Have you sat down and really talked to her about it?

It could be a lot of things. It could be nothing at all. She could be bored, unhappy, depressed, unmotivated, who knows? And I am not speaking about you in that regard, but about life in general. You mentioned the stuff you used to do, and how it has trickled off, but have you tried doing anything new recently? I mean I do not know what all you are talking about, or what interests either one of you has or what all you have done... but have you tried surprising her with tickets to a show she wants to see, or doing something spontaneous like going stargazing late at night somewhere alone, or going on a roadtrip to see someplace new, or writing a love note and sending it with some flowers to her on the job or something? It is real easy to think that just because something starts one way, it will continue going that same way with no changes. And I am not saying you have not been trying anything... but maybe you guys are just in a rut and need to do some new things to get out of it and remind each other why you are together in the first place.

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if talking about it doesnt seem to work, how about giving her some space...just enough for her to miss you...

I hate to say it,but i am just gonna be blunt and honest as usual(i would hate it if people would try to sugarcoat the truth for me)...anyways,she's just not that into you anymore. Either because there is someone else,or she just got bored with the relationship you guys have,and maybe wants more out of the relationship or just wants something different. Either way,why speculate?? Save yourself the time and the headache of trying to figure her out when she clearly turned a deaf ear to u,and either give her an ultimatum (her telling u what's wrong,and maybe you guys can try and salvage that relationship),or just end the relationship.Either way,why prolong the emotional suffering?!

I don't get it. I have been at my job for a few months now where I met my girlfriend (Ya, I know don't date people you work with). We got very close over the time we worked together and now are practically living together.

Over the past week she seems more distant and not talk talkitive (she used to text me like 40 times a day or call me), and when she gets home from work we dont really talk much and either watch a movie or goto sleep :( I try to ask her whats wrong but she keeps saying nothing. We were having so much fun together, messing around and doing things, always holding eachother, talking to eachother etc and that seemed to turn off like a dan light switch.

I hope I am just reading too much into this because I honestly found someone who I have a lot in common with and who I have a lot of fun with.

Any advice or help would be great!

"The genie tells him that is to difficult to build a bridge and to ask for something else. The man then tells the genie that he wants to understand women. The genie asks "so where did you want the bridge again?"

This reminds me of a story. A man is walking on a beach in California and comes across a bottle. He opens the bottle and out pops a genie. The man is informed he gets 1 wish. Being an unselfish man he wishes the genie construct a bridge from China to California. The genie tells him that is to difficult and to ask for something else. The man then tells the genie that he wants to understand women. The genie asks "so where did you want the bridge again?"