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Topic: is cheating a blessing or a curse
Kingsley101 Joined Mon 08/15/11 Posts: 11	Sat 06/30/12 02:35 PM
i dnt understand why people cheat.i nid solution

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sat 06/30/12 02:37 PM
What's so hard to understand about it? The solution is to move on.

blueeyes2000 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 1517	Sat 06/30/12 03:19 PM
Why would cheating be a blessing?

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Sat 06/30/12 03:52 PM
Oh man! . I think that can swing both ways. A blessing for the one who is cheating. A curse for the one that finds out.

FindMe1113 Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 35104	Sat 06/30/12 04:29 PM
i dnt understand why people cheat.i nid solution NEITHER! It's just WRONG!

Jesally Joined Sun 06/03/12 Posts: 180	Sat 06/30/12 04:35 PM
Cheating is just so evil! 'Just don't understand why you regarded is as a blessing.

Jesally Joined Sun 06/03/12 Posts: 180	Sat 06/30/12 04:39 PM
What's so hard to understand about it? The solution is to move on. Where's your cat Totage?:)

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Sat 06/30/12 04:45 PM
i dnt understand why people cheat.i nid solution NEITHER! It's just WRONG! my ex hubby cheated on me before during and after we got married i still talk to him every so often and which has most of it about our son(hes 25yrs old now) i can say in some point cheating can be a blessing when you already know he is and yes i admit its wrong he has 6kids his oldest is my son whos 25 and his youngest is his daughter who 21 you can see he was having his joy of time thinking he was gods gift.... he has been married to his 2nd wife for 20yrs and he has told me he hasent been happy well thats not my fault but now he tells me, he wants me back.......OMG!!!!!!! i just cant see that, and im thinking i know what my family would say

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sat 06/30/12 04:51 PM
What's so hard to understand about it? The solution is to move on. Where's your cat Totage?:) I had to take the suit to the cleaners. I got a clean shave while I was out as well. :P

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sat 06/30/12 05:26 PM
reason 1. because they can reason 2. because they feel entitled to whatever the flesh wants reason 3. because there has not been a clear mutual commitment established

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Sat 06/30/12 05:34 PM
Cheating is a blessing only if you dump their cheating a$$. You deserved better.

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Sat 06/30/12 07:01 PM
Cheating is a blessing only if you dump their cheating a$$. You deserved better. EXACTLY!!! for they would continue doing it

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Sun 07/01/12 05:50 AM
Cheating is just so evil! 'Just don't understand why you regarded is as a blessing. Not sure if you were asking me or someone else. lol. My take on it is that it would possibly only be a blessing for the one doing the cheating. As they are having their cake and eating it, but more fool them. It will eventually catch up with the cheater, once it kicks in what a true greedy dirty pig they really are. They shouldn't still be clueless then as to why their lover dumped them.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Sun 07/01/12 06:25 AM
i dnt understand why people cheat.i nid solution People cheat for lots of reasons...Once caught, it doesn't matter how a cheater rationalizes or explains it...It only means one thing....The person who cheated put his or her needs and wants above yours....In my experience I have not met one couple who successfully reconciled after a cheating episode was discovered because, try as they do, they are never able to fully trust their partner again...It's the ultimate betrayal...

69shezbian69 Joined Sat 06/30/12 Posts: 2	Sun 07/01/12 08:14 AM
i think if u r a cheater u shouldnt get in a relationship unless the relationship can b an open 1 x

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Sun 07/01/12 08:48 AM
i think if u r a cheater u shouldnt get in a relationship unless the relationship can b an open 1 x open relationships dont work my ex hubby before we got married wanted one and he went to bed with a girl i went to school with he knew i was mad, but you think he cared..... HECK NO!!!!!! hes been with his 2nd wife now for 20-21yrs and im sure he has cheated, in fact he had called me the other nite and you guest it.. he wants a fling with me... SORRY BUD!!! he cheated on me with another girl and he cheated on her with his 2nd wife all before our divorced was finalized i can say that he isent much of a dad especially towards our son hes a freaken wimp in mouse clothing

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Sun 07/01/12 08:55 AM
Once I'm with someone I have no desire for someone else. Too busy trying to make sure my honey is happy too!

Godiva Joined Tue 12/09/08 Posts: 5330	Sun 07/01/12 02:13 PM
Why would cheating be a blessing? The $1,000,000 question isn't it? The answer is bupkis. Bupkis is the answer to all insane questions.

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Tue 07/03/12 10:48 AM
The only way I would consider catching someone cheating a blessing was if it was way early on in the relationahip and you could dump them before you were compromised. Then I would thank my lucky stars.