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Topic: The kinds of people that get attracted to you
Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Tue 06/12/12 04:01 AM
I get messaged alot by younger guys. I think they just have fantasies going on in their sweet young minds. They tend to forget that the people they are messaging may be creeped out by their enthusiasm.

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Tue 06/12/12 06:44 AM
The one thing that gets me is, It seems that a great majority of younger women seem to think when a man hits 50 he's over the hill. That he can't keep up. He's no fun. For most who think that way it's a lack of maturity on them. A lot of them seem to think that when a man hits 50 he can't keep up in the sex department. When in most cases that's not true either. Women for the most part hit their prime at around 30 to 35. It starts to go down hill for most women around 45. I kinda have to disagree. Most younger men I've dated have treat me with respect. What about the younger men who take responsibility and go to university and such? They are not all bad. Some are still douches of course, but why lump them all into one category calling them all bad? You'd be surprised how well-educated and mature some of them really are. The same with women. Unless it all depends on how you treat them?

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 06/12/12 09:25 AM
I wonder why i always attract men much younger than 22 years old unlike the ones in my age bracket (between 25 - 36). I really find that weird. Have you experienced the same? Do you have specific categories of people that get attracted to you? I seem to attract women of various ages and for reasons I can't explain. One woman was attracted to me cause of my eyes. Another loved how goofy I am. I learned to not question it and just go with the flow. Women are crazy anyway, but I love em!

carilou Joined Tue 06/12/12 Posts: 10	Tue 06/12/12 05:34 PM
I seem to attract older men in their 60's even when I specify otherwise. I wonder why that is? I hope I don't look old

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Tue 06/12/12 05:40 PM
A lot of younger guys want a cougar. I found one the other day. She's in her 70', not dead or in a nursing home and has made the Guinness Book of World Records.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Tue 06/12/12 10:24 PM
*In the words of Vanessa Angel in Kingpin* "I am every guy's type."**

Charles1962150 Joined Tue 03/13/12 Posts: 3403	Tue 06/12/12 10:55 PM
I seem to attract older men in their 60's even when I specify otherwise. I wonder why that is? I hope I don't look old You're 53. Guys 10 to as much as 15 yrs older than you will be attracted to you. It's nature. It's just the way it is. For a woman of 53 to attract men in there 60's, That's common. If he was 50, He would be after women at least around 35 to 40 give or take 5 yrs either way. This is one of the things that makes men in general wonder about women in general. It seems that women in general want to attract above what they are really capable of attracting. Then a lot of them wonder why they are alone. Another thing I've noticed. For as long as I can remember before the past 10 maybe 20 yrs or so. It was common place for a woman of lets say 40, To be with a man of 50 to 55. Now I see women on these dating sites around 40 lets say, trying to attract men of 45 to 47. They wonder why they are not getting much of anywhere. These guys 45 to 47 are looking for women around 35 to 37. Ten to 15 yrs younger than them. Everything is out of kilter now.

gilmourgirl Joined Mon 09/26/11 Posts: 64	Wed 06/13/12 11:58 AM
Either 20-somethings or older bums. Can't win either way.

Labo Joined Thu 06/09/11 Posts: 1	Wed 06/13/12 02:13 PM
You look younger and beautiful than the women of your age, that's why i think younger men are attracted to you.