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TammyA Joined Sat 03/10/12 Posts: 300	Tue 05/15/12 06:43 PM
Alot of Asian women I have known are demanding and controlling. And one in particular says, "if a man isn't taking me out, spending money on me, then he's cheap Charlie" and she will have nothing more to do with him.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Tue 05/15/12 06:51 PM
Alot of Asian women I have known are demanding and controlling. And one in particular says, "if a man isn't taking me out, spending money on me, then he's cheap Charlie" and she will have nothing more to do with him. TammyA, you and I live in the same community. So, just who are these demanding, controlling Asian women? Are any of them single?

TammyA Joined Sat 03/10/12 Posts: 300	Tue 05/15/12 06:54 PM
Some are ex co-workers, some are ex customers, one is my manicurist, and she is single. She likes to be wined and dined.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Tue 05/15/12 07:03 PM
Some are ex co-workers, some are ex customers, one is my manicurist, and she is single. She likes to be wined and dined. That might explain why she is single.

TammyA Joined Sat 03/10/12 Posts: 300	Tue 05/15/12 07:07 PM
Well if Asian women are such great catches, why wouldn't any guy be willing to wine and dine her????

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Tue 05/15/12 07:09 PM
In today's economy, who can afford wine?

MissB4ya Joined Wed 04/18/12 Posts: 526	Tue 05/15/12 08:36 PM
Well if Asian women are such great catches, why wouldn't any guy be willing to wine and dine her???? Cheers to that

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Tue 05/15/12 08:39 PM
I'm an equal opportunity groper, I have no ethnic preferences.

Cristina40 Joined Tue 05/15/12 Posts: 4	Tue 05/15/12 08:44 PM
Two words: Yoko Ono. ;-)

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Tue 05/15/12 08:45 PM
Yoko Ono did nothing for me. Bleh.

Sloe00 Joined Sat 03/03/12 Posts: 434	Tue 05/15/12 08:48 PM
what`s the difference between a 'fetish' & a 'preference',,,,i`ve wondered that,,,,,but after a while,,,,,,ceased to care..LOL

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Tue 05/15/12 09:18 PM
what`s the difference between a 'fetish' & a 'preference',,,,i`ve wondered that,,,,,but after a while,,,,,,ceased to care..LOL Dictionary wise I am sure there is a different definition. Real world wise I am not sure there is a difference, is there? IDK

Cristina40 Joined Tue 05/15/12 Posts: 4	Wed 05/16/12 07:43 AM
Yoko Ono did nothing for me. Bleh. Hippie, I was being sarcastic. This idea of Asian women being sweet, cute and obedient is just a stereotype. Some are known for being demanding and controling, like someone already said. Thats why I mentioned Yoko.

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Wed 05/16/12 08:16 AM
Yoko Ono did nothing for me. Bleh. Hippie, I was being sarcastic. This idea of Asian women being sweet, cute and obedient is just a stereotype. Some are known for being demanding and controling, like someone already said. Thats why I mentioned Yoko. That's not race specific.

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Wed 05/16/12 10:19 AM
I must admit having this "preference" and dealing with demanding personalities. I believe it is the high cheekbones, full lip, soft noses and chocolately brown eyes

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Wed 05/16/12 10:51 AM
but now that I think of it, I have met demanding women in all shades, but do not hold that the most demanding were of one shade or the other- I rather believe I have bad luck.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Wed 05/16/12 04:46 PM
I rather believe I have bad luck. If it weren't for bad luck, I'd have no luck at all.