?..ran out of things to discuss on a first date? that's a bad sign...

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Thu 07/12/12 08:30 PM
do you talk about sex when you are dating with a person for the first time? No way. I don't think with my genitals.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 07/12/12 08:37 PM
If you're going to talk about sex with her right away, only do so if she's into sex that quickly. Otherwise, you'll absolutely scare her off.

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Thu 07/12/12 08:54 PM
I'd be slap out of luck if I didn't talk sex when she comes up to my truck and asks if I'm looking for a date.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 07/12/12 08:58 PM
I'd be slap out of luck if I didn't talk sex when she comes up to my truck and asks if I'm looking for a date. That's how you get dates? Only when they come up to your truck?

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Thu 07/12/12 09:04 PM
I'd be slap out of luck if I didn't talk sex when she comes up to my truck and asks if I'm looking for a date. That's how you get dates? Only when they come up to your truck? No. Sometimes I'm in my car. It's not only, always, most of the time, usually or any other cute, little, trick words. I think the topic is about would it be appropriate to talk sex on a first date. Depends on the date. Do you always talk sex on or before your first dates?