Why kick him to the curb. Have some fun with him. Wait till he is asleep and brand a'hole on his chest.

well ladies n gents, i followed my head but when he flew in he came and seen me, so we talked about it , as we were chatting his ex texted him confessing to have lied about them sleeping together cause she wasn't happy that he has moved on... The dragon.... So i'm thankful for the advice. And i know hee didn't put her up to it cause of the way he was talking about her and i lived with a cheater who bashed me for 7 years so i know alll the tell tale signs. Cause my ex not only cheated on mee but had me n three other women pregnant n going outt with a chick ten yrss younger then him... So i think i am ok with the new one forr he showed remorse where my ex's never did....

If he didnt bonk her, why is he remorseful? Ur getting played by them both in my opinion

Something sounds fishy about this. In your first message; you said he texted you about the affair. Now you say she texted him saying it wasn't true. So, did she get a hold of his cellphone and text you initially saying he had an affair? If so; then that would make sense how this all played out. If not; then I am really confused.

Jambo.

You need to work on how to speak BS fluently.

Yep If he didnt do it he had no reason to be sorry. I think maybe you should rethink what you are saying as anyone who is sorry did something.

thanks for the advice and have thought lot about it n no man that can't lie in bed straight is worth it. And with the speaking fluent BS well if i knew wat school u went to i'd sign up.
I've decided he isn't worth it and i need to concerntrate on myself first.... Thanks again.

Enough said . . . if this type of thing has happened to you before then you're putting yourself in situations that probably aren't necessarily the ideal situation. Take a long look at what is happening and then decide. But don't take the opinions and thoughts of what everyone is writing. Decide for yourself but only after you think about it. If were me, I would realize that nothing is perfect in the beginning. But if given the chance, everything happens the way we need them to happen. Whether it's good or bad.

generally atleast one parent would stay in the room with a sick or hurt child, so where the heck did the guy and the ex have sex at

don't worry honey he's sleep...just don't lay on his I.V. line

it is nice to have male opinions as well as females and with all that has been said i not only took note of advice which i asked for and yes we spoke but in the end burnt ones, twice and three times this little black duck has followed her heart n the brick wall did not cave it. Cause the second time we spoke all he did was talk about his ex, and that just put the alarm bells in motion... But this does not mean i give up or think that all males r the same...

I'm with you on this. If you're looking for perfection, you'll be loking for the rest of your life and find it in heaven. If you're looking for honesty and someone who wants to become better, you have to start somewhere, and you'll have to give someone a chance at breaking your heart. Only time will tell, but not if you run every time something goes wrong. It was a mistake at this point, not a trend. I would wait and see if it becomnes a trend before condemning anyone.

Ahh, the good old "whoops "it" slipped and fell in trick." I love it when men do this, makes the decision easier for us ladies. When a man is truly in love with a woman, there is no such thing as distractions or variables.

well if you dont know what to do you should evaluate urself id be ouot that mother n fin quick