First off, I apologize to all my Mingle friends for not having been here in a long time.

Here's the situation: I've been seeing someone I REALLY like and I made the mistake of letting him know that twice. Last time, two weeks ago, I got the "I really like you, too, but I told you I'm not interested in a relationship."

Skip to the present where all of a sudden he's professing his undying love.

'The only way to win..
is not to play the game'

JOSHUA, War Games

Time indeed to find a man. JMO.

im probably a bit too young to share my thoughts on this, but i am having seen i guess many relationships blossom and fail...

I reckon u take everything with a pinch of salt... Be very straightforward u are not lookin to play games if he is really serious... n professes undying love then why not marry u or get engaged (if tats wat u are lookin for eventually too) ...

If he falters or does not even consider the option then u would have ur answer... Just walk away and if u are strongly feeling its a game... Dont play it!!

U would be the person who ultimately burns ur feathers... Take care and all the best.

Since when is it wrong to communicate your true feelings to someone you really like?...as if relationships can be manipulated successfully...what he's saying is that he would like to continue enjoying all the benefits of a couple, but without being a couple...he's using you for sex - you may or may not already know that...get serious or get out!

Wow! Very good young lady!

Well, anyone can change their mind at any given time... he may have had some sort of realization and indeed has decided you are the one. But as was said above, I would just be very cautious and talk to him about it and really find out where is head and heart are at. I would not just jump head first into a bunch of flowery words and spoken promises. If it is indeed something strong and deep, then there is no need to rush it.

Good luck.

"You play a good game, boy...
but the game is finished.
Now you die!"

- The Tall Man, Phantasm

Ok. So when he told you he wasn't interested in a relationship, did you decide to move along? And then two weeks later, he comes back professing his undying love? If so, thenn the phrase "Don't know what you got till it's gone" comes to mind.

Well he sounds like a moron. Time to move on. You expressed this twice and he still didn't know what he had.

If the day ever arrives when I finally understand men, that is the day I will give advice. That is all I have got. Good luck with your choices. But no peace about the relationship generally means something is amiss. Trust your gut instinct.