How are you supposed to meet people on here. Just browse through profiles and message them over and over again?

Mmm Think of Mingle as a corner tavern.
People coming and going.
Telling it all to the bartender.
Running into strangers.
The first time.
After that, acquaintances, one day, friends.

The more you visit, the more people
you will meet.
Ever increasing your chances of finding
what you seek.

So, I would have to say..the forums are
the fastest route.

Don´t worry Dannyboy, we´ve all been anxious before. My advice is to follow Soufie´s advice. I tell you, this lady is just so kind and so right! thanks to her and a few other ladies I improved my profile and met new people already!
so DO AS SHE SAYS!! :)

In my town prostitution is legal, but soliciting for it is not.

So I usually just play Monopoly on Friday nights with my buddies from high school.

I have not smelled the scent of a woman for over a decade.

Don't be discouraged. Just roll with the punches. You get married, you get laid; you are single, you are late. Nothing works, man. Don't take the blame on you, and don't put it on the site or on women. This is the sign of times. Nature's method of combatting the overpopulation of our globe. Until now, Christianity and horniness was winning. Now it's swinging the other way around again. The term "swinging bachelor" has taken a brand new meaning. You see, G.W. Bush way overdid it, so Mother Nature is in fore. "Go, forth yourselves and multiply" is no longer the motto. "Just say no" is.

Erm... I tried that. I thought of Mingle as a corner tavern, and I still never got laid.

Sometimes it's better to say the truth than to say nothing at all.

If this is the fastest route, then you'd better have a VERY good life insurance policy, so the insce company takes good care of you and you'll live to 200 years of age. With a little luck, there will come in that span another sexual revolution, although numerical analysis shows that in industrialized western-type societies they happen once every ten thousand years, on the average.

Maybe you did but had too many drinks at the Mingle tavern to remember

Justie, the lady is right, kind, and the right kind. She smart, blonde, petite and knows people. (I mean she knows human nature. I have contrarian evidence to her dating a Kennedy boy. She's doing one better than that -- Kruppa!! Himself.)

But I think she, single handedly, can only make the sexual revolution happen only for one man at a time. Now, if she used two hands... well, never mind.

Yellowrose, you're still around? Some people around her were saying you died.

I usually lurk lol. But I've also been busy lately. Or this could just be my ghost posting...who knows

So... how does ghost writer as a job pay? I would rather walk through walls and rattle my chain, than write books for others.

If you don't mind my asking a personal question... when was the last time you got laid? I don't mean to be offensive, just curious. Does it REALLY happen still to single people? Or is sex something that has completely become a phantom of our times? A ghost of sorts?

they won't give bank accounts to ghosts....so not very well. The pay comes from the fun of haunting and lurking lol



let's see...what year is it now?

It's been a while, but I'm fine with it.

Maybe if I'm a ghost I will get lucky? hmmmmm there is something to ponder

Danny, seem the scene has changed. Let's say about 12 years ago, the scene wsa different. Mostly were chat rooms and I met the ladies in person after meeting them in chat rooms (this was in AOL), then it gotten harder and I switched to dating sites but no success. Met them online only. Only two ladies and the last one was in 2004. Really sucks, man.

I used to write replies to profiles in the 2000's and I used to get a few replies (maybe 10 percent of them) but now, no replies. Things change. I guess people today are using social media method and many dating sites have forums and it makes it look more like social media than true dating sites (those without forums/chat rooms). Today, the scene is you talk on here and it takes way too long before you get replies.

Some people here says its like a bar. No, in my opinion, I see it more of a.. singles club having a coffeehouse with everyone sitting down and talking. Big difference than a bar. The trend is more toward coffeehouse style than bars. Many bars (real physcial places) in my hometown has decline greatly. Many night clubs folded. Restaurants like Panera Bread, Timmies (Tim Horton), and Dunkin Dounra are strong presence for people to get a cup of coffee and talk with others. That is how I see it around here in my hometown. Well, answer is same in here.

Biggest thing is to just be yourself take part in the forums and have fun. You will meet more people and you will talk to more women than you would on facebook. Enjoy yourself but dont be a pervert or a jerk.

My bro-in-law is a Senator.
He has a LOT of porn.
I think my sister got him single-handedly.

Hm. He plays for the Senators, or is he a true-blue low-brow pro-porn pro-bono bro-in-law senator of yours.

You must get a lot of voting cards each election, do you. I mean, beerstore workers bring home free beer, brick layers, free bricks, bank employees, free money (I know I did), and senators, free votes.

In my family there were a lot of physicians and surgeons, and Uncle Fred, when he died, left 234 skeletons of left legs behind with the foot bones attached to his grieving wife. Apparently, collecting left legs had been his hobby. Auntie Rebecca was a necrophelica, she got her dream job of coroner in the state's hanging execution unit. Cousin Egbert found the cure for stupidity, but the US Senate bought up his patent.

Legislative, not athletic :-)
I would make a straight trade for Cousin Egbert.

HOLY CRAP....am I the only one suffering a bit of anxiety trying this out...lol...It's been a while...Not sure if I am any good at this anymore

Somebody come save me from the inside of my head...I have a lot of time to be in there...it's kinda dark and scary...lol

Are you willing to throw in Boardwalk and Park Place, and five hundred dollars?

I only don't ask for more Monopoly money because I know that being a senator is a big deal down there.

Okay. My advicde is leave it closed. Cutting a light-hole in your skull may not be the best idea these days.

If it's scary, then buy and munch on some nachos, and pretend it's a horror movie. I've been surviving my life because with my incredible power of suggestion I believe I am a zombie in a land of transgendered alien mutated robots.

You have now gone from peeking into the
psychiatric unit..to opening the door :-)

It's all about the chatter..THAT is how you
get to know people here.