If you meet someone who lives in another state, how far away is too far away?

1o minutes by Car is too far away.............

another state like were lol even in state there a people to far from me especially for those of us that don't have a car

The last one was 2500 miles. Was it too far? NO BUDDY!!!

I don't think anything is to far for True Love....

I guess, I am just concerned that if I met someone in another state, and things went really well, who would move? It is hard to have a long distance relationship, especially if you want to make it long term.

You need to discuss the possibility of one of you relocating while you are talking, before you get too involved. If the person means enough to you, then you need to be prepared to move to them, or they will want to move to be with you.

If it is true love, they would be worth it.

thanks

You know how far is too far for you. There are planes, trains, and automobiles! It can be done.

After all, another state is 20 minutes for me. The one I am meeting is across my state. How far is it?

It is both a financial and an emotional commitment. LDRs are difficult and to ultimately meet your goal, someone has to move. I moved... it didn't work out but that doesn't mean I wouldn't consider it again.

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I haven't met anyone yet. Just looking at possibilities. Trust me, the men in my area, I would gladly move away from, lol. I have only had one long distance relationship and it didn't work out too well. We both moved back east at about the same time and thinking it would be easier for us to be together and he bailed.
So, just kind of looking for answers in advance.

I have to agree with ALLSMILES.But you have to be willing to spend a lot of time together to really get to know each other.

The main reason it didn't work for us was we didn't really get to know each other very well doing the weekend romance thing. It takes a huge time commitment to be secure in your choice.

i don't really think i would move were they are i rather be close to my family even though sometimes they treat me bad lol but that is just me if its true love they should go to you. yeah its hard to find that true love again even after you had it once before i was never married but yes i was with someone for along time:) an i agree silk some of the men in my area are way too old or really not worth it an yeah i do have age limit too one mine sorry but last guy i was with was 17yrs older then me an well family didnt really prove but you know what at the time we were both happy

That depends.

Are you just across
the border from the
other person?

If I can't walk...It's too far!!!!!!!!!!

I have noticed a lot of people have read this topic and there have been some very good replies as well;
All in all, I think it really comes down to committment and respect for one another; How far is too far? Some people believe that anything past 50 miles is too far--some people would travel the world over if it is true love; For the younger members here, life is beginning in the adult world, trials, errors and lessons to be learned;everything is fun at this stage; As for others, there may be home ownership, careers that have been built for many years; stability and children (and yes even some who are caretakers for their elderly parents or children) also come into this big picture as well. I would say if communication is open and all bases are touched and discussed life will work itself out for both; Sometimes life is about give, take and compromise. I wish you well in your journey for your special someone......sometimes the road is a long one.

all i have to say is am in arkansas and there gone

i would think if the person really likes you then i guess its you or him to make the choice to move