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Tizar Joined Sat 04/28/12 Posts: 493	Tue 05/15/12 11:11 AM
Or it could mean something much deeper that originates from a vague memory in your childhood....like...almost choking on a cherry while an Asian chick walked by. when I was younger, maybe in my late teens, my mum had an asian friend, she was in her 40's. I wanted to marry her! :D

MissB4ya Joined Wed 04/18/12 Posts: 526	Tue 05/15/12 11:23 AM
Nice..... Mail order jail bate husband was exactly what she was looking for i'm sure.

Tizar Joined Sat 04/28/12 Posts: 493	Tue 05/15/12 11:31 AM
Nice..... Mail order jail bate husband was exactly what she was looking for i'm sure. well, the sad thing was that my mum realised that I liked her, and she never took me to see her again. boo hoo for me :(

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Tue 05/15/12 12:24 PM
Why do men have a thing for Asian chicks? I'm not sure if its just this cliche thing or if a lot of men really have this Asian fetish.... I honestly know a few men that do....but what is the fascination? Now i say "fetish" because the ones that have spoken on it, speak of it as though its a fetish and not a preference..... First of all, IMHO, non-Hispanic Caucasian women aren't as pretty as other women. So, an Asian woman gets a plus for not being a non-Hispanic Caucasian.* Second, Asian women tend to be shorter than other women, and plenty of men prefer to have mates who are shorter than them. Third, plenty of Asian women are petite, and plenty of men prefer to have mates who are petite. The physical size of a woman can have a psychological affect on a man, because the man may feel as if his masculinity is diminished if a woman is as big or as heavy as he is. Fourth, an Asian woman has a cultural background that results in her manners being different from those of - for example - a non-Hispanic Caucasian woman born and raised in the USA. However, such a cultural difference may not be as strong in an Asian woman who grew up in an affluent English-speaking community. Fifth, to a Caucasian man, an Asian woman is someone who is exotic, and "exotic" is a sexual turn-on. Sixth, Asian women tend to be cute as young adults, and they do not outgrow their cuteness. They may become glamorous, but they don't become outwardly ugly. Seventh, to a Caucasian man, an Asian woman may be a novelty, and plenty of men like novelties. [*I didn't say that non-Hispanic Caucasian women are ugly or that they can't be pretty, too. Besides, it is the way that a woman is on the inside that really counts. The question asked pertains to physical features, not to personality . . . Yeah, yeah, some of you still want to skewer me. Melmacian women were the same way, and so I'm used to it.]

Tizar Joined Sat 04/28/12 Posts: 493	Tue 05/15/12 12:37 PM
well said sir :)

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Tue 05/15/12 12:38 PM
Why do men have a thing for Asian chicks? I'm not sure if its just this cliche thing or if a lot of men really have this Asian fetish.... I honestly know a few men that do....but what is the fascination? Now i say "fetish" because the ones that have spoken on it, speak of it as though its a fetish and not a preference..... because they are so nice and beautiful...

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Tue 05/15/12 01:25 PM
I'm not Asian...can someone still like me please?!

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 05/15/12 01:27 PM
First of all, IMHO, non-Hispanic Caucasian women aren't as pretty as other women. So, an Asian woman gets a plus for not being a non-Hispanic Caucasian.* Second, Asian women tend to be shorter than other women, and plenty of men prefer to have mates who are shorter than them. Third, plenty of Asian women are petite, and plenty of men prefer to have mates who are petite. The physical size of a woman can have a psychological affect on a man, because the man may feel as if his masculinity is diminished if a woman is as big or as heavy as he is. Fourth, an Asian woman has a cultural background that results in her manners being different from those of - for example - a non-Hispanic Caucasian woman born and raised in the USA. However, such a cultural difference may not be as strong in an Asian woman who grew up in an affluent English-speaking community. Fifth, to a Caucasian man, an Asian woman is someone who is exotic, and "exotic" is a sexual turn-on. Sixth, Asian women tend to be cute as young adults, and they do not outgrow their cuteness. They may become glamorous, but they don't become outwardly ugly. Seventh, to a Caucasian man, an Asian woman may be a novelty, and plenty of men like novelties. [*I didn't say that non-Hispanic Caucasian women are ugly or that they can't be pretty, too. Besides, it is the way that a woman is on the inside that really counts. The question asked pertains to physical features, not to personality . . . Yeah, yeah, some of you still want to skewer me. Melmacian women were the same way, and so I'm used to it.] So now it's not just a preference, but that non-hispanic caucasion women just aren't as pretty? haha. Are you speaking for yourself, or all men?

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Tue 05/15/12 01:33 PM
Why do men have a thing for Asian chicks? I'm not sure if its just this cliche thing or if a lot of men really have this Asian fetish.... I honestly know a few men that do....but what is the fascination? Now i say "fetish" because the ones that have spoken on it, speak of it as though its a fetish and not a preference..... because they are so nice and beautiful... Except for all the mean ones.

Kahurangi Joined Thu 04/26/12 Posts: 1970	Tue 05/15/12 02:06 PM
First of all, IMHO, non-Hispanic Caucasian women aren't as pretty as other women. So, an Asian woman gets a plus for not being a non-Hispanic Caucasian.* Second, Asian women tend to be shorter than other women, and plenty of men prefer to have mates who are shorter than them. Third, plenty of Asian women are petite, and plenty of men prefer to have mates who are petite. The physical size of a woman can have a psychological affect on a man, because the man may feel as if his masculinity is diminished if a woman is as big or as heavy as he is. Fourth, an Asian woman has a cultural background that results in her manners being different from those of - for example - a non-Hispanic Caucasian woman born and raised in the USA. However, such a cultural difference may not be as strong in an Asian woman who grew up in an affluent English-speaking community. Fifth, to a Caucasian man, an Asian woman is someone who is exotic, and "exotic" is a sexual turn-on. Sixth, Asian women tend to be cute as young adults, and they do not outgrow their cuteness. They may become glamorous, but they don't become outwardly ugly. Seventh, to a Caucasian man, an Asian woman may be a novelty, and plenty of men like novelties. [*I didn't say that non-Hispanic Caucasian women are ugly or that they can't be pretty, too. Besides, it is the way that a woman is on the inside that really counts. The question asked pertains to physical features, not to personality . . . Yeah, yeah, some of you still want to skewer me. Melmacian women were the same way, and so I'm used to it.] So now it's not just a preference, but that non-hispanic caucasion women just aren't as pretty? haha. Are you speaking for yourself, or all men? Awww c'mon now, i find this really interesting. Let them speak.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Tue 05/15/12 02:30 PM
I'm not Asian...can someone still like me please?! I'll love you! I'm easy, I prefer all women.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Tue 05/15/12 03:41 PM
First of all, IMHO, non-Hispanic Caucasian women aren't as pretty as other women. So, an Asian woman gets a plus for not being a non-Hispanic Caucasian.* Second, Asian women tend to be shorter than other women, and plenty of men prefer to have mates who are shorter than them. Third, plenty of Asian women are petite, and plenty of men prefer to have mates who are petite. The physical size of a woman can have a psychological affect on a man, because the man may feel as if his masculinity is diminished if a woman is as big or as heavy as he is. Fourth, an Asian woman has a cultural background that results in her manners being different from those of - for example - a non-Hispanic Caucasian woman born and raised in the USA. However, such a cultural difference may not be as strong in an Asian woman who grew up in an affluent English-speaking community. Fifth, to a Caucasian man, an Asian woman is someone who is exotic, and "exotic" is a sexual turn-on. Sixth, Asian women tend to be cute as young adults, and they do not outgrow their cuteness. They may become glamorous, but they don't become outwardly ugly. Seventh, to a Caucasian man, an Asian woman may be a novelty, and plenty of men like novelties. [*I didn't say that non-Hispanic Caucasian women are ugly or that they can't be pretty, too. Besides, it is the way that a woman is on the inside that really counts. The question asked pertains to physical features, not to personality . . . Yeah, yeah, some of you still want to skewer me. Melmacian women were the same way, and so I'm used to it.] So now it's not just a preference, but that non-hispanic caucasion women just aren't as pretty? haha. Are you speaking for yourself, or all men? I said "IMHO", which means "In My Humble Opinion".

alookat101 Joined Fri 12/12/08 Posts: 17442	Tue 05/15/12 03:54 PM
I'm in my fifty's in the other day an Asian lady told me I was cute.., now that's special.

MissB4ya Joined Wed 04/18/12 Posts: 526	Tue 05/15/12 04:25 PM
So if I get mistaken for an Asian chick does that qualify for me to be considered cute,petite, and attractive. Ima tell you right now this big ole gal (big compared to most Asian chicks) ain't Asian..nor anything close to it.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Tue 05/15/12 04:33 PM
So if I get mistaken for an Asian chick does that qualify for me to be considered cute,petite, and attractive. Ima tell you right now this big ole gal (big compared to most Asian chicks) ain't Asian..nor anything close to it. Well, I'll give you "attractive". Just what is your ethnicity?

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Tue 05/15/12 04:36 PM
So if I get mistaken for an Asian chick does that qualify for me to be considered cute,petite, and attractive. Ima tell you right now this big ole gal (big compared to most Asian chicks) ain't Asian..nor anything close to it. Well, I'll give you "attractive". Just what is your ethnicity? Blaxican See, B, I pay attention.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Tue 05/15/12 04:45 PM
So if I get mistaken for an Asian chick does that qualify for me to be considered cute,petite, and attractive. Ima tell you right now this big ole gal (big compared to most Asian chicks) ain't Asian..nor anything close to it. Well, I'll give you "attractive". Just what is your ethnicity? Blaxican See, B, I pay attention. Doh!

MissB4ya Joined Wed 04/18/12 Posts: 526	Tue 05/15/12 06:27 PM
Doh indeed sir.

Kahurangi Joined Thu 04/26/12 Posts: 1970	Tue 05/15/12 06:33 PM
And some part Indian...which explains the Chuck Mahatmacoat on the sofa

MissB4ya Joined Wed 04/18/12 Posts: 526	Tue 05/15/12 06:36 PM
And some part Indian...which explains the Chuck Mahatmacoat on the sofa Indian? Where?! Who's sofa? Meh....Idk what your talking about...i'm going to the casino.